PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Women have a completely different relationship to money than men do
Added 2024-02-20 07:00:03 +0000 UTC
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RhodiumMaiden
2024-02-28 14:58:30 +0000 UTCThis is one of the most painful segments Alexander has ever done. I don’t know what woman he thinks he’s going to have this conversation with like he suggests, but he’s living in fantasy land. Money is an absolute must have requirement when it comes to relationships & women. There is no “income” amount is a requirement, it’s having money, the ability & value to sustain & create more, and it should be so baked in that no man should consider it otherwise. Money is more than what you make per year, it’s go you manage it for today, the future, and likelihood of continuing to add that value. It’s also not about “gold diggers”. This very sentiment has been explicitly stated to me by high quality women, women who after 10-20 years are still married, and they stated it was a factor in why they didn’t choose me. I never blamed them btw. I have maintained some sort of relationship with these select women who I wanted to elevate, and they are still faithful & respectful to husbands. Look, money & management of it is critical. 2001, 2008, 2020 all saw massive economic upheavals & crises. They want security through these times, there is nothing we with this. The problem is thinking they will have this logical based conversation with you about it. There’s nothing sexy or fun about saving & investing. Its doing without now so you can have later. Rainy days come. It’s a man’s responsibility to take care of this and plan ahead. The woman needs to respect this 100%. I’ve been the broke Alpha Chad who lived in a rented house in 2008-2010, and the owner stopped paying on it. I stopped paying him, but women saw the house, thought my good job paid more (it didn’t) and made assumptions. I didn’t realize it till later, but none wanted to stick through the rebuilding process. I’m 50, and make in excess of $100k. I’ve been labeled as “broke” because I’ve prioritized debt & investing—I owe under $20k total & nearing a quarter million net worth. It’s not been “fun”, but imagine when I can afford to let foot off gas because I’m not spending money on debt, and I can more efficiently contribute to retirement accounts. It’ll look a lot more “fun” when in a year, my 800 credit score, $30-$50k in emergency fund is paired with 4th consecutive year of maxing out contributions. Now, what do you bring? Cuz if it’s college student loan debt & can’t cook, get lost.
Bill Washinski
2024-02-24 18:39:47 +0000 UTCMoney is a horrible topic! So much strife and pain, for it, because of it, without it. I don’t really have an intrinsic understanding of righteous entitlement. Like being owed anything by anyone. For the longest time, not even to love and care. If you struggled with shit all your life your don’t expect anything. But im trying hard to learn being entitled to be treat well. What ever that looks like to me. I have a right to exist and be treated well. And im going to act accordingly. I’m not going to try force people or entitled to their actions. But my actions, the people I spend time with, the situations I allow myself to suffer over and over. I want to have that entitlement in me, todo better by me.
Peter
2024-02-24 09:05:05 +0000 UTCI don’t think these are women. And any woman who has tasted actual adult life will be digusted by them being refered to as adults woman. Even if feminism says these are not girls but women. They are immature, life illiterate, petulant, children. They shouldn’t be seen as nothing more. Reality is a cold dish, they will taste it soon enough and im there for it Mmmmmm humble fugging pie !!!
Peter
2024-02-24 07:58:52 +0000 UTCThat is probably the case lol
Eshkar freedman
2024-02-22 09:24:40 +0000 UTCYou're totally right. So are Eshkar and Kevin. I feel that the 3 of you are partially talking past each other.
Anthony White
2024-02-22 09:15:21 +0000 UTCI'm sorry you feel this way. Not all women will feel entitled to spend someone else's money on something that's meant only for themselves, especially at the very start of the relationship. I will say though, I think most women won't put up a major resistance if offered, because we (at least I) like feeling taken care of and that my partner sees value in providing me with the kind of things that contribute to my peace of mind, but a thoughtful gifts can go both ways and don't have to cost a lot. I would personally feel bad demanding something more expensive but unnecessary and will probably use the money I brought into the relationship, if it is really something I want- although any offer will surely be appreciated (and will be discussed further- even we are sometimes capable of seeing when the help offered can be better utilized towards something else). I will also say that unfortunately some women take it too far and make it the center of their priorities, but I think that it is completely fine not to expect a 50-50 financial contribution, if you are providing other things unequally (which you will if you want to maintain a long term relationship with a man you deem high quality). Happy to be called a unicorn, but I really do hope you find what you are looking for.
Eshkar freedman
2024-02-22 08:02:56 +0000 UTCWoah! Guess my opinion is not wanted, since i don't match what everyone else thinks I guess. Don't worry then, I'II keep my words to myself and let the intellectual types have their forum to articulate their collective. Love your content Alex!
MarkGauci85
2024-02-22 05:59:30 +0000 UTCYou have the right take away. You’re operating from a holistic standpoint, taking in all of the information Alexander gave us and finding the key takeaway which is to evaluate your partner and recognize patterns of behavior in order to match values for the betterment of both partners. Some people like Mark will only take in the big statements. It’s unfortunate to see comments like his on the Patreon, which is typically reserved for the intellectual types who want more nuanced examinations on the topics he posts on the youtube. Alexander has to have provocative titles on his YouTube channel to compete for views and the downside, unfortunately, are comments like his.
Kevin Pereira
2024-02-22 05:32:21 +0000 UTCHe's telling us as men not to get caught being leeched off by a gold digger. He also say due to the way women value money as opposed to men, the gold digger mentality is the default setting for women. Trying to find a woman that goes against their natural programming is like searching for a unicorn and I don't believe in unicorns. I think it's better that women work for their own money. I respectfully understand if you disagree with me on this position, but I've never seen a woman who if given half a chance, had a choice between using her own hard earned money or completely spoiling herself wasting mine, that they'd choose to use their own and not waste mine. It's just female nature.
MarkGauci85
2024-02-21 19:13:12 +0000 UTCI'm genuinely curious, how did the video reaffirm the idea of never spending any money on a woman? I thought the main takeaway was to evaluate her value system more carefully in order to not be caught in a cycle of overspending and mismatch in values.
Eshkar freedman
2024-02-21 16:51:15 +0000 UTCMan I seriously owe you and a few other brothers so much for capturing and communicating the harsh but genuine truth and realities of females and how counterintuitive and unimaginably preposterous the effects how society, culture and the collective effects upon the minds of these poor girls and ensuring to save me so much pain and trouble for I would of been fucking ran thru like NYC SUBWAY system… would of been a field day and sick joke with my earnestly honest and humbly optimistic perceptions I try my best to allow people before it either positions me to be taken advantage of or puts me in a situation where I am a contributing factor to the problems and against the solutions… soooo much undeserved credit I honestly get worried thinking about what may of potentially transpired and what truly scary reactions may of unfolded thru an overly generous giving and idealism being manipulated by these very confused disaffected victims of self inflicted trauma and dysfunction of emotions and perceptions that ya would think all would incentivize them to eventually invest in someone from a lesser position and foster something that differentiates them forever from all other females cuz they were there when most others if not all weren’t… but yeah that would take some thinking and a less than perfect pursuit of people
Justin Pelliccia
2024-02-20 07:44:30 +0000 UTCDamn! Well, that just reaffirmed my pledge to never spend money on a woman! Gold digger is a woman's default setting.
MarkGauci85
2024-02-20 07:28:57 +0000 UTC
