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Added 2025-09-04 16:39:49 +0000 UTCYesterday marked one year since my brother passed away. I think I've been a mess this past week, and so has my mom. I feel like I'm trapped in a day where the past and present happen simultaneously. Every night before I go to sleep, I tell myself, "Tomorrow will be the day I finally get my life together," but even if I manage to get up early, I still mess everything up.
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I'm sorry, I hope that in time you will only remember the good and that the bad will fade away. You may enjoy the poem Epitaph by Merrit Malloy.
Borbo
2025-09-07 06:10:20 +0000 UTCI'm really sorry you're still having to go through this. Have you tried exploring some communities online who might be able to offer some helpful advice? I know it's a different situation to the one I'm in, but I've found various CFS/ME and mental health communities on Reddit that have been really useful. ❤️
Connie
2025-09-04 22:40:44 +0000 UTCLife never gets together, not really. It’s about finding one thing that day you can do, no matter what it may be, and one thing you can enjoy. And anything beyond that, is just a bonus. And it’s always okay to not be okay.
Dinian
2025-09-04 17:32:35 +0000 UTCLosing someone its never easy... and i know you think you have to prove yourself in some way... but trust me, you dont have to beat yourself up for everything... you are doing great
Sathem
2025-09-04 17:00:12 +0000 UTCSorry you are going through this. Your brother would want you to be happy ❤️❤️
Will Ingram
2025-09-04 16:57:51 +0000 UTCI'm sorry that things still aren't coming together for you. Big tragedies have a tendency to derail lives like that and it is a shame that you and your mother are still suffering. I wish you the best moving forward and hope that you are able to turn things around for yourself soon. And please, take care! 💗💗💗
Kinnikufan
2025-09-04 16:48:50 +0000 UTC
