PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Women should admit they need men
Added 2024-04-08 03:35:31 +0000 UTC
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Alex, I agree with your statement that men were shaped by women's desire but I don't agree that women were shaped by men's. If 80% of women reproduce but only 40% of men then it's horny men with no standards who were positively selected by the evolution. Those men would impregnate any woman they can, including their family members, which means close to no sexual selection regarding women's appearance and personality.
I don't think that the best women had much more kids than average women, so their quality was never rewarded the same way men were. Sure they would raise healthier and stronger children but afaik historically that was tied to a wealth rather than a beauty or character. Am I missing something?
aldon
2024-10-29 09:52:24 +0000 UTC
I really can’t relate to the happy wife at all. Her experience is so alien to my own.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-10-28 15:17:09 +0000 UTC
@E C - You're welcome.
Joseph Omega
2024-10-05 04:12:53 +0000 UTC
@E C - "White" women are just the extreme case of feminist womanhood -- it is not a great surprise that these officially sanctioned "Karens" were the birthplace of the misguided movement: They were the most privileged and most entitled. But all women would eventually succumb to this contagious message given half the chance -- the reason why "Passport Bros" eventually have a rude awakening: Give a woman a Gucci, and they will, in all likelihood, use it to step over the fence to the front of the line. Almost ALL your messages since I've been on here have been about oppression and MeToo'd whataboutism excuses and distractions. Hopefully you're finally coming out of the fog.
Joseph Omega
2024-10-05 04:05:24 +0000 UTC
@E C - Right. There's no need to save face here, but sure -- let's go with that. 👍
Joseph Omega
2024-10-04 23:34:51 +0000 UTC
@E C - It is AS "your friend" that I try to tell you "kind" truths that few else will share, not "holding back in the presence of females". Sorry, but Xena and her fake macho exterior must first DIE forever for your Gabrielle to finally start LIVING on her own. You KNOW this. Honor your sister's memory.
Joseph Omega
2024-10-04 22:51:15 +0000 UTC
@E C - Nice try. Most modern men in the "West" are WAY too scared of ostracisation or cancellation to risk coming right out and condemning Feminism as the actual SOURCE of the problem. And don't tell me you've heard ANYONE else cite the clear evolutionary contradiction of having one half of a dimorphic species blame the other for "oppressing" them. Even YOU with your well-honed pretend ridicule and disdain are no longer very convincing. The "blue pill" has likely soured in your mouth too much by now to swallow without a great deal of effort.
Joseph Omega
2024-10-04 15:57:04 +0000 UTC
@E C - It may be repetitive (in fact it's DELIBERATELY so), but it certainly is NOT unoriginal (in today's Matriarchal climate). Now, if ONLY it would make the headlines ... 📰
Joseph Omega
2024-10-04 07:06:41 +0000 UTC
@E C - As usual, I LOVED your answer -- I just found it trite and naive, but no real news there worth printing. Did you like MINE?
PS. Alexander JUST posted probably his MOST dangerous "trap" yet! Will you be allowing yourself to be ensnared therein?
Joseph Omega
2024-10-04 04:54:05 +0000 UTC
@E C - WOMEN LOVE SEX! STOP THE PRESSES! This must CERTAINLY explain ORGASMS! What a revelation! 🤦♂️
Sub-headline: Women open up more to other women -- men open up more to other men, researchers say.
Joseph Omega
2024-10-04 04:40:16 +0000 UTC
@E C - Well, I'm not entirely convinced that "listening to lots of women" may produce much useful data -- as you say often, they are frequent "pretenders". I take it you have a NEGATIVE view of "slut shaming", and a POSITIVE view of the "OnlyFans" and "Hookup Culture" crazes of "female empowerment"? Do YOU feel such a sense of "empowerment" to think yourself "as horny as a man"? Well, as you yourself point out, you are not exactly the target audience (of married women) to which her channel is directed, so it is at least CONCEIVABLE that the applicability of your opinions and assessments may not be as statistically significant to the SPECIFIC topics she addresses.
