Life Updates...
Added 2023-02-04 06:03:47 +0000 UTCI made this video for you all because I wanted to let you all know a few things coming up that are important.
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You are awesome. I'm so sorry that you went through this. I hope things are better for you now.
Takato
2023-05-31 03:29:58 +0000 UTCI wish I could jump into the screen and hug you. I, too, went through a breakup and he broke my heart. It sucked and I'm so sorry that you're going through that. And good for you for taking responsibility for your well-being and mentality. Take care of YOU, hun. Hugs and kisses from Minnesota <3
Stone27
2023-02-25 08:28:59 +0000 UTCYour well-being and happiness always come first. I'm so sorry you've been going through a difficult time. As someone who has also struggled with their mental health longterm, including suicidal thoughts, I totally understand how much of a toll it can take on your everyday life. We're all here for you!
Susanna
2023-02-07 21:20:35 +0000 UTCAlso could relate to big bang helping me out. Especially around the pandemic. I think that's when I decided to finish the series. And so glad I did.
Natasha G
2023-02-04 22:21:50 +0000 UTCWe are here for you Cody! ❤️
Travis Faber
2023-02-04 21:55:36 +0000 UTCIf you need another comedy to help you get through this mental health crisis, watch bedtime stories it has Adam Sandler. It is the most funniest movie you’ll ever see.
gem starlight
2023-02-04 20:41:58 +0000 UTCHey Cody, always here for you bud. Thanks for sharing all of this with us because we care about you and your well being and your personal life should always come first before your channel. Like I said, we’re never gonna go anywhere, we always have your back and I hope that this breakup not only strengthens you as a person, but allows you to find out who you really are. Sometimes things happen for the right reason, but we never understand why they happen. All the best Cody!!
Derek Ray
2023-02-04 19:20:30 +0000 UTCOh gosh... I know how it feels, I have a very close discord friend(chosen family close) with BPD, and it's not easy sometimes talking to them, cuz one small slip with pronouns or lack of activity with them will cause them to despair and spiral and be borderline(for lack of a better term) unapproachable at times, to the point where I wonder if it's worth still talking to them. You are definitely not alone on this. I really do appreciate all you've done for us, but believe me, I want to see you feel better. You are one of the people on Patreon I look forward to watching the most, and I really hope you find yourself again. And I would love it if you reached out to us if need be for support, through DMs like you said we could do for you. Only fair we return the favor by helping you. Sending virtual support as much as i can. Please take all the time if you need, I will still be here. And stay totally terrific, Cody! *virtual hugs*
Puffy Boi
2023-02-04 19:17:59 +0000 UTCHey Cody, I just wanted to say that you are absolutely free to miss videos, to get behind, even to stop something alltogether. I know you probably have a lot of other people saying this but It's true and It's important. Make the stuff that you want to make, and watch what makes YOU happy. Stress is an absolute killer and I really hope that once the dust settles over this, you can have peace of mind. I wish you all the luck with your future; I know it's going to be bright! I think It's very kind you said you'd offer your number to people wanting to vent or who need a lifeline; I don't really know any youtubers who do that. Just please take care of yourself <3 We are all here because we love what you do and what you make, but we also like you as a person! You are kind and I love learning about your unique perspective on things, even If we don't always agree! This all to say, I'm wishing you the best moving forward and just as you've offered us an invitation to DM, I think It's only fair we return the favor. If you ever need to talk to somebody and your therapist or friends are not available, I'm sure lots of us would have an open ear <3 Remember: You are still totally terrific!
Athena
2023-02-04 15:34:22 +0000 UTCHey Cody, sending you lots of hugs and love. Glad that you are taking the steps to better your situation and life. TBBT has helped me through dark times, hope it helps you too❤️ Know that you are special and you deserve nothing but the best.
Anita Nordlid
2023-02-04 15:19:25 +0000 UTCI’m really sorry about everything Cody. I’m a Christian so I’ll be praying for you
gem starlight
2023-02-04 15:19:08 +0000 UTCI'm a silent viewer and have never commented on Patreon. I'm only following two people here (including you). I follow you because you and your person bring me such joy and healing. There are dark days when it rains and storms, it's cold and windy. When I see you in your videos it reminds me that there is still sunshine and warmth in this world. I send you lots of love. ❤️
Emma Weinberger
2023-02-04 14:50:16 +0000 UTCyou have no idea how many time your videos have got me through some tough times I appreciate everything you do. Whenever I am stressed or depressed I go check if you had posted anything that day and when you do it automatically lifts my spirits up. You seem like such a strong person you will get through this and we will all support you with whatever you do.
Jeanette Dawe
2023-02-04 13:02:31 +0000 UTCI’m sure I can’t say anymore then what has already been said, but if I could give you a giant bear hug I would. I’m not a guy who’s experienced a toxic relationship, but my heart still hurts hearing about such things. I’m just glad you have people who support you through this. I really do hope you get back on your feet from this, and I believe you well. I wish you the best.
