Nanny’s Notes: 7 Ways to Punish a Dirty Diaper Ma*sturbator (Part 7) (Chapter 7, Part I)

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Punishment Method #7: Chastity Devices — PART I

Chastity Cages & Belts: The Holy Grail of Diaper Masturbation Punishment

In the legends of King Arthur, the Holy Grail conferred miraculous powers to those that drank from it: Infinite Abundance. Eternal Youth. And Divine Purity.

This is why I consider the chastity device the holy grail of diaper masturbation punishment.

The chastity device confers the infinite abundance of diaper masturbation prevention, making the act truly impossible for as long as it remains on.

It grants the gift of eternal youth to your adult little one’s diapered privates, forever regressing their sexual functions to that of a true adult baby.

Finally, it grants the gift of divine, total purity, making their naughty, naughty diaper stroking deed forever impossible, so long as you desire.

Chastity devices are inherently wonderful for their utility when it comes to punishing a dirty diaper masturbator. You can apply it whenever you’d like. You can keep it on your little one however long you’d like. And you can adapt the device and your rules around it to whatever devious purpose you wish to impose.

In this chapter, I will explain exactly what I love the most about chastity devices for diapered masturbation prevention, general adult baby behavioral correction, and humiliation, punishment, and domination of your little one on the whole.

Chastity Devices: A Primer

You most likely know exactly what a chastity device is if you’ve gotten this far in your diaper dominating journey, but here is a refresher on the two most common types of chastity devices:

The Chastity Cage:

This device is typically designed for a little one with a penis. It’s slipped around the shaft and is usually secured with a tight ring around their balls. It’s typically made of plastic or metal. Because the device is applied while the penis is soft, it covers and confines it, forever forcing their penis to remain flaccid and unable to be touched or manipulated in any fashion so long as it remains on.

A chastity cage fits perfectly well beneath a diaper, it has holes to allow the free-flow of urine from the penis, and even has the added benefit of insuring the penis is always pointed down, which just happens to be the ideal position for maximum diaper absorbency. (What a wonderful additional reason when explaining to your little one why they have to wear it—it helps prevent leaky diapers!)

The Chastity Belt

The belt form of chastity device is primarily used for little ones with a vagina (or those without a penis), but versions do exist for restraining the penis as well, despite being less common.

Modern chastity belts designed primarily for women feature a strong strap around the waist and a hard shield that runs between the legs to cover the genitals.

Chastity belts come in many designs, but the essential feature is a strong enough front ‘shield’ to prevent any masturbation or genital stimulation at all.

In the case of long-term wear underneath a diaper, it’s important that the chastity belt of choice features openings for urination to leave in the front, and an opening in the rear for number two.

Belts with a "thong" arrangement have a single strap running up between the buttocks to the waistband in the rear, which allows for defecation through a hole in the strap, but these will undoubtedly get messier after a poopy accident in a diaper.

For the purposes of use with a diaper, I recommend belts with a ‘V’ arrangement in the rear, which has straps that part around the buttocks to connect to the waistband, allowing for unrestricted defecation for the little one. (Further discussion on this specific aspect of chastity belt diaper use below!)

While some caregivers may prefer to implement a chastity belt over the top of the diaper to act as a temporary or medium-term sexual or diaper-removal deterrent, I personally don’t recommend such an implementation, as it requires removal of the chastity belt for every diaper change. Instead, I recommend implementing the belt beneath the diaper, as it will serve its long-term purpose most effectively. Further, the belt staying on nearly 24/7 will better reinforce a submissive’s understanding of the device as a new permanent feature of their little existence, just like the diapers themselves!

Finally, with both devices, the most important aspect of all is the steel lock.

A steel lock, to which only you, the caregiver, hold the key.

A Note on Diaper Chastity Hygiene and Safety

It’s important to note that implementing a chastity device will likely require slightly more effort from the caregiver when cleaning a little one after a poopy accident in their diaper, as cleaning the device sufficiently will require a little more work than normal. This is especially true of the belt, compared to the cage, as a belt is more likely to be exposed to a little one’s ‘mess’ in the rear, due to its rear straps.