But I DO think that many Feminist-oriented women DO have a tendency to "MeToo" to all things male -- including libido.
Joseph Omega
2024-10-04 04:25:06 +0000 UTC
@E C - Speaking of insatiable female desires, what do you think of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1iCXjZUWZOo ?
Joseph Omega
2024-10-03 22:46:17 +0000 UTC
@E C - Well, in my 88 years on this earth, I HAVE gained a fair bit of wisdom, my child.
Joseph Omega
2024-10-03 05:54:14 +0000 UTC
@E C - So all your younger men were fine? Your sample sizes appear quite small to account for such sweeping decisions.
PS. How about a vibrating dog? The best of both worlds. 🤷♂️
Joseph Omega
2024-10-03 05:50:34 +0000 UTC
@E C - I would caution you as a fellow journeyman along life's great path, to avoid confusing your past with your present, your dad with all men, and your mom with yourself.
Joseph Omega
2024-10-03 05:44:59 +0000 UTC
@E C - Is "happiness a luxury" TODAY due to poverty? I did not get that impression. Remember what I said about "choices".
Joseph Omega
2024-10-03 05:33:20 +0000 UTC
@E C - Curious. Your views on older men seem to differ significantly from many (of not MOST) of your "sisters".
Joseph Omega
2024-10-03 05:28:49 +0000 UTC
@E C - "We come into the world alone and we leave alone." True, but while we're HERE however, we needn't be.
Joseph Omega
2024-10-03 05:24:44 +0000 UTC
@E C - I don't "enjoy making fun of you", but I DO admit to a certain satisfaction in "humbling you", to use your own expression -- you KNOW my views on Intellectual Humility. And there ARE obvious signs my efforts have borne fruit.
So, despite your feelings about him, do you agree with Bill Burr that "white women swung their Gucci-booted feet over the fence of oppression and stuck themselves at the front of the line"? And to be "Feminist" and NOT be "oppressed for being a woman" seems a trifle contradictory to me.
Joseph Omega
2024-10-03 05:22:07 +0000 UTC
@E C - Actually, when men say they "don't want an experienced woman", they are simply talking about FINGERPRINTS and the RUMOR of fingerprints. Virgins are therefore best by definition, but "much younger and naive" likely constitutes diminishing returns -- men prefer LESS drama and MORE emotional regulation, both of which paradoxically ripen with age. "Someone who doesn't know better" is probably better than "someone who thinks they know everything". Financial dependency only helps because of the way HYPERGAMY works. Dogs and cats are fine I guess, as long as you don't spend your last days in Springfield ... 😄
Joseph Omega
2024-10-03 05:09:58 +0000 UTC
@E C - Learn to take a breath BEFORE responding -- I said "Some women are MORE 'experienced' than others". So "NO experience" reflects your own propensity for theatrical HYPERBOLE. Besides, even a previously VIRGINAL 40 year old (though exceedingly rare) can be said to have "no experience" PRIOR to having her first penetration or child, so "children and teenagers" are theoretically not the only exceptions.
PS. Women DO indeed seem to have a rather low "creepiness" threshold -- like your hyperdeveloped sense of taste, smell and color perception, a likely evolutionary adaptation, as is men's desire for "minimal sexual fingerprints".
Joseph Omega
2024-10-02 22:21:55 +0000 UTC
@E C - Oh, seems like I missed this one too! Is this guy ALSO an example of a "true healthy MASCULINE man"? Seems an even MORE creative use of the term.
Joseph Omega
2024-10-02 21:31:17 +0000 UTC
@Joseph I mean unattached; not in a romantic relationship of any type.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-07-19 22:01:27 +0000 UTC
@RhodiumMaiden - I think I understand. BTW, sometimes when women use the term "single" they just mean "unmarried". Other times they mean "unattached". Which definition are you intending here?