Matthew Richson
2023-02-04 10:48:41 +0000 UTCi just want you to know that your reactions are a ray of happiness in my daily life and i am so thankful u do this. we are here for u <3
Shoko
2023-02-04 09:55:28 +0000 UTCHey Cody, I know you don't really know me as anything but just another patron supporter on your Patreon, but I've been watching your content for the past 2 years or so, and been supporting you on Patreon, even if I'm not always interested in some of the movies/shows that you react to, but I've been loving your iCarly and Big Bang Theory reactions lately. Anyways, I just wanted to say, I'm so sorry for what you've been going through bro, and this may sound crazy, but what you've been going through lately in this past relationship of yours, is very similar to what my sister went through in her past relationship. I know I don't know all the details, and there's things that you may never share with us about your ex boyfriend and what exactly he did that was so toxic to you, but in the case of my sister, she's also gay, or is a lesbian, and she had also been in a relationship with someone who seemed perfect earlier on in the relationship, so perfect in fact, my sister too felt like her and her significant other could rule their world together, but it eventually came crashing down back in November of 2022, just a few short months ago, and then in December 2022, my sister started to get suspicions that her ex was cheating on her, and it pretty much was confirmed later on in the month of December, with more evidence coming to the forefront in January of 2023, and my sister's ex basically was cheating on my sister for at least the last 2 months of their relationship with a co-worker, and my sister also believes that her ex has a borderline personality disorder, cause she's that crazy, and actually did show signs and red flags of becoming violent or wanting to at least, luckily it never got that bad, besides the verbal and emotional abuse, but my sister can totally relate to what you've been through, Cody, and my sister also gave this girl waaaaaaaaay too much money during their relationship that she ended up in debt herself, so that's another thing my sister can relate to you with, and even I can honestly relate as well to the feelings of anxiety and depression, and just stress getting the better of me. Sorry that you're going through all this bro, but I'm also here for you, if you ever need someone to talk to. And I will continue to support you on Patreon. I hope you get the help that you need, and that you come back new and improved, and back to your strong happy go lucky self that I always felt like you are, it's why you're one of my favorite reactors, and I love how much emotion and personality and passion that you show whenever you're on camera and filming a reaction to some movie or show that you're passionate about, it's awesome to see real people like you, Cody. I just wanted to say that. I hope everything goes well, bro. You're Awesome, don't ever forget that. 💪💓
Alvin Davis
2023-02-04 08:52:07 +0000 UTCWe are here for you and with you. Though none of us can feel exactly as you feel, everyone goes through dark periods in our lives, and in that we can relate. My heart goes out to you, as one human being to another. The only way to really be done with the pain is to go straight through it, and it *will* pass. In the meantime, we are here and we truly care about you, Cody. We will likely not meet face to face, any of us, and that doesn't matter, because we are watching shows together, listening to your personal highs and lows, and commenting back to you, and you have become as a friend to many of us. I'm so grateful that your second mom will be with you and helping you. Second moms are amazing.
RavenLord
2023-02-04 08:03:46 +0000 UTCGod, if I could, I'd reach in through the screen and hug you. I've also tried to commit suicide at one point, and I still struggle with suicidal thoughts. I can't say I know exactly how you feel, but I want you to know that I understand where you're coming from.
JediJaras
2023-02-04 07:36:26 +0000 UTCMy wife understands you I wasn’t always the best person I could be I was so heavily addicted to drugs and alcohol nothing was her fault I had a really crappy childhood between my father telling me he never wanted me and my mom verbal abuse and I didn’t hang out with the best people but she and her family really helped me get sober they never gave up on me nowadays I’ve been sober for 10 years now her and her family saved my life I am super grateful that never gave up on me
Iris_thundercloud
2023-02-04 06:45:40 +0000 UTCCheck your messages dear friend. ❤️
Tanisha Jones
2023-02-04 06:41:41 +0000 UTCPlease give me your number I'd love to have a friend to talk to
Tanisha Jones
2023-02-04 06:22:31 +0000 UTCTake care of yourself first! We'll always be here to support you!!
Gigi
2023-02-04 06:21:03 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry about this. I'm haflway through this, and could totally relate to the toxic traight of wanting to help everyone. I had no boundaries with friends, and became their personal therapist-without realizing it. And even helped a couple,more than I should, financial wise. It's hard to realize when you have to stop, and you legit cannot help everyone. I also feel for your dog, but I think he'll be okay. Loved he came back in, to see how you were doing. Having each other will help a lot with this situation.
Natasha G
2023-02-04 06:20:18 +0000 UTCThank you for sharing. Take care of yourself.
Emanuel Lawton
2023-02-04 06:16:51 +0000 UTCYou do what you need to do and we will wait as long as it takes for the day the true Cody returns,the guy who gave us light laughs and most importantly, hope
Crazy Moore
2023-02-04 06:16:38 +0000 UTCI’m sorry about everything that’s happening to you in your life, there’s stuff that’s stabbing you in the back and I’m also sorry that you and LaMarr broke up that sucks I know what it feels like braking up with somebody that you really care about in your relationship and it’s not easy sometimes to be part of that and I feel that in my heart but you still are a very special, talented, smart and funny person and your dog puts a smile on my face when I see him in your videos and I feel bad for him, no matter he doesn’t have any dog friends he still has you became you are his special owner, well hopefully you better soon and that you’ll be able to have a better life.
Connor Ferguson
2023-02-04 06:12:26 +0000 UTCI totally understand this I had my first bf for 8 years. Even tho he treated me like Lamar treated you Itvstill was hard to break up with him and the aftermath. Worse was I had his name tattooed on my arm … here for you Cody I’ve been where you are. I get it big hugs from your biggest fan and supporter
Jennifer Nichols 💚🩷
2023-02-04 06:06:39 +0000 UTC
