Nanny’s Notes: 7 Ways to Punish a Dirty Diaper Ma*sturbator (Part 4)

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Punishment Method #4: Psychological Diaper Bondage

The First Phase of Restraint: Freedom as Bondage

In the previous chapters, I’ve explained and given techniques on how to apply direct punishments as a consequence for discovering your little one ‘playing with themselves’ in their diapers when your back is turned.

Needless to say, such naughty, naughty behavior is deeply inappropriate for (adult) babies. The only thing they should be doing in their diapers now is making weewee and poopies for their nannies to change. That is their place now as a diaper-dependent baby.

Of course, not only is such sexual self-abuse from your little one highly uncouth for someone who still must wear diapers like a baby—as a caretaker, dominating your little one by implementing such a rule about their very sexuality is a critical step in your total diaper dominance over them in the long term.

By transforming their very residual sexual urges into tools of humiliating, shaming, and forcing them to become ever more dependent on their diapers and subject to your power, you assert a powerful method of becoming their new, total Mommy (or Daddy/Nanny/Caregiver, or whatever title pleases you most, my wonderful fellow diaper disciplinarians 😉).

The reason I’m explaining the goals of diaper masturbation punishment again is to make a key point about the next phase of discipline that you implement.

The previous steps in my guide thus far have focused on direct punishment for the act of diapered masturbation itself.

And in the coming chapters, I will explain how it’s more than possible to implement a thorough enough bondage regime, that your little one will never be able to ‘touch’ themselves, no matter how badly they may wish to.

Both of these measures are highly effective in their own right.

But before instituting a regime of totally preventative bondage, I recommend instituting a period of what I like to call, Initial Restraint.

The methods of restraint below focus on methods that make disobeying you much more difficult… but not impossible.

In the process, by maintaining some level of freedom for your submissive to still disobey you, you allow for a period of enhanced psychological bondage.

By still secretly allowing your little one the freedom to fiddle their privates in their diapers if they just try hard enough, you leave them with ‘just enough rope to hang themselves with’, so to speak.

Or perhaps a more appropriate metaphor, you extend the leash of their baby reins just far enough for them to trip over themselves and fall right into your lap for yet another blistering spanking.

I suggest you implement measures that remove your little one’s ability to touch themselves slowly, methodically. Their filthy deed will become harder. Disobeying you and fiddling themselves beneath their diaper will be punished ever more severely. And yet still, they’ll likely find themselves still humiliating and debasing themselves, despite every reason not to.

You can take private joy in the special psychological diaper domination of granting your little one the ability to disgrace themselves, precisely so that you can punish them for it, and use it as further evidence to your little one that their babyhood and diapers is all the more necessary, due to their clear filthy habits and lack of self control.

For example, shortly after discovering that your little one’s been up to some ‘naughty touching’, you might still allow them unrestrained movement in their crib at night for some time, or perhaps regular days of the week, despite repeatedly catching them and punishing the for their filthy deed.

Every morning you discover evidence of their crime, you will mete out a punishment just as harsh, perhaps even harsher, than the time before. And you will express shock and disappointment that they still haven’t properly ‘learned their lesson’ about their behavior.

But privately, you won’t be surprised. Privately, you’ll know that successfully curbing the naughty behavior of a filthy diaper masturbator requires a prolonged process of punishment, humiliation, and ultimately restraint.

You might think that allowing them enough freedom to continue disobeying you with their filthy, trespassing little hands is allowing them to flaunt your authority over them.

But no. In fact, by presenting them with the quandary, by giving them the freedom to still make the choice to ‘sin’, as it were, you provide them with a new layer of exquisite, humiliating, diapered torment.

I call this the ‘bondage of freedom’. That is… their very liberty has been transformed into a method of their submission in of itself.

Every time they transgress and touch themselves, followed by another punishment at your hands, it further cements the connection between your little one’s primal sexual urges and your power over them. It instills a long-lasting sense of shame, submission, and naughtiness in them about their diapers and what they do in them. It forever links their naughty feelings to their diapered submission.

And, ultimately, it solidifies your position as the authority over their most intimate bodily functions. Not only do you watch them pee, and poop, in their diapers and clean up after both. You even monitor and clean up after them for their ‘naughty number threes’!

Every time they experience their naughty urges—say a boner slowly forming in a freshly soggy diaper, or a clit starting to throb at the warm, crinkling wetness of a diaper under the blankets—they are tormented by their insatiable, horny desires, contrasted with the fear of the punishment for them they know it will result in.

Soon, your little one won’t be able to have a naughty thought at all without also picturing your stern, sinister smirk looming over them, ready to scold and punish them for being the naughty, naughty dirty-diaper-touching stinkers that they are.

