The Clubhouse Podcast #112 | Topics Thread
Added 2021-06-30 11:34:15 +0000 UTCHey all you sweet vintage lads!
Iβll be back this Sunday for another solo Clubhouse therapy session. Be sure to leave your topics and advice threads in this post ASAP.
I hope youβve all had a good week. See you Sunday - Tyler
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Hey Tyler, been a while since ive posted, hope your doing well and if your not just at least know that everything might not feel like it's gonna be OK but it will be. So my topic is a weird one or maybe it's common, actually don't know maybe I'm not the only one π€£ it's about being at home and living in a family who are all very happy with the way they are and that's great and I don't have that yet but I think that's OK. The issue is since I've been home and had extra focus on my weight and health and been about being my best self and improving, I've got a lot of kickback from my family about that mindset and a good amount of negativity, I just wouldn't be happy if I wasn't the best version of me and part of that includes how I look, that's important, it's for me. I've always been unhappy letting myself go, eating too much and the idea of getting fat again is actually awful, it's not me, I understand body acceptance is good and healthy but to an extent like I don't see how wanting to be better is bad. I don't get how that setiment would ever be negative, like I'm not forcing them to workout, I'm doing it for myself and I've said this like but apparently "it's not real happiness", "fake" or just like negative enforcement about doing something that's good for you maybe I refuse to eat a load of food or I'm counting calories for example, I'll definitely hear about it. I mean your body releasing endorphins through a scientific method isn't "real". It just seems defeatist to me and I totally would get if I'm making terrible comments about my family's weight but that not happening so Idk what this kickback is about. They say its to help me and they think I have body image issues and I can't see how improving yourself and being healthy is bad. Idk acceptance would be nice but I'm not sure even what to say to them like I've told them to leave me to my thing but they still bring it up if they get the chance to like if we're eating and I refuse food and I'd like to find a way to explain why but nothing seems to work or maybe I do have body issues and wanting to look lean is bad now, who the fuck knows. Anyway I don't know what to do or if I can? I hope that wasn't too rambly.
Play The Rules
2021-07-01 00:27:26 +0000 UTCHola Tyler, hola Tyler. I hope these solo clubhouse episodes are good to help you gain some catharsis over your current life situation, but I would advise seeing proper mental health professional. My current topic is a question about people of my generation / yours, but since your much more mature I was wondering if you offered a different perspective. Im 19, and I'm more looking at people roughly gen z, 10-26 I feel like roughly. What the genuine fuck is wrong with us. I feel like everywhere I look I see broken people, that's someone addicted to video games or drugs, someone addicted to social media, addicted to attention. I don't know with our generation but its hard to find the few people who I genuinely feel like are going in a good direction in life is so rare from my perspective. I know without question me and other people subconscious use the fact "our generation is broken" as an excuse for their lazyness and bad behaviour. What could our generation do differently? I would suggest a fine tuned moral compass and sticking to your moral obligations / duties without question. Being grateful and being self aware of a purpose to put themselves towards, wether that's a career, family or religion. Its not so much as technology is evil, as much as a lot of people used them to fill holes in their lives that should have been filled by. other good paths
Blaire Giulia
2021-06-30 14:40:08 +0000 UTC
