PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Why women always take everything personally
Added 2024-01-11 07:00:03 +0000 UTC
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I’d hate to have a really expensive engagement/wedding ring. What if it got damaged or stolen? Very impractical.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-01-21 11:14:03 +0000 UTCPeople who take things personally = Leo Moons 😁 It’s insufferable.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-01-21 11:07:45 +0000 UTCThe issue you brought up at the end about how your channel could be perceived to be misogynistic is real. Almost all my past attempts to introduce others to your content have been shut down on grounds that you were very negative in your commentary and it was all aimed at women. I think this is something you should consider addressing if your channel is to grow more rapidly. I try to defend you by saying that you're trying to talk about the dark side of female behavior and psychology, something that not a lot of people do in the right way. And you also don't spare men from their BS and actively call them out on it too. So, I think one way to not give off the wrong message is to balance out the content across different themes in terms of positive or negative and directed at men or women. Orion, from PsychHacks, does this well where in his videos, it's pretty clear who he's addressing, men or women and he does both. So, calling men out on their BS, maybe highlighting some positive behaviors that women have exhibited so that we can look out for those, and also try to be a bit more optimistic in showing men and women that there might be a way forward and just diversifying your content would help. Otherwise, if all a new viewer sees among a long list of recent videos is just highlighting negative behaviors of women then I won't blame them, however sensible they are, for not wanting to watch your channel on grounds that you're a misogynist.
Ashwin Srinivas
2024-01-14 19:16:58 +0000 UTCA lot of women and men are spoiled, underdeveloped, enabled, dumb people. Western culture is not yet ready to hold women to account but it's slowly changing. I don't think NPD is widespread but I may be wrong.
Alexander Grace
2024-01-12 01:39:35 +0000 UTCI take personal offense to this video
Eshkar freedman
2024-01-11 12:25:47 +0000 UTCMiss $75,000 wedding ring doesn't want a husband, she wants a sugar daddy under legal contract. Be careful, when any relationship becomes transactional (money, jewelry), it's almost too late to pull back to a simple life because she is no longer satisfied with just your love and affection, now she wants ever-escalating gifts of stature.
Jon of Arc
2024-01-11 11:11:49 +0000 UTCif she believes in him, it's because she wants to be with the man he may become, as she shapes him to her vision. A wooden ring of 100$ would be enough. Unfortunately we, as men, are objectified in the relationship from the start. It's about what we can do for her more than what we are, represent, how we are. Of course relationships are to a point transactional, but that quota should be kept to a minimum so that the partners as human beings don't get lost in the process. From one point of view, I can empathize with the female perspective. It resembles chronic pain sufferers's attitude. When you have pains in your body, that others do not, there's a underlying envy being formed, which combined with the need to and prioritization of self care, can make them unwilling to understand men. I call it the sisterhood principle: women defend women in situations, even when they have close to 0 details of the accounts. A sort of taking responsibility of another woman's situation, as if it happened to the one empathizing. In a good vs. bad approach, automatically the man is guilty by adversity....until overwhelmingly proven innocent. And by that time, the discussion is already useless because the woman empathizing feels attacked as if it happened to her, and the attacker can't be right, by principle.
Mircea N.
2024-01-11 09:25:13 +0000 UTCI have my difficullty to differentiate between NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Choosing the narcissistic solution because of trauma in childhood, Never develop the brain areal for empathy and sophisticated emotions, building the false self/ mental fragile construct of a perfect self image without an integrated core and living in that delusion + Mainting the delusion because of resistence to insight) vs. plain dumbness, underdevelopment. NPD is a really awful thing. Dumbness too, but it can be worked on. The question to you Alexander: Are a lot of women just spoiled, underdeveloped, enabled, dumb people? Does this generation of women all have NPD and is mentally ill? Does it have to do with the female genetic code? Do they have normal brain function and just learned being this way or is their brain impaired? What is your take on that? Thank you.
Thomas Ochsenfarth
2024-01-11 09:13:21 +0000 UTC