Therefore, I also recommend regular bath times for little ones wearing a device to make sure all yucky germs are thoroughly washed away. Besides, what nanny doesn’t enjoy giving her diapered little one a nice bubble bath before bed? 😊

Also, please be aware that chastity devices come with some risk if not properly sized, fitted and adjusted, so as to not cut off circulation. This is just a friendly reminder to not take anything in this guide as a substitute for professional medical advice and consultation!

Making the Moment Special: Taking Your Little One’s ‘Reverse Virginity’ for the First Time

The first time you subject your naughty little one to a chastity device is one of the most magical moments in your diaper domination relationship.

This is why I like to consider it taking their reverse virginity.

Because if losing your virginity means having sex for the first time, losing your reverse virginity means being chastised and losing sex for all time.

Whether your adult little has ever had sex or not, from the day they are first permanently chastised onward, they will be forever now living as a true virgin, with all sexual release now rendered impossible.

Can you imagine any form of diaper domination more powerful than that?

Therefore, I think you should make the presentation and application of the locking device for the first time extra special in of itself, commemorating this moment of your submissive’s new level of diapered submission for them for all time.

The following are three methods of chastity device application I recommend for you to choose from—or take inspiration from to make your own!

The ‘Morning Surprise’ Method

Imagine your little one wakes up in their crib one morning. They stretch in their cotton onesie, yawn, let out a fresh stream of warm, morning pee, then reach down to squeeze their soggy, overnight diaper through their PJs.

They smirk a little bit at the naughty tingles they always get when squeezing their mushy diaper against their privates. And yet… for some reason, they notice that this morning, they don’t achieve the usual morning boner they get.

They don’t think too much about it at first. But then, when their Mommy comes in, she gives her little one an especially wet kiss on the forehead, helps him out of his PJs, and even gives his soggy diapered crotch a really sensuous squeeze and massage.

Now your little one is very confused. When their Mommy squeezes their soggy diapered crotch in such a way, it usually guarantees they develop a rock hard boner. And through the confines of their diaper, they can feel their peepee trying to thrust and get hard. But it seems strangely… blocked by something.

Finally, your little one is brought to the changing table for their morning change.

But after their soggy diaper is rolled away, they look down and gasp in horror…

There’s a strange plastic thing on their tiny weewee! It seems to be trapping it in place!

“Mommy! What is that!” They’ll shout through their paci.

“Oh! That’s just your new chastity cage, sweetie,” you’ll explain with a smile. “Remember how you said you were having trouble not playing with your peepee in your dirty diapers? Well, now Mommy’s taken care of that for you, hon, and you won’t have to worry about being able to do that anymore.”

“But… but… but…” They’ll whine. “I don’t like it! Can’t you take it off? Please?”

“Oh, no, sorry baby, but your new little cage is staying on for good. Just like your diapers, you’re just going to have to get used to it, okay? That’s just part of what it means to be Mommy’s baby now,” you’ll explain matter-of-factly.

And with that, your little one will submissively nod, tearfully accepting that they’ve suddenly just woken up further reduced to being Mommy’s diaper baby in ever way.

And they weren’t even given the chance to watch it happen.

As you can see, by applying the cage while they’re fast asleep, probably after you’ve put them down for the night with the assistance of some appropriate sedatives, so you can do the job without them noticing, you’ll produce a unique feeling of ‘discovery’ for your little one in the morning.

They won’t be able to argue or stop you from putting the cage on whatsoever, because they’ll realize, it’s already been done! That little toy ship sailed while they were fast asleep. They didn’t even get a chance to give their uncaged weewee one last naughty goodbye!

This will help your little one come to realize, with bright red, blushing cheeks, that at anytime, even in their sleep, their Mommy can always regress them much further back to babyhood than they even thought was possible before.

The Casual ‘Changing Table Click’

Similar to the above method of surprising them with it already attached one morning, you can also just casually slip their chastity cage on them during a routine diaper change.