It makes their every punishment for the naughty deed all the sweeter, as they will be forced to always confront the reality that they made the choice to disobey the rules. They are being punished ‘fair and square’. And their remorse and shame for their filthy deed will be entirely genuine.

Or, as I like to explain when I have a little one over my knee…

“You filthy, filthy little girl. You knew exactly what touching yourself in such a naughty manor would cost you, and you did it anyway. You must have a truly filthy, perverted lust for your soggy, stinky diapers, to willingly pay the price of a trip over my lap, just to abuse yourself in such a fashion. I’m just going to have to keep punishing you harder and harder, until you finally learn your lesson, aren’t I?”

“Yes, Mommy! I know I’m a naughty, naughty little baby! I’m sorry I was so naughty and did touchies in my diapee!” They’ll sob in genuine shame and remorse over your knee.

Music to a diaper-dominating Nanny’s ears!

Diaper Tapes and Super Glue

This first initial diaper-restraint technique is one of my favorites, because it’s so deviously simple!

The next time you go to change your little one into a fresh, clean diaper for bed:

Put a small drop of superglue on each of the diaper tapes of their new diaper.

Don’t let your little one see you do this, and don’t let them know this has taken place.

Then, as you tape this new diaper on, make sure it’s extra-tight on them. Ideally you should place the tapes as high up above their waist line as possible.

As the superglue works its magic, the diaper tapes will quickly become effectively impossible to untape like usual. (When you need to remove the diaper to change them, simply cut the tapes with a pair of safety scissors.)

What purpose does this technique serve?

Well, as caregivers, we know about diaper tapes. We know sometimes they come undone. Perhaps after your little one has a busy day running around the park with an extra poopy load in their pants. Or you need to untape them for a moment to pull their diaper down for a spanking, and the tapes don’t stick as well when you replace them.

We caregivers are also especially attuned to detecting diaper tapes that have been ‘tampered with’, so to speak, while our little one was outside of our supervision. If our little one has cunningly untaped and re-taped their diaper for a little ‘extracurricular exploration’ while outside of our supervision, we can usually tell.

But not always.

Therefore, this is a method of making sure the diaper tapes can’t be undone without significant difficulty, and without the evidence being obvious.

Further, this is an especially effective punishment and restraint technique for devious little ones who have even secretly gotten used to being able to proficiently untape and retape their diaper behind your back!

To elaborate, let me portray a scenario:

Perhaps you suspect your little one has been regularly untaping their diaper at night to stick their hand down where it doesn’t belong.

That evening, as you change them into their night time diaper, you super-glue the tapes without their knowledge.

Then, as they go to perform their usual naughty little deed late that night…

They’ll slide their hand down to quietly untape their diaper…

And suddenly realize…

They can’t. Their diaper tapes won’t come undone.

They’ll suddenly try harder, pulling and prying with their finger nails. But still no luck! The diaper tapes are totally stuck for some reason!

They’ll quickly become confused and frustrated. They’ll then try to just slide their diaper down without untaping it… But they can’t do that either! Mommy taped it on too tight and too high above their waist!

Red-faced and flustered, they’ll finally realize they’re utterly trapped in their crinkly diapee!

For most littles, this will prompt them to finally give up their naughty aspirations for self-pleasure that night in humiliated, thwarted frustration. And in doing so, they’ll be finally accepting that only their Mommy has access to their weewees anymore due to their tightly taped, 24/7 padding.

But for some extra-depraved little diaper masturbators… that still may not prevent them from pursuing their naughty, forbidden desires that very same evening.

After working themselves up into a sweaty-faced tizzy, desperately trying and failing again and again to instead just get off by rubbing themselves through the front of their extra thick padding…

Their naughty, filthy, dirty diaper desires will completely take over. And in their depraved, diaper rubbing heat, they’ll finally resort to ripping their diaper right open to get inside!

They’ll pounce on their rock hard little member and begin mindlessly, furiously pumping themselves to completion, their ripped open diaper flailing and tearing and spilling out even more of its mess.

Your little will most certainly ‘finish’ their filthy sin just a few moments later.

And right after they spurt on themselves, they’ll lay their head back, and realize, in horror, what they had just done.

They opened, removed, and destroyed their diaper. Under Mommy’s diaper discipline regime, just the first of the three is a cardinal sin by itself!

Locked in their crib, there’s no way they can possibly get out to hide the evidence, replace their diaper, or do anything of the sort. There’s nothing they can do!

And even worse, after they wet themselves, even mess themselves, that night—due to their newly developed genuine diaper-dependence—their Mommy will find them in the morning laying in an extra big, extra humiliating, extra inexcusable mess, permanently staining their onesie, their blankets, and the mattress of their little crib.

