(Note: when I previewed this newsletter, gmail blocked all the images as "suspicious or spam," presumably because Pippa Garner is too cool. You should be able to click to show images if you choose.)
Hey friends,
Hope you’re all hanging in there. If you or your loved ones are impacted by the fires in Los Angeles, please know that you’re in my thoughts.
We’re putting out two episodes on Monday so I am twice as busy as I’d like to be this weekend. (Maybe I shouldn’t have spent 8 hours rewatching Severance this week! Whatever!) So, let’s keep this short.
First, a quick ask. I know you’re inundated with GoFundMes right now and always, but I can vouch for this woman personally, and she could really use you help. She’s a trans organizer & activist in Nigeria and her safety is in jeopardy. And her $$ ask is very low and doable! If you could help even a little bit, I’d really appreciate it. And speaking of GoFundMes, here’s a list of Black families who lost their homes in Altadena this week — please help one (or many) of these families as well!
Tour updates: We still have many tickets to our Washington DC show in three weeks so please come take over the capitol with us. (JUST KIDDING. THIS IS A JOKE. But do come hang!) Meanwhile, San Francisco is close to selling out, so get those tickets this week if you want them. Find your tickets here.

Image: A list of Gender Ordeal tour dates, which you can also find at this link.
Okay, honestly, I think we should just do Links & Stuff! So here they come.
2024 wrappeds:
Marissa Yang Bertucci on grief is so worth reading
I started reading the Prison Journalism Project this year, and their EOY roundup is a great place to start
It’s also a good time to dive into Hamilton Nolan’s labor reporting
PornHub’s year in review is packed with interesting little details
100 incredible photos (including two people kissing in a big vat of tomatoes, horrifying imo)

Image: the aforementioned tomato vat pic, which I stole from Alberto Saiz/AP
Good, short, mostly old podcast eps:
“Why Men and Boys are Struggling” On The Media (gender!!!!!)
“You can be Mexican enough and still suck” El Pochcast (Emilia Perez discourse!!!!)
“Not This Again” Bodies (you can follow Angelina here btw!)
“Bobsister,” the first segment in This American Life ep 731 (kids are so cool and funny!!!)
Everything else all mixed up:
Rest in peace Pippa Garner, genius artist and absolute icon
Why so many “”cool”” authors have stopped using quotation marks
Would you believe that Siri was, in fact, listening the whole time? (Not to be that guy but you can turn her off! Just turn her off!!!)
How would you die in 1665? Find out!
Sorry to send you three of my own posts but:
gender-swapped holes (!!!)
If any puppygirls disagree I am very open to being called in but
Anyway this is my best work probably
That’s it for this week. Here’s your weekly Rhubarb, drawn by Hal Schrieve as part of this wonderful fundraiser.

Image: A black and white drawing of Ruby sitting on Tuck's shoulder.
Xo,
Yr resident gender detective