They’ll probably hear the click of it locking, feel something funny, then look down in surprise.

The casual way you’ll shrug off their concerns—as if permanently stripping them of any diapered sexual satisfaction they may ever receive again was just as routine as cleaning their bum with a baby wipe—will have a profound impact on their self image.

They will internalize that their sexual desires are meaningless now. They are Mommy’s diapered baby, and whatever she says, goes.

The Very Special Occasion

Start by building up an upcoming ‘very special occasion’ for your little one, and tell them all about it far in advance.

The occasion can be a little one’s first birthday, celebrating their one year anniversary as an adult baby under your care. It can be Christmas. It can even just be a friends and family potluck. But no matter what it is, you should invite as many guests over as possible for the occasion.

“I’ve got a very special surprise for you next month, little girl! At the party I told you about, I’m planning on giving you a very special gift. But in order to get it, you have to be extra good until then, okay?” You’ll explain to her, marking the date on her potty chart / calendar.

She’ll immediately grow excited, as littles are known to do at such news.

Then, subtly ramp her excitement up even more in the coming weeks. Drop casual comments that mislead her into thinking it might be a pony. Or a big princess castle. Or even a chance to potty-train again!

Get her hopes for the occasion sky-high, and keep her on her toes for weeks in terms of her behavior. Make sure she’s excited enough to be desperately trying to remain in your good graces for her upcoming ’special present’.

Then, the big occasion arrives.

Everyone is gathered around in the living room to watch as the little girl prepares to receive her special present.

You finally present her with a gift-wrapped box.

Taken off guard, but intrigued, your little one eagerly tears the wrapping off and opens the box.

She looks down at the contents in confusion.

It seems to be some sort of… strange, pink, metal belt?

“Isn’t it pretty? Go ahead and show everyone,” you’ll say as she holds it up for all of her giggling aunt’s and cousins to see.

“But… what is it?” She’ll ask.

“Why, it’s your new special belt, dear! It fits right under your diaper. And by wearing it, it means that you’re now officially Mommy’s extra-special, true adult baby!”

She’ll frown with confusion and simmering disappointment. But you’ll proceed regardless and tell her to lay back for a diaper change. Despite her apprehension about the nature of her ‘present’, she’ll still know better than to argue about submitting to a diaper change by now.

After untaping her damp diaper, you’ll casually slide the belt up her legs and strap it tight around her waist. Then you’ll cinch it up tight between her legs and lock it as everyone watches with smirks on their faces.

“Take a look, sweetie! Isn’t it pretty?” You’ll say, pointing to the shimmering pink and stainless steel. “It’s your new, special, kitty tiara!”

At that point, the whole crowd of onlookers will finally erupt in hysterics.

The little girl will look down in more shock and confusion than ever, frantically grabbing and feeling the strange thing. Finally, she’ll realize that the belt completely covers her vagina and clitoris with a hard metal plate, totally blocking her access to both!

“Mommy! What is this thing? I don’t like it!” She’ll squeal, frantically trying to touch her no-no spot as you further tighten and secure her new special apparatus.

“Aw, that’s okay, dear, you’re just a baby, so you don’t have to like it! Mommy just has to like it. And Mommy is extra excited about your brand new, special belt, because it means you’ll never be able to get naughty tingles by humping your stuffies in your dirty diapers again!” You’ll say with a warm smile.

“But… but… but…” Your little one will stammer and tear up in horror.

Everyone in the room will burst into even louder laughter at the little girl now crying because her Mommy won’t let her hump her dirty diapees anymore.

She’ll then slowly realize the cruel trick you played on her by getting her hopes up for a ‘special gift’, only to present her with one of the most humiliating punishments she’s received yet.

The deafening laughter will force her to realize just how much of a silly girl everyone thinks she is. She’ll realize just how ridiculous her sexual desires appear in the eyes of all the ‘grown ups’ around her.

