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PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Women who expect men to be mind readers

PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Women who expect men to be mind readers

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Mind readers should solely be performed by magicians.

Tord Pettersson

I appreciate you are talking about narcissism. It's important to know what the signs are and how to avoid/manage interactions with those people.

Alexander Knight

From experience, I’ve noticed that many women find it “hard work” to communicate detailed information (it could be the case for everyone of course, as detailed communication by definition is more work than small talk and saying “literally” every four words). Even the talkative ones, will spit a bunch of word salad followed by “you know what I mean”. It would be good practice for them to record themselves in complex conversations (even if that is planning the meals for the week; which, ideally, her “master chef” would be cooking) and go back to those recordings, listen and find out how good of a job they did; you know, literally, saying what they meant to say, if you know what I mean? (Sorry, couldn’t pass on the opportunity!)

vanidotau

Women feel loved when their boyfriend or husband know them well enough that they can often predict what want or are feeling without having to say anything. Men should make it a priority to”know” their partner. I believe that’s what she’s referring to as “a real man.”

Madenew

I like the suggestion on how to qualify a woman as a long term partner by opening up to her.

Mark Bryski

I did not know that other meaning. So, thank you. (Domo arigato.) Your question is indeed profound too. (Also, for fun, I'll quote an old Japanese saying: A good husband is healthy---and absent."

David Ronin

The silent treatment is a classic 'punishment' inflicted by narcissists... it's pure manipulation. Taken to extremes, it's called ghosting. I dated a lady for several months. One morning we awoke to me receiving some sad news... a young uncle I was close to was dying. She asked me to return to her home that evening and I agreed. I went for a few beers after work and I was enjoying the male company of my buddies so I stayed longer. My phone battery was flat, meaning that I couldn't message the lady until several hours later... which I did, including my unreserved apology. She lambasted me for a day or so, then she went silent and didn't respond to my single message on each of the following 3 days, after which I stopped messaging and went on with my life. Exactly 1 month later she contacted me saying that it had been long enough... and it was time for us to resume the relationship. I said "No thanks... our relationship ended when you ghosted me." Yeah, sure, I kinda' screwed-up... but I owned it immediately and I apologised (once only). Gentlemen... no man needs a woman in his life who is incapable of accepting an apology, and who thinks it is her right and duty to punish him. Fuck that. The vast majority of women have no idea how to treat a man properly; they are disrespectful, then they deny their actions. B.t.w. she never asked after the wellbeing of my uncle who passed away several days after the original news. Better to be single than to allow a woman to disturb one's peace.

MB

That's profound, but what may be even MORE profound is that "shujin" literally translates as "master" or "head of the household." So that if one prolongs the position of "master", one eventually becomes a "prisoner" (or "slave") to it? Wow.

Joseph Omega

Only once… ? you’re lucky😅 Going mute (“pulling down the curtain”) was the standard reaction of my ex-wife to most conflicts, small or big. But afterwards (hours, days) she would have processed the data and be ready to unleash it to full effect, typically when i had forgotten the details. Her restraint was actually quite impressive to behold. In the end, however, this passive-aggressive behaviour made it easier for me to leave.

PerMagnus Lindborg

I once had an argument with my girlfriend, after which I got the "silent treatment". I gave her a number of opportunities to explain why she wasn't talking, but she sulked... I told her that given that she consistently wasn't telling me of any problem , I assumed there wasn't one.... Dangerous, but she eventually calmed down 😂

Andy Hyde

In Japanese, the word for husband is "shujin," although there's another word for it. Lengthen the "u" and you have the Japense word for "prisoner. Interesting, huh?

David Ronin


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