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Khadija Mbowe
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celebrities and self-sexualization (patreon)

WHY ARE WE LIKE THIS? 



LOL...but for real idk y'all

celebrities and self-sexualization (patreon)

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First, I love your videos. I love the concept of YCACYM and the fact the you keep touching those socially sore spots. They need to be picked at. I think one the most frustrating things about sexuality (as someone in a feminine-ish body who is socialized as a woman) is that too many times people, especially people in the spotlight, don't get to decide when it happens. It's like if you did/do something sexual one time or in one instance, you are required to keep that up in all situations. The vicious cycle mentioned in the video. Its like you don't get to own your sexuality without other people acting//feeling like they get to have a piece of it too. I know it gets overused a lot these days, but isn't this just one of the ugly tentacles of everyone's favorite P word firming its grip on feminine presenting bodies? You said yes once, so you are expected to always say yes. You were feeling yourself one night, so doesn't everyone else get to feel on you too? It's gross. Western culture also seems to apply sexuality and sex with things that aren’t even necessarily so. The example of trans people was a great one. Someone existing in a trans body isn’t sexual in nature and, also, these weirdos need to stop fixating on their genitals. But, if you think about it, they’re just telling on themselves. They apparently walk through life seeing not only binary, but also just thinking about other bodies around them.

Erin

This video is so good. I couldn’t not become a patron

Emily Kugler


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