Hey friends,
Hope you’re all hanging in there. The big news today is that it snowed. :)

This week on the show, it was an absolute joy to chat with artist Barry Lee. We talked about Strega Nona, Keith Haring, the Muppets, self-help pitfalls, bodily autonomy, spiritual bypassing, terrazzo flooring, noses, Atlanta, and more! Barry is in the midst of migrating their newsletter off Substack (yay!), so you can sign up for the NEWsletter here or follow them on Instagram for more.
love that this tree has irreversible damage btw.Tomorrow, we’re releasing two episodes: an abbreviated teaser version of our Lee Lai interview on Gender Reveal and an extensive chat with Alma Avalle on Gender Conceal. Alma and I have been talking about recording an interview together for years, but I made her wait until she didn’t work at Condé so that we could gossip more freely. I hope you find it worth the wait!
On Thursday, I’ll be at Always Here bookstore in Portland! Come say hi :)

I’ve been running around this week doing birthday activities (and making two podcasts and shipping books and making a new book and etc.) so I don’t have soooo much else to report. Here’s Links & Stuff:
As promised, here’s the playlist I’ve been slowly putting together for six months. So far, everyone has been v surprised by one specific track and it’s not at all the track I expected.
Recently I sort of randomly found myself listening to Queen Latifah’s 1989 debut album, which led to me watching several episodes of Living Single. I recommend both of these activities! It is important history and also everyone is so hot.
Did you hear that LittlePuss has a subscription service now? LittlePuss has a subscription service now!! You can automatically receive every new book plus extra swag. It's so cool to support trans small presses imo :)
Speaking of: TIL that learned that Sex Change and the City is only in three libraries, so like no pressure but also if you request it at your library I will kiss u on the mouth.
Eric Adams warned Zohran about the ghost???
That’s it for this week. Here’s your weekly Rhubarb.

And also Puffin enjoying her very first snow ever—so precious 🥲🥲🥲

Xo,
Yr resident gender detective
nicododd
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