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Raven Talks Dating, Social Media and Blackface | Monét Talks

Raven Talks Dating, Social Media and Blackface  | Monét Talks

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As an Australian who has already had skin cancer on her face at 28 listening to Ravens tanning scares the hell out of me

Emily

raven they could never make me hate you

isaiah

You’re saying it’s wrong to discuss behaviors we don’t agree with on an app we pay to be on? What is the point of your comment? I’m truly curious. If you claim I have no goal in my comment—which I don’t need to have one—what is yours?

Mr. Angel Ravelo

No seriously I can’t imagine the damage that amount of tanning has done!!

Jackie Stigile

i completly agreee ty for this tidbit

merchdatslilj

The conversation is missing the context of race and beauty politics in the US. White women who adopt presentation styles associated with blackness are considered beautiful (see Kardashian modified lips, butts, hair, etc). Meanwhile Black women with these features are considered undesirable and unprofessional (“ghetto”, “ratchet”, policing black hairstyles in schools, military, workplaces, etc.). That part is the problem. The same things are interpreted and valued differently based on race. It’s known as blackophilia/blackophobia. We love Black aesthetics and culture but we fear/hate Black people themselves.

Squisha

sorry you cant make one

pyxis

i just watched kiki palmers interview with lizzo yesterday and it had me thinking of all the ways monet could have pushed back and asked real questions while still being fun/friendly/entertaining, instead of just being agreeable and not challenging her on anything

SA Hall

Has Bob weighed in on this?

Squisha

Girl log off

Breezy

Next thing you know her friend gonna be like its ok for you to give me all your money and leave

merchdatslilj

I was waiting on her to say her friends said its ok to like vanilla and spice and leave the chocolate and rice,

merchdatslilj

Omfg

merchdatslilj

We cousins in the comment section hun

merchdatslilj

Lmfaooo

merchdatslilj

Perioddddt

merchdatslilj

Yea great interview i agree with ur comment

merchdatslilj

She needs communication skills on how to approach certain topics , tht bit fell very far flat

merchdatslilj

Not Raven essentially saying “I don’t do blackface but if I DID, I would go way darker”. Obviously my thoughts on the issue don’t matter because I’m not a POC but that sentence was truly wild 😭

Nick

The think pieces..meanwhile Bob probably arguing on TikTok and Monet sitting somewhere with Coleen and new toes

Aceomy

I'm really torn on this one because I do understand people's concerns. There are a lot of people who can tan all they want, but their genetics don't enable them to get this dark. If you're fair skinned with a pinky undertone, there's no way you could ever tan and be that dark. Therefore, Raven's genetic makeup obviously enables her to do so... I'm honestly more concerned about the incredibly high risk of skin cancer that Raven has from all this tanning. The statistics alone scared me enough to stop tanning in my 20s. This might be more of a self esteem issue. When I was in my early 20s, I thought I looked disgusting without a tan. Since healing that relationship with my body, I no longer care. Perhaps there's some deep hidden self esteem stuff going on? Not sure.

Sarah Courtney

Oh she’s very weird for this take

Marquise B

👀👀👀

grace ❀

love raven

Jonnii33

Where are Monet’s glasses from?

macaroni_noods

Hmmmm. I get what raven’s trying to say (“I should be allowed to tan and it not be considered blackface, esp if there is no malicious intent”), but the justification given was very delulu and poorly explained. Your few friends (and matter of fact, your intent) do not dictate public perception. You are overly tanned mama, literally to the point of being just a few shades lighter than Monet. Intent does not absolve you of the impact of your actions. As for Monet not pushing back, um, DUH? Why would she? For brownie points on the internet? This is her colleague and friend, and she wants to have this space be safe for her guests to speak their mind. I really don’t think Bob would’ve been this guard dog everyone is pretending he is. Yes, maybe would’ve pushed back a little and challenged Raven, but don’t think he would’ve dragged her like people want him to. Great interview Monet!!!

Ahmed

That’s why the show IS sibling rivalry, I would argue that Bob knows Monet so deeply, that Monet can really be herself. You also have to realize that’s she’s “working” and some choose to play the game—that’s where the money is unfortunately. There is a distinction between the show and the podcast. While I don’t have to agree or like everything about Monet to support her work, I do realize that the girl is trying to get his coins up—she made that clear in the last episodes of the podcast. So is it realistic to hold her to a standard that she doesn’t abide by? And these can be moral issues, so it’s honestly up to you to decide where to draw the line.

Mr. Angel Ravelo

Apparently Bob doesn't feel like what Raven is doing is wrong either but wholly feels like Q doing a blaccent is egregious.

Anthony

monet is clearly a people pleaser, he tends to be more neutral or trying to relate with his guests/friends (except with bob LMAO). Idk i just feel like there is way more conversation can be done or said from monet regarding the blackface/fishing thing which we would LOVE to hear.

pyxis

Love Raven

AliHa

Love love love this episode so much 10/10

Branden Stubbs

You’d be surprised. I’m sure there are folks with money in this Patreon.

Mr. Angel Ravelo

Neutral can turn to complacency very quickly. But this is not of our business, as it’s Monet’s choice who she befriends. The only option is to not watch if you don’t support.

Mr. Angel Ravelo

But I also have to say, I find it bizarre how fandoms' reaction to the way Q was talking was much heavier than to what Raven is doing somehow, lmao

Arcadia

I'm neither American nor Black, so Idk how to feel about people's reaction to this episode, since it is kinda none of my business? but I do have to say I find Raven's tanning choices bizarre, ngl. Like, you can tell it's excessive tanning, and it looks so off-putting, even with the gorgeous makeup skills she has.

