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A Talk About Goals [SFW] [Emotional]
Added 2024-11-28 19:00:05 +0000 UTCThis is an genuine chat and contains no roleplay.
I am proud of you.
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I’m listening to this for the first time almost a year later. I’m curious if this year has turned out how you thought it would? You mentioned feeling scared. Was it scary? Sending so much love to you and everyone else who has a hard time with the holiday season. You’re not alone and it will pass. 💛
Lindsay ✨ (itslindsay29)
2025-11-06 17:32:23 +0000 UTCChange isn't always easy, but in the short time I've followed you, watching you embrace it with determination and passion has been inspiring. Your motivation to make a difference in your life and the impact you've already had on this community is something to be incredibly proud of. I have no doubt that this is just the beginning of all the amazing things you'll continue to achieve. We are all so proud of you! Keep being you Vel, you are remarkable! 🙌 😘
gemslittlebookshelf
2025-02-28 20:34:10 +0000 UTCFuck I needed this. I’ve been trying to change things in my own life and you’re right, it’s exhausting! And up until now I’ve felt so alone. This helps so much and just knowing someone else feels like this makes me feel stronger. Proud of you, and I’m proud of myself as well. We can keep doing this.
LT (Babs)
2025-02-18 13:16:17 +0000 UTCWhat a wonderful audio. Thank you for sharing and for such kind words. I also felt like I lived three years this year, so many versions of myself have come and gone, and who knows how long this one will last. But I’m more than satisfied with who I’ve become compared to who I was earlier this year. Nothing would’ve changed if I stayed passive and just let people or life control me. I’ve realized that learning to be a better version of myself is so much fun and getting to know the person who I’ve been with my entire life: me. I’m proud of myself and I’m proud of you, Vel, for taking initiative in improving yourself, pursuing what you love and sharing what you love. Such an honor to be in this space ♥️♥️
Cecilia
2024-12-04 17:54:29 +0000 UTCVel, as someone who has gone through immense personal change this year- I see you, I hear you, and I’m proud of you! I’m proud of us! It is hard. Once we choose change, I don’t think we ever stop changing, it’s just not always incredibly taxing. Please take care of yourself and try to remember the smiles when things are particularly hard. Also know that the changes you have chosen to make, to get to where you want to be…those changes are evident in your work. And your work is/has been instrumental in helping some of us (me!) change. Thank you for being true to yourself. Well done on all the work you have put into moving in the direction you desire! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
audio.owl
2024-12-02 16:00:10 +0000 UTCWell, this year was tough for me too and the changes make me have to re-learn about myself etc. I'm glad I found your audios (although in h-word mood). At least, I'm fine now I guess. Thank you, Vel. I hope you're doing well too.
icedmeow
2024-12-02 09:19:32 +0000 UTCOh my goodness I’m so fucking proud of you. What a man.
Abi
2024-12-01 22:51:10 +0000 UTCI hope your holidays are as happy and warm as they can be. Change is hard and so many people just run from it until it’s inevitable. So proud of you for facing it head on. I hope your coming out of sorts goes as smoothly as it can. Lord knows it’s not easy. Thanks for all you do.
Katie
2024-11-30 01:50:40 +0000 UTCInteresting I listened to this on my way to a Thanksgiving dinner where things blew up. I thought about this on my entire drive home, the tears streaming down my face. Kudos to you and for your change. Change has always been terrifying for me. But I’m realizing. Something’s gotta change. And I’m the one who keeps doing it while everyone stays the same. It gave me a lot of food for thought. Appreciate it and appreciate you. Warmly, Athena (aka Del)
Athena
2024-11-29 22:50:11 +0000 UTCThis was something I really needed to hear. It’s hard to be proud sometimes. And thank you for having the courage to share. I’m always impressed by the balance you hold between sharing genuine aspects of yourself and maintaining necessary space. Knowing that this change will affect that balance must be incredibly difficult and I’m proud that you’re doing so anyway. Good luck, I hope the holidays treat you well this time around.