Joseph Omega
2024-06-11 06:42:42 +0000 UTC
What I mean is that being single sucks, but having no male friends as well would be even worse.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-06-07 12:46:05 +0000 UTC
@E C - Many men would wonder what is the precise nature of the "squeeze" that women need do to get a man. It is well known the hoops and gymnastics and financial outlays that consitute the "effort" that men need to make to get ANY woman, but what is the nature of the "effort" that women need to make to get ANY man--are you possibly referring to makeup and clothes? At the risk of being VERY crude, the perception is that women need only "open their legs". Remember, I used the word "ANY" above.
Joseph Omega
2024-06-05 00:39:26 +0000 UTC
@RhodiumMaiden - It seems on the face of it that "I wouldn’t be utterly inconsolable" and "A world with zero male companionship of any type would be unbearable for me" contradict each other. Did I miss something?
Joseph Omega
2024-06-05 00:29:18 +0000 UTC
@E C - What video were you referring to? This one: https://www.tiktok.com/@officialchristianwalk1r/video/7054248124793015598?lang=en ? Also can you further elaborate on "Feminism only exists because men misbehaved in the past"? What time period are you referring to?
Joseph Omega
2024-06-05 00:25:44 +0000 UTC
From what I’m reading I would guess you are a very average man who never was very social and has just given up on this aspect of life. Without any social proof or social group that brings women into your life an average man is going to struggle. With poor social skills you’re unlikely to be able to polarise a woman and convince her that there is something more to you.
I’m speculating, but I think you may have interpreted a lack of interest from these kind of short interactions that you are unlovable or destined to be unnattractive to women. Additionally, a lack of acceptance/friends when you were young probably reinforced this belief. From this you’ve likely turned inward and I sincerely hope that found things that bring you deep fulfillment and happiness.
I would challenge the belief that you’re destined to be invisible.
Even if you don’t want to open yourself up to women romantically, I would really recommend you try increasing your social value by working on your appearance, interests, talents and lifestyle. Even if you don’t want to be more sociable, it’s likely that the things you care about will come more easily when you have a greater social value. If you get some positive results maybe try being more sociable and forming some friendships or doing social activities. With so much time spent on yourself I’m sure you have some talents that people resonate with and that could build friendships around. From this you might spend time with women and you don’t know where that could go. Even if you’re not open to women romantically, I find that just being around women makes your life more enjoyable with their femininity.
Anyway, I recognise that I’m totally projecting my own values onto you, but I don’t think it’s that likely that you’re incredibly temperamentally different to most people. We are a social species after all. Sincerely hope you’ve found lots of fulfillment within yourself and your interests.
Thomas Owen
2024-04-12 15:55:48 +0000 UTC
I definitely couldn’t live without male friends. Life without a man of my own (who is also one of my best friends) is not fun either, but I wouldn’t be utterly inconsolable. A world with zero male companionship of any type would be unbearable for me.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-04-11 19:04:32 +0000 UTC
Why are you generally invisible to women, exactly, do you think?
RhodiumMaiden
2024-04-11 19:01:35 +0000 UTC
Super ironic bc men CAN thrive without women but women are usually miserable without men (or at the very least unsatisfied). I am very good at being independent & can handle solitude well but I don’t enjoy it, particularly not long term. I always think it’s funny when I get called a ‘pickme’ by other women for praising men (or for not backing up women talking nonsense/behaving badly). Ofc I want to be chosen & validated by men! It’s an integral part of being a woman.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-04-11 18:59:06 +0000 UTC
Thruth bombs left and right. Let there be carnage
Peter
2024-04-11 07:15:39 +0000 UTC
What do you mean "does MGTOW actually exists"? I would say it´s quite a significant portion amongst singles. The only point is that couples and very attractive people don´t notice because they don´t live in the same world. But to put it in relation: According to a pew research study with 6000 adults, about half of singles are not looking for either a relationship or casual sex. [https://www.pewresearch.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/facts-single-americans-topline.pdf]. Granted that is just one study and it is not only about men, but adults in gerneral. Still, there a plenty of men and women walking away from dating. For most it may be just a temporary frustration, but the online movement is certainly siginficant, and I think it is a bit naive to dismiss this trend as a fringe internet phenomenon.