And in the wake of such a powerful inauguration of her new, pink and shiny ‘kitty tiara’, now permanently locked beneath her diaper, she’ll have no choice but to accept the indisputable reality of her situation…

She’ll finally have to totally accept her fate of being totally transformed into your perfect, chaste little diapered angel, making her regression into the pampered adult baby of your dreams complete.

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Does the above method seem a bit cruel? Perhaps a bit over the top in the way it combines overwhelming public humiliation with the application of the chastity device itself?

Yes, I suppose it is.

But then again, I’m of the opinion, that if you have a little one who has no qualms about humiliating themselves by regularly humping their poopy pampers every time you turn your back…

A little humiliation in response is merely just deserts!

Permanent Chastity vs. Intermittent Release

From the above examples, you can see how implementing a chastity device in a highly memorable way can have a dramatically effective impact on psychologically dominating your diapered submissive.

Especially when they know their new state of diapered chastity is permanent.

Making the choice to permanently lock up your little one’s weewee or clitty is an eminently reasonable choice when it comes to dominating your diapered submissive.

After all, sex is for grown-ups, not babies. Masturbation is a deeply sinful, disrespectful activity. And a baby who deliberately plays with themselves in their soiled diapers is committing a truly filthy and reprehensible act, and it’s only fitting that you completely eliminate the possibility of such behavior from happening ever again.

That being said, chastity doesn’t have to be permanent to still be incredibly effective.

You may, in fact, choose to go a slightly different route than a permanently locked cage. One in which your little one still suffers a 24/7 chastity belt, yet is still allowed very limited, very occasional moments of release, all as part of a system you implement for their continued diaper training, behavioral correction, and psychological regression.

After all, you now hold the key to their deepest, forbidden cravings and desires. With that comes enormous power. Enormous power, which you can yield to mold them to whatever little diapered baby shape you see fit.

Scheduled Release as a Form of Domination

Here is the basic method of introducing a scheduled ‘release’ for your little one—that is, choosing to temporarily unlock their chastity cage just so that they may bring themselves to orgasm—and how to use it to advance your methods of diaper domination.

After your little one is secured in their new form of chastity, explain to them that they will be released from their chastity device once per month and given the opportunity to stroke themselves to orgasm in their soggy diapers. Just as you know they so badly want to do.

However, if they misbehave in any fashion before then, their opportunity for the next month will be revoked.

This upcoming date will suddenly become one of the most important dates imaginable to your naughty diapered submissive’s horny little chastised mind. They will quickly demonstrate just how desperate they are to ‘properly behave’, just to preserve this chance to have a naughty cummies in their diapees again.

As the month progresses, you can choose to keep to yourself whether or not you feel they are on track to have been ‘behaved enough’ to earn their release. You can also keep the precise way you are tabulating such a thing to yourself as well. This will keep your little one on their toes at all times.

Finally, on the ‘big day’, hold up the key to their chastity device before them…

And announce your decision.

They will either be overcome with joy, as they are gleefully rewarded with the opportunity to animalistically debase themselves in their filthy diaper before you, for a few minutes of sinful, fleeting pleasure, only to be immediately locked up again for another month, while they still remain sticky, red-faced and ashamed…

Or they will be suddenly crushed with the disappointing news. “Sorry, little boy. You were very naughty this month, so you won’t be getting your naughty little reward. I’m not going to remind you of what exactly you did, but I’m sure you can remember all of the naughty things you did yourself. I guess you’ll just have to try a little harder again next month to be a properly behaved little diaper boy, huh?”

You should never specify exactly how you’re making your decision, or what exactly they did over the past month that was naughty enough to deny them release. The vagueness of the criteria will drive them crazy, forcing them to constantly be on their toes, desperate to obey and please you at all times, always desperate to preserve their chance at release next month.

Want to make this even more fun?

Instead of deciding their release based on your general feeling about whether they deserve to be released or not… you can even literally randomize your decision without their knowledge.

Such as privately flipping a coin. Or rolling a secret die. Or just deciding based on whether you feel like watching them debase themselves that day… or squeal in cuckolded humiliation as they suffer the loss of their most prized opportunity.