Cris Taylor
2024-11-29 19:12:34 +0000 UTCI get what Tea was saying about acute cardiomegaly now
Morgana
2024-11-29 08:32:59 +0000 UTCHello Vel, listening to this inspired me to keep going on my journey through life. I spent my entire life seeking praise and validation from others. I didn't even attend my 20 year class reunion last year even though I really wanted to, because I was terrified of being deemed a failure because I had graduated and had nothing to show for it: no degree, no relationship, a single mom who was only able to raise my son with the help of family. I guess I needed that reassurance that I am still strong: despite all the loss, the abusive ex, the feeling of inadequacy, the intrusive mantra of "What's the point?" I do have enough empathy to be proud of you and your changes. Maybe someday I can reach the point where 18-year-old me will stop being so mean to 39-year-old me.
FreyaSilverflame1223
2024-11-29 08:19:33 +0000 UTCSending you hugs... Thank you. Looking back, I've come to a place I wasn't sure I'd ever be last year at the same time. Now, with loss of friends (and family), having moved continents, you're right, change is fucking exhausting. I didn't realise taking care of myself when no one was looking would be so hard. I'm proud of you, in awe of you, for doing all that you do, whether that's the career you've chosen or your body or lifestyle or everything else you mentioned which I was less aware of. I hope you'll continue to be kind to yourself. That takes strength too. And you're really strong. Thanks Vel. Good job, you've worked hard. Happy holidays.
enbyaoi
2024-11-29 05:59:49 +0000 UTCsending positive energy and hopeful outcomes for all the change you’re going though!!
stxlladxnna
2024-11-29 04:28:07 +0000 UTC*hugs*
Lady SJ
2024-11-29 01:17:03 +0000 UTCThis is beautifully said ❤️
Carrie A
2024-11-28 22:30:55 +0000 UTCVel, I’m proud of you and I proud of me. This year was an absolute chaos because I decided that pleasing other people was more important than what I wanted or to be my weird self. Luckily we’re finding the strength to become our best selves. Sending you all positive vibes and love my friend. Stay strong. LY.
Ale D
2024-11-28 21:45:28 +0000 UTCChoked up a bit at 18 yr old me being proud of me now. I needed that reminder that even though this last year was quite difficult with grief, that I live a good life now that 18yr old me never thought was possible. Thank you for posting this today, for being you, and creating this community.
Tamrahh
2024-11-28 20:54:51 +0000 UTCOh Vel. The fact that your holidays are hard for you and yet you still chose to make an audio telling us that you are proud of us - it makes me want to give you a huge hard hug (or whatever action would make you feel how much love and admiration we have for you). I hope you know, truly deep down KNOW, how fucking awesome you are.
Saucy Kitten
2024-11-28 20:31:24 +0000 UTCChange is big and scary and rewarding and lonely and happy and all the things. Putting yourself first is what you deserve. I'm proud of you, and thank you for trusting us to be here with you.
thetwo_nine
2024-11-28 19:58:07 +0000 UTCHi Vel! I just discovered GWA this month and have been lurking and listening to your content. I'm feeling really thankful today that you have created this safe and respectful place to explore kinks and fantasies, while sharing some of your personal journey as well. So as of today I'm a paid patreon. I agree that change, and the discipline to maintain it, can be exhausting. I read this idea about discipline somewhere that it can be hard because it can feel like the you of today is doing all of this work for the you of tomorrow that never actually exists, because you only experience today. But the other way to look at it is that the you of today is living a life that is a gift from all of the yous of yesterday. And all you have to do to pay it forward is just keep the momentum of the good work all of those yesterday yous did so that you can be here today. I am proud of all the yesterday yous that didn't always know or feel how good things could be for today you, but worked to get you here anyway. Ok this comment is already way too long and has way to many yous (y'alls?). I wish you peace, contentedness, and connection on this holiday that may not normally feel good. Thanks for all the amazing content, I am excited to explore this library.
BumbleBeepBoop
2024-11-28 19:57:49 +0000 UTCLet me start by telling you that I am so proud of you. Proud that you expose yourself so much, that you are honest with yourself and others. So proud that you remain yourself and dare to remain yourself. Don't be afraid, there are always new changes and challenges. I am proud of you and admire your courage. I am proud of myself for dealing with incurable disease in a healthy way. Proud that I can really tell how I feel and in how much pain I am. Glad that everyone can deal with this well too. Proud and happy, and the future? Bring it on, we're ready!💋
Mrs Darkness
2024-11-28 19:21:07 +0000 UTCI’m so fucking proud of you too… just like I’m proud of me… we’re smashing it ❤️
Zel
2024-11-28 19:15:28 +0000 UTC