Hermann
2024-04-10 18:12:45 +0000 UTC
alexander I need women in my life, but perhaps in my personal experience I find the juice is not worth the squeeze
Timothy Gutierrez
2024-04-10 15:05:06 +0000 UTC
Sage advice, I think.
Joseph Omega
2024-04-10 05:56:22 +0000 UTC
Your post is strange becuase, as you said, as a Feminist you were "encouraged to be masculine and never need men", yet this is precisely what you admitted. When you say "Feminism is 'about choice'", how is that assessment different from "Masculism" (if that's even a word)? What makes you possess the need to want to use it? I can't speak for all men of course, but for the vast majority of us, it is all about achievement and fulfillment, and that happiness is more of a side-effect, with its exclusive pursuit, more of a self-centered childlike goal. I take it you don't see it the same way?
Joseph Omega
2024-04-10 05:52:15 +0000 UTC
I've learned painstakingly, through years of trichotillomaniac frustration, to not take what women say seriously, but observe what they do. Emotional logic -- a.k.a. womenese -- is not logic. Men, it will do your sanity and mental health wonders to stop applying rationality to emotional logic. If you must insist on understanding women, follow a great advice from Dr. Orion Taraban: pre-pend "I feel that ..." and post-pend "... right now" to everything women say as a means to translate to menese. So, if a woman says "I hate men", translated to menese, it's "I feel that ... I hate men ... right now." Truly enlightening advice.
Hyperion
2024-04-09 15:38:34 +0000 UTC
As a "Feminist" you speak kind of strangely. Can you define the term such that "needing men" form a part of it? I know that there have been several "waves" of Feminism--are you from an older one than the current?
Joseph Omega
2024-04-09 05:09:38 +0000 UTC
Yes. They are lying. 😏. Just look at how many orbiters a woman has when she says "I am staying single". When she says that to you when she has all of those orbiters, she is saying she is expecting you to be running more laps around her than you are presently doing. She wants you to show more investment. However, seeing all of those orbiters tells us this woman can not be satiated.
Mark Bryski
2024-04-08 10:38:43 +0000 UTC
Brother, you sound like a good man. Full respect to you. Being at peace, and not allowing this to be disturbed, is critical. The universe is perfect and it has a path for us all, complete with twists and turns. Just remember that everything happens exactly the way it should.
MB
2024-04-08 05:09:00 +0000 UTC
We exist all right. MGTOW is growing day by day. I'm happy that you've found someone in this day and age. Truly. I've always been a very solitary person. Had a few guy friends here and there. Nothing that ever lasted. Never really been desired by or wanted by the opposite sex. Had a couple of female acquaintances, never anything more than that. It made me self sufficient and strong in myself that I don't crave an intimate relationship. I still treat everyone with respect, kindness and compassion. Just isn't a priority. I wish everyone the best possible outcome for them. I made peace with my life.
MarkGauci85
2024-04-08 04:47:04 +0000 UTC
Good Video Man. It's a crazy world we live in and we can only move forward to the best of our abilities and circumstances. I would be a hypocrite if I said i didn't need a woman for certain aspects of my being. I would be a hypocrite if I said I didn't want a woman for certain aspects of my being. I would also be delusional to say that I felt hopefully that in this time and place in history, I as one of the invisible 80% of men that woman and society spurn, that I'II find someone. I am one of the MGTOW men. I've made peace with that. I agree with you Alex thou. Continue preaching a pro relationship status quo to as many who can be saved. I'II continue to support your content for the intellectual value of it.