Arcadia

I will not be watching this one. Seen some pretty gaslighty comments here so lemme just say - if you are offended by Raven's extreme tanning, you are completely justified in your feelings! Bob and Monet are allowed to give her a pass in their books, but that does not delegitimize your feelings if she doesn't get a pass for you. Nothing more annoying than people trying to shame others for caring about something...

SA Hall

Yall are miserable trying to tear monet down for being neutral and not giving in to your bs she asked the questions and cleared the confusion. Tanning does not equate to blackface- you guys really just diminish the meaning of such severe words when you throw them around like that 🍏 great interview Monet keep it up and keep being unbiased

Breezy

They did a Patreon exclusive awhile ago where they both basically said raven doesn’t do black face / it’s not an issue to them so I don’t know if bob would have changed anything

Rory

anyways…. Who else knew exactly what tooth stones Monet was asking raven about because of this weeks sibling rivalry 😭😭🤣🤣

Eric Kirner

🤫lol

Kelly

THIS!!!!!

Tyron Webster

Bob should’ve been there for this interview i feel we would’ve got more. Raven ‘tanning’ had upset and effected so many people and this interview could have been a great conversation about an important topic, this is just give ki 😭

Tyron Webster

i’m leaving moneation… i am now a bobblehead

Tyron Webster

We have suffered enough. The monetion needs some rest. I’m migrating over to Bobblehead land

Tanner M

If their not making fun of us or capitalizing off us there’s literally no reasoning to be mad 🤷🏽‍♂️

toy_soldier32

CRUNCH O' DA DAY: .."Lemme tell you about tanning... " I'm a bobblehead for life love some Monét too but BAAABEEE!

Kelly

Bob wouldn't have gotten away with it 😀

Kelly

I don't think she's trying to hurt anyone either and that could be part of a larger discussion too ..like how you compare blackface with queens not being forthcoming about their careers 🧐🙃

Kelly

Yesss.. I got questions 😄

Kelly

I think this interview deserves a zoom with the family

Sasha Mala

Fun interview. The blackface comments are just boring now Raven ain’t tryna hurt nobody get over it. What’s a wild take is like 8+ years ago the queen would lie about their career and cry cuz nobody wants to be with a dragqueen now the boys are loving the queens and now their like “ oo did u say my catch phrase gross” “ o u wanna know about drag? Ew gross” lol like what?!?

toy_soldier32

unfortunately bob might kiki with raven too. They both relate to him in terms of wealth they're simply in a different tax bracket then us.

hausofleif

I can't believe I'm going into 2025 as a bobblehead... I think my issue is that Monet (and Bob) is often vocally passionate and critical about others' lapses in political/moral judgment, but here she goes kiki-ing with a white person who consciously tries to appear like a person of colour. The math is sadly not mathing for me.

Mimi

Rough week for Monetion 🫢

DaniJ

Watching the interview I was like see I wish Bob was there

Markko

I thought the same! If I were Bob, I’d be tight, lol. Monet really should’ve gotten one or two in for her sis!

Jonny C

The Bob hate…”I don’t see it! I was rooting for Naomi!” Why can’t you appreciate both of them like what in the actual fuck why do you have to dog walk one which happens to be the incredible Bob the Drag Queen? And Monet was just like…laughing

Grace Henderson

Not dr Seuss 😶

WERQ DJ

Watched this so fast😭😭😭

Na’ILa Clarkson

Monet, I wish you would’ve pushed back on some of the bullshit she was saying. You just sat there kiki’ng and laughing while she was playing in your face.. Yikes!

Jonny C

Somebody on instragram said that’s not tan that’s varnish 😂😂😭

Markko

lol got the email and ran to these comments

Vanessa

It’s so funny to say “I get tan” as if it’s natural and then start discussing frequenting tanning salons to achieve the color. It’s even funnier to imply your “friends” said it’s okay as if they speak for all black people. Who is the “them” in the “fuck them”?

Markko

Can you do a sibling Rivalry on this interview please.. 🥺 or Monet some kind of "after the chat" show? This blackface segment is cringy. Cause this here is a whole a$$ other show by itself. (In my hood voice) WHERE BOB AT? 🧐

Kelly

TALK ABOUT IT

Markko

Same, haha.

Pete Hoyt

Oop! 👀

Kelly

Did she ask about her Grindr profile that once said “I prefer vanilla and spice. I’ll pass on the chocolate and rice … just a preference “?

Clint R.

Please let’s not confuse blackfishing with blackface. There are places still today where you are exposed to seeing white people in actual pitch black face paint, red lips, afro wigs and golden earrings acting out black stereotypes with racist accents and all from up f*cking close. Out in the public. For man woman and child to see. To throw the term out at random only lessens the severity of whenever this does take place.

Lashaaawn

LMFAO I was like well she's STILL guilty of the crime 💀 sitting there like that

happyblacklegends

Love our queens of color ❤️❤️

spicygayboy

Ran so faaaaast to this video 😭😭

brandyn from the fif flo.

cryinggg

frankie

Oh nah

Palloae

Omg, so happy for Monét getting to talk to her idol 😭 (and PERCHED for the Blackface discussion 👀)

Enrico

No shade, I thought this was Raven Symoné until I saw the thumbnail. A little disappointed but I’m still gonna watch.

William B

Gag- a-tron-dra

Darryl McCallum

This my realll skin colorrr

Nolan Davis

“Raven talks blackface while in blackface”

Marquise B

Oh bitch I’m SEATED

Marquise B

Oh babyyy, I am SAT for this one! Not putting blackface in the title 💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣

Rai (RS)

Gag

Tim

>_________> I am SAT

Aaryn

Sat

Braidon Hobzek

oop!!!

karen

GAG

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