And the little one will whine the loudest they’ve ever whined with shame and remorse as their Mommy drags them out of bed for one of their most severe, humiliating, long-lasting diaper punishments yet…

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What exactly that punishment is, is for you to decide!

But as you can see, this method is a wonderfully devious way to escalate and shame your little one for their filthy habit far beyond any punishment thus far.

Now you have all the evidence and explanation you could ever need to explain to your little one why you can never trust them again without a diapered secured on their bottom. It’s proof to you, to them, and to all the world, that your little one needs to be in diapers (and diaper restraints) for the rest of their little diapered lives.

And it’s all thanks to a few little drops of super glue. 😉

Implementing ‘Naughty Checks’

Another new form of diapered sexual denial is the introduction of ‘naughty checks’.

Explain to your adult little one that from now on, at any point in the day, you may demand they drop their pants and diaper to their ankles, hold their shirt up high, and present their exposed privates for a "naughty check".

Any evidence in their loins of them harboring ‘naughty thoughts’ is grounds for immediate punishment.

For boys, this means seeing them with a stiff peepee.

For girls, a simple baby wipe swiped under their crotch and held up to inspect for ‘naughty fluids’ will do as well.

If your little one is caught ‘harboring naughty thoughts’, you should commence to punish them just as severely as if they had plunged their hands into their diaper and stroked themselves to completion right in front of you.

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This new regimen is a deliciously cruel punishment that will introduce your little one to the extent of humiliation and punishment they can expect just for experiencing ‘impure feelings’ and ‘inappropriate thoughts’. It may be the most sinister punishment in this chapter!

You may find that it helps to offer this new regimen to your little one in a bargain.

Perhaps when just about to spank your little after discovering untoward activity, you can offer them the chance to agree to this regimen of inspections, in lieu of a spanking, as an offer of goodwill on their promise that they, “won’t ever have naughty thoughts like that again”.

To the naive little one, this new rule to follow may sound easy, much better than a spanking!

But they’ll soon discover it’s far harder than they realized! And of course, there’s no way to go back. They are now forced to live with the consequences of their babyish naiveté about their own little weewees!

The moment this new regimen of ‘naughty inspections’ is implemented, your little one will soon be on edge at all hours of the day, desperately trying to ward off any naughty ‘big boy’ thoughts they might get.

Personally, I love to check a little one under this rule when I know they’ve been sitting in an extra soggy diaper for some time. I know naughty little ones can get lots of naughty feelings and thoughts in their little loins as they squish on their stinky bottoms for hours on end, secretly relishing their warm, wet, peepee filled diapers.

Some extra naughty ones even like to rub the front of their mushy diapee when Mommy isn’t looking! Some even naughtier ones like to excite themselves by squishing a poopy diaper under their bum, rocking back and forth on their play mat in their stinky diapee!

But no matter how naughty your little one is, after you begin meting out punishments over the first few days of spontaneous checks, your little one’s feelings about these secret ‘naughty’ moments of theirs will change dramatically.

Now, whenever they sense those familiar naughty feelings bubbling up inside of them after getting their diaper nice and soggy and wet, they’ll feel a sense of panic, and will now desperately mentally throw themselves into any babyish activity on hand, no matter how mundane—such as babyish TV shows or stacking toy blocks—just to try to distract themselves from the naughty tingles they feel betraying them down in their no-no area.

They’ll soon begin to hate their little doodle for betraying them time after time. They’ll fear the feelings of arousal the first moment they come on. And they will begin to form an intense psychological bond with their diapers, their padded shield against their naughty privates, that they hope to never have to remove again.

Want to turn up the difficulty for your naughty little one?

Have that Aunt of theirs with the extra-big bosom and low-cut top come over, the one you know they have a blushy little crush on.

The second your little one lays eyes on her, watch them dash out of the room in terrified ‘shyness’—just like a real toddler would—because they know what might happen in their diaper while she’s around!

Watch as your little one now becomes authentically terrified—‘shy’ as a baby, if you will—of all adults they used to freely lust after.

Can you imagine anything more deliciously infantilizing for your diapered little submissive?

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Oh, and I forgot to mention, the ‘naughty check’ rule especially applies during diaper changes.

Even as your little one lays back on their diaper change table, their hands fastened above their head, as their Mommy delicately and thoroughly cleans their peepee with a baby wipe. Or their Nanny sticks her digit deep into baby’s bottom hole and moves it in and out to check for poopies. Or even when Daddy rubs his little girl’s groin with baby oil until every spot below her waist is glistening…

Naughty babies who get naughty thoughts during their diaper changes still deserve to be punished all the same!

