Gender Reveal Unwrapped & Tuck’s 2023 Picks
Added 2023-12-31 20:11:30 +0000 UTCAll of the lists and data you never asked for! Granular podcast stats at the top, media recs at the bottom, pick your poison:
Total Gender Reveal downloads in 2023: 713,800
Countries & territories with at least one download in 2023: 179
Gender Reveal full episodes released: 22
Gender Conceal episodes released: 13
Gender Reveal live shows: 2.5
Most downloaded Gender Reveal episodes in 2023:
- Ryan Ken
- Lily Zheng
- Renée Yoxon
Note: those 3 eps were all released in Jan-Feb, so they had an advantage over other episodes! For this reason, let’s also list the episodes with the biggest 90-day download totals in 2023, which is a nerdier but maybe more relevant metric:
- Ryan Ken
- Spicy Advicey w/ Mckenzee
- Raquel Willis
Number of Gender Reveal grants awarded: 16
Gender Reveal grant money awarded: $12,100
Mutual aid money sent: $37,800
Gender Reveal merch shop profits for artists/orgs: $7,533
Gender Reveal newsletters sent: 55
New Gender Reveal patrons: 556
Cancelled Gender Reveal patrons: 291
Gender Conceal episode names that made Tuck laugh the most despite having written the titles himself:
- High-Fiving Mattie Lubchansky through Keith Haring’s Irreversible Damage Hole
- The ISIS Tweet to Trans Ally Pipeline with Mckenzee Griffler
- Kirby Conrod Put Their Whole Podcussy Into This One
Most popular tweet of the year: oh ok!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Most popular non-mutual-aid IG post of the year: Transsexuality is good, actually.
Tuck’s top appearances on other podcasts:
- “We Need to Talk About the New York Times” on You’re Wrong About
- “Am I Cis Now?” on Big Mood, Little Mood
- “Making Podcasts for Trans People” on Gender Spiral
- It’s so funny that I was on the Brian Lehrer Show!!!
Podcasts Tuck listened to in 2023: 100
Podcast eps listened to in 2023 (not counting Gender Reveal/Conceal): 800
Are you rounding? Those numbers seem really convenient!: No, I just did a great job! Ask PocketCasts:

Books that Tuck read in 2023: 35
Books that Tuck read by trans people in 2023: 25 or maybe more who knows
Books that Tuck published by trans people in 2023: 1 :)
Tuck’s favorite books of 2023:
- Boys Weekend by Mattie Lubchansky
- Open Throat by Henry Hoke
- Vivian’s Ghost by Hal Schrieve
- Strong Female Character by Fern Brady (audiobook specifically)
- Brainwyrms by Alison Rumfitt (tbh this one really challenged me but now I think about it all the time and that’s art, baby!)
Zines that Tuck read in 2023: 33+
Tuck’s top zine rec of 2023: Join Shay Mirk’s zine-of-the-month club on Patreon!
Movies that Tuck watched in 2023, total: 29
Movies that Tuck watched in 2023 that are specifically about muppets, toys, dolls, or anthropomorphized animals: 11 but don’t worry about it
Tuck’s top 2023 movie recommendation for this newsletter specifically: The Aggressives (2005) + Beyond the Aggressives (2023) double feature!!!!! Strongly encouraged!!!!
People killed in Gaza since Oct 7, 2023: 21,672+
People injured in Israeli attacks since Oct 7, 2023: 56,165+
Annual aid that US sends to Israel: $3.8 billion
Additional aid Biden wants send to Israel, pending Congressional approval: $14.3 billion
People who signed the Queer Artists for Palestine letter last week: 3800+
Happy new year. Don’t give up. Hang in there.
Here’s your weekly Rhubarb.

Photo: Ruby sleeping peacefully on a rainbow, sun-dappled wool blanket.
Xo,
Yr resident gender detective
Comments
I love stat breakdowns, thanks for running & sharing the numbers! and of course, thanks for making this show!!
shura
2023-12-31 20:26:35 +0000 UTC