The arbitrariness of it will start to drive them crazy. They’ll start overthinking every little thing they do. Did they thank their Mommy loud enough when she helped them up onto the diaper changing table? Did they accidentally take their paci out without permission? Did they not show their Auntie proper manners when she came over to poke fun at the fact that they still poop their diapers like a baby?

Ultimately, your little one will just have no idea that the most intense desires of their very diapered being is being determined completely randomly, just to humiliate them.

Want to amp up the humiliation and punishment even more?

You can do what one Mommy I know has done, and just keep denying your little one release again and again, for months and months, then years and years on end.

And yet still remain always dangling that sinister carrot, always tormenting your naughty diapered little with the prospect of release, and never letting them know that you’ve already decided long ago that the release they so desperately crave, will truly never come… (No pun intended!)

The Carrots and Sticks Technique

The previous section describes an approach that draws its strength from the arbitrary, vague nature of a Mommy’s decision making. But with the following technique, you’ll do the exact opposite.

Present your little one with a complicated system of carrots and sticks that you’ve devised.

To do this, hang up a physical chart for everyone to see, much like a potty chart, that uses stickers to keep track of the ‘carrots’ vs. ‘sticks’ they’ve earned each day. Then explain to them how it works.

To earn carrots, they must perform acts of utter servile obedience, empty-headed babyhood, or genuinely childish behavior.

For example, you might reward carrots for a little who properly plays in a super messy diaper all day, rather than ask you for a diaper change, demonstrating they know that babies aren’t allowed to ask for diaper changes, no matter how stinky they are.

Or, if you have a sissy baby, you might reward them for performing a proper, full curtsey when greeting any adult, bearing the humiliation of flashing their bright pink and soggy diaper in red-faced silence.

Or, you might reward your little with a carrot for talking with a proper babyish lisp all day, using only baby vocabulary, and drinking all of their bottles completely and without complaint.

Then, you can explain sticks. Sticks can be thought of as the loss of a carrot. And you can assign them for whatever infraction you wish, no matter how petty or arbitrary it seems.

For example, infractions like not thanking their Mommy for their soapy enema. Or for using big kid words, or not finishing their bottle in time. Or for secretly hiding in the other room from their cousins after they went number two in their diaper, instead of embracing their well-deserved, babyish public humiliation for the stench of their poopy diaper. Or perhaps instead, not properly apologizing to all your guests about the stench in their pants after you changed them.

It can even be for infractions as strict as them being the tiniest bit fussy on the changing table that morning while you deeply fingered their bottom to check the status of their colon.

The point is, it’s going to be a lot easier to earn sticks than gain carrots.

At the end of the day, a balance of sticks vs carrots is taken.

If they have more carrots than sticks, they can add those carrots to their monthly tally, which will be used to decide whether they will be rewarded with a release at the end of the month.

But if they have more sticks than carrots at the end of the day instead… they will be spanked to the point of tears, put in the corner, and given a heavy dose of castor oil for the night. In addition, they will have the corresponding ‘monthly’ carrots deducted by the amount of sticks they had over carrots that day.

As you can see, such a system will leave them in a state of constant vigilance about their behavior. And it allows you to quickly and effortlessly punish them at the most minor infraction, simply by placing a sticker in the moment, both you and your little knowing that every infraction will be added up and properly punished at the end of the day.

When it comes to earning their end of the month release, I recommend you still make the amount of carrots required within reach. This keeps the prospect of release still possible in their mind, motivating them to still always be behaving the very best they can.

Further, as the month nears its end, you can utilize the somewhat malleable nature of the way you decide to assign carrots vs sticks to adjust the sum to your liking as the goal approaches.

If you personally don’t think they’ve really deserved a ‘naughty release’, you can always start ramping up the sticks toward the end of the month. Or maybe, if you want to be especially mean, you can have them practically certain that they’re going to hit enough carrots…

Only to make them watch in tearful shame as they miss their precious ‘sticky’ goal by just one carrot on the morning of.