Perhaps by just having their feet raised up high as they lay on their changing table, then smack after smack delivered to their plump little bottom, until their little weewee finally shrinks back down, and they remember their proper, diapered baby place!

In the end, your little one will likely even gleefully volunteer for more intensive anti-masturbation restraints—even a chastity device itself—so they may finally be ‘saved from themselves’, as it were, knowing it will at least no longer be possible for them to fail another naughty check.

And in the end, isn’t that exactly what a Nanny wants? For her little one to finally just accept that they need their Mommy to keep them diapered, restrained, and infantilized—all for their own good?

I certainly like to think so!

Arriving in Diapers… with ‘Bells on’!

This next method of punishment and restraint explores a new sensory realm altogether…

The realm of sound.

Implementing sound as a control device is a wonderfully versatile way to help keep your diapered little one monitored and under your control at all times.

The following two methods describe how to use sound to keep your little one on edge 24/7 about any naughtiness they may think about getting up to in their diaper, knowing their actions will now be exponentially harder to hide!

The Beginners Method: Turning up the Crinkles

The first method is to make that embarrassing, crinkly diaper they’re wearing so much more crinkly!

This starts with buying the most crinkly diaper brands available. Go with plastic backed diapers, the thicker the plastic the better. ABDL brands with cute prints are also more likely to be even more crinkly than usual.

Then, to make any diaper even more crinkly, simply cut to shape and apply a layer of tracing paper, baking paper, or any crinkly plastic or paper you can find to the outside of the diaper. Even plastic bags from the store work great!

For additional crinkles, you can have your little one start wearing extra thick, plastic, baby pants. And you can even add another layer of ‘crinkle’ enhancing plastic inside the baby pants as well.

You’ll be shocked at just how crinkly, loud, and downright blushy you can make a diaper if you try!

Now, when your little one ‘plays’ with their diaper in any way—whether it’s just adjusting it, rubbing it, or even trying to open it at all—it will give them a terrifying, extra loud crinkle that everyone around them will be able to instantly hear!

If they were humiliated about their naughty little crinkle-pants before… they will now be downright mortified! (And in the best way!)

The Advanced Method: Jingle All The Way!

This final technique might be the most humiliating method of punishment of all!

You’re going to create a special new bracelet for your little one. Two of them, actually.

The bracelets are going to be made of thick leather or cloth. They’ll be measured to fit perfectly tight around each of your little one’s wrists. And once they go on, they’ll never come off.

And these bracelets? They’ll be covered with jingly little bells.

That’s right, your little one is about to be transformed into your little jingle-bells baby!

The moment your diapered little one realizes the truth about what their new little bracelets are, they will become immediately furious and terrified.

They’ll quickly realize that now everyone in the house can hear exactly where they are and what they’re doing at all times! Even the most slow, measured crawling will result in a loud, humiliating jingling, signaling their location!

But most embarrassing of all, and most relevant to this pamphlet, is that any naughty ‘rhythmic’ activity that your little one may ever want to secretly get up to, will now be immediately detectable for exactly what it is, by anyone in ear shot.

Whereas before, they might have gotten away with silently humping their stuffy in their soggy diaper while Nana was in the other room…

Now, the telltale, rhythmic jingling will immediately have Nana come running, knowing exactly what her little one has just been doing!

With their new bells on at all times, stroking themselves quietly will now be impossible. Rubbing the front of their diaper in a rhythmically pleasurable way at all will be impossible. They won’t even be able to sneak into the other room to secretly go number two in their pants anymore!

This jingly technique will have your little diapered baby totally mentally transformed. The constant sound of their jingling bells will have them psychologically tormented by their loss of privacy and control, the bells second only to the diapers themselves in their humiliating, infantilizing effect.

This simple little jingly wardrobe item will achieve leaps and bounds in terms of punishing your diapered little one out of their naughty little dirty diaper wanking habit, and further transforming them into your dominated little diaper baby.

Oh, and it’s the perfect festive accessory for the winter holidays! Jingle Bells, anyone?

Conclusion

I hope you can now see the tremendous benefit that instituting ‘soft restraints’ can have for diaper dominating your little one—engaging in a period of ‘catch and release, as it were—in order to repeatedly humiliate and punish your little every time they engage in their sinful little diaper stroking desires.

But don’t worry, this phase of ‘limited freedom’ for your little one, so that they may still potentially secretly engage in this naughty behavior, won’t last forever. Far from it.

In my next post, I’ll begin to outline the various methods of instituting guaranteed anti-masturbation compliance for your little one.

That means techniques for absolute diaper bondage.

See you then!

Nanny