And when you announce to them that they’ve failed to achieve their goal of release due to their naughty behavior, if they say anything other than, “Thank you, Ma’am, for teaching me to be a good baby…”

Start them off the next month with thirty sticks on day one, and a bright red bottom and soapy enema before bed to boot!

The Endless Cycle of Diapered Shame: The Most Powerful Chastity of All?

The above is just the start of the power that the dangling carrot of chastity release can provide you when training and dominating your diaper submissive to become your perfect little baby. You are encouraged to modify the basic premise to fit any form of psychological diaper regression training that you see fit!

However, does intermittent release undermine the very purpose of masturbation punishment—that is to prevent them from performing the dirty deed at all?

Perhaps.

But then again, consider this—the reality your little one will be forced to face again and again, always while basking in their immediate, rare, post-orgasmic shame.

From now on, their only chance of any sexual release at all requires them to debase themselves for weeks on end, utterly behaving as your totally dominated diaper baby—which they pathetically voluntarily submit to, just for the chance to squirt their sticky cummies once every 30 days.

And even when they do finally get their precious chance, they are forced to do it on the floor, their fist jammed in their soggy or even poopy diaper, as you stand over them watching, heaping words of shame and looks of disgust upon them about their filthy, filthy urges.

They may even be forced to perform this deed, their only chance for the month, in front of their aunts or grannies or any female visitors you happen to invite over to also enjoy the sight of the pathetic diaper-baby’s humiliating self-abasement.

The naughty little one may be forced to subject themselves to the even crueler humiliation of a timer that you decide to set—one that decides the length of the window they have to spurt their naughty cummies into their filthy diaper. Say, 5 minutes if they were extremely good the last month. Or if they were not nearly as good as you would have liked… only 30 seconds.

They may even find out on the big day of their release, that you won’t in fact allow them to use their hands at all. Instead, they will only be allowed to roll onto their belly on the floor… and hump their dirty diapers instead. And despite the utterly cruel, humiliating nature of such a requirement… they’ll desperately comply with the rule all the same, too desperate for release to possibly resist.

If they don’t succeed at their desperate task of release in time, they’ll be forced to suffer the exquisite agony of being harshly interrupted and immediately caged back up as their Mommy condescendingly coos to them, “Aww, maybe you’ll get another chance to try to make squirties in your dirty diadees next month, sweetie.”

And even if they do manage to finally accomplish their so desperately sought after dirty diaper climax…

They will, without fail, immediately collapse afterward and succumb to intense waves of shame. Shame about the filth they just added to their already filthy diaper. Shame about all the ways they had humiliated and debased themselves for their Mommy and everyone else, just for the chance to do what they just did.

And shame about just how fleeting their coveted naughty pleasure was, given just how enslaved they were by its mere prospect over the last 30+ days.

They’ll burn bright red with embarrassment as you wipe away their sticky mess with a baby wipe… and tightly cage them back up.

Mostly because they already know that by tomorrow, they’ll already be burning up with the exact same desperation just to repeat the whole process again. Their naughty, shameful, filthy desires helplessly transforming them more everyday into Mommy’s naughty, diaper-pooping, empty-headed little baby, just like everyone already says they are.

Therefore, with all that being considered, perhaps such a release under these constraints… is really hardly a release at all.

Perhaps instead… it’s actually a much harsher form of chastity. The chastity of utter helplessness upon realizing just what a naughty, filthy, stinky little diaper baby they are. The chastity… of dire, diapered shame.

Maybe permanent diaper chastity is now looking like the more compassionate technique, after all!

END OF CHAPTER 7 — PART I

We’ve reached the end of today’s lessons about chastity… but wait! There’s more!

That’s right, there’s so much naughty information I wanted to include for you about chastity devices, I needed to break chapter 7 into two parts.

Stay tuned for my next post continuing the discussion of chastity techniques for diaper punishment!

I promise… it’s going to get more devious than ever. 😈

See you then!

Nanny