Sibling Advicery: Twitter Alts/Breakup

I'm sorry but I don't think we needed the gay porn alt account to let us know his bestie was gay. Babes has a whole camilla stan account and what straight cis man has one of those???

saratonin

very different vibe from video to podcast

Christopher

also when and if he does end up coming out, i don’t think the alt account needs to be brought up either??? just forget about it completely and move on

Sebastian

i completely disagree about the alt account conversation. tbh i don’t think there’s any conversation to be had at all. something that should not have been seen was seen and that’s where it should end, especially considering their friend is closeted. asking him “is there anything you want to tell me?” kinda just blows things out of proportion and makes it seem more serious than it actually is. he’s clearly not ready for whatever reason, and bringing up the alt account to him would only make things harder and potentially embarrassing for him

Sebastian

Usually I am with Bob, but yall have a show that you were nominated for... its not rocket science

Billy Griffis

Monet is right! Bob should have let you know. 😘

Jonathan

I know nobody asked but I majorly prefer the audio messages to this. People just ramble on and on and some wanna take up time with the dolls. Also Monet was totally right; if the roles were reversed, she’d never hear the end of it from Bob.

TJ

I side with Monet on this one! You were nominated together!

Sof

is anyone else having connectivity issues with Patreon? videos load completely normally on youtube, but when i view things on patreon, the compression or lag time is absolutely terrible. i THROW my support at these two but am just frustrated that i can’t watch more of them.

Bob is in the wrong! Y’all shoulda went together.

Caleb Flenoury

Bob you are wrong, just apologize. This was a joint nomination and you should have kept Monet in the loop. Saying you don't have to tell Monet what you're doing is pretty dismissive of your work partner/friend.

Tres

Monet is a million percent correct about it being weird that Bob decided to go to the Queerties after telling her no. They were invited together for something they share and decided not to go based on feelings not schedule conflict so he should have 100 sent Monet a quick I changed my mind text. Bob always talks about the necessity for open & clear communication in relationships!

M

Bob has been in a MOOD these past few episodes 😅 and then projects it onto Monet as if she's the problem. Everything okay Bob?

Mina

Monet looks CORRECT. 😤

how monet get over someone in 2 months girl i wish i could be like that lmao

M JM

I just think it's funny.. if everyone in the comments was saying that Bob was right on this one, we wld never hear the end of how right Bob was.. but now that everyone agrees with Monet. **Crickets**.. It's the selfishness for me.

Allnikki

Bob, Monet isn’t asking you to tell her where you go every second, it’s specific to this one event which you were both nominated as a team which you both agreed not to go, so it would’ve been the ok thing to just say hey sis we decided to go you should come if you up for it. Sis that was shady boots, what would happen if you just went and yal won …

monet is definitely right!!!! that was shady bob

Asael Rosales

If you have your notifications on, you should have gotten two emails about it.

Joe

When and where did this post to know they were on Stereo?

JAY

bob is the antagonizing queen and Monet is the deceiving queen lmao, love you both tho mwah<3

Franklyn Justo

Bob was 100% wrong

Markee

never out

Jack Rippr

this!!!! i felt so uncomfortable during that segment as someone currently closeted. if i was outed i would feel so violated and honestly distraught. that right there is how to be a bad friend 101

George Leney

Bob starts the manipulation in advance lol

JTdeluxe

I gotta agree with you . I don’t think confronting him about it is right in any context here. I’d be mortified if a friend confronted me about that and I wasn’t even out yet.

JTdeluxe

Monèt you look stunning! Love you in a smoky eye and red lip. Red Scare?

The Sorceress

That advice for the friend with the gay porn alt. NO MAM. If he’s clearly closeted in any aspect about that situation I don’t think confronting him about it is the way to go. Bringing it up can make him feel cornered and caught off guard. Keep it to yourself and when he's ready then bring up the fact that you already knew. At least that way you look like a good friend who didn’t use that secret to your advantage in any way.

JTdeluxe

Bob you know you were wrong af. How you agree not to go with your cohost of the podcast that got you nominated for but you changed your mind and didn’t tell Monet.

I’m tardy to the party but Bob….. you were were wrong! You should have let Monet know you changed your mind and decided to attend because….. IT’S A JOINT AWARD!!! If you had won would you just have accepted without Monet there?? Not cool! Still love you both though!

Shaneil

I love everything else about sibling rivalry, but when they shady to each other in a messy way (usually bob to monet lol) i just feel the need to skip ahead. for me, not entertaining

cclove

Bob should’ve told you he’s going. Love you both tho!

FatKellyP

That whole beginning segment is just reason #342 why this Patreon is worth it’s weight in gold

Wilson

I hope and suspect Bob is nicer to Monet when the cameras are off. It’s great entertainment, but hunty who would put up with this?

Stephanie

Bob is on one !!!!! bob rly be building monet's case episode by episode lately!! doing all the work for her!!!!!! he be setting traps for monet and falling in them himself....

M JM

I am team monet on the situation with the queerties!!

Bob is definitely wrong for not letting Monet know that he changed his mind about not attending the Queertys. That is some old school Hollywood shade like Joan Crawford vs. Betty Davis. Bob knows better!

TrentonRashad

I may be the minority but I'm not a fan of people calling in. Just two of you is already chaotic. Adding someone else is................................wild

J

I’m screaming bc he stans Camilla and you didn’t think he was some type of queer 🤣🤣. “How you discrete with a belly ring?”

The gaslightery from Bob with the awards show. Girl...

Bob! That was so wrong. You should have let Monet know that you changed your mind. #istandwithmonet

Nita

This was wild. Bob denying Monet’s feelings, and the reality of the situation, with no acknowledgement of wrongdoing is textbook gaslighting. I love you both dearly, but Bob was wrong for this one. #istandwithmonet

Alexandra M

🤔

R S

Bob, no no no.... you were wrong... take the L and apologise... that was really difficult to watch.

Gary Thomas

Aight I’m usually Team Bob™️ but Monet is right with the queeries invite/plans. I would’ve been hurt too. Its cool to change your mind, but like let a girl know at least😩 love y’all both tho and this is all in good fun🤪

Stephanie

Monet is giving me Hannah Grose from Bly Manor

pyxis

bob is shady for changing his mind and not telling you! you're nominated together...

Cristian Santiago

btw the Monétion does not claim the comments being extra serious and sometimes nasty to Bob. Please don’t generalize us when you reference us in the future pls Ms Roberta

aina

Yeaaa Bob was a little shady this time in regard to the award show

I LOVE the fact that you guys are doing the advice in real-time.

Ok, but what lipstick is Monet wearing?

Ali J

Remember how upset Bob gets when Monét doesn’t invite Bob somewhere and now the roles are switch and it’s “I don’t owe you to tell you everything I’m doing in my life” from Bob. hmmph interesting

Ceka

bob....

zelina

"i don't have to update you" - bob, td queen that thinks a shared award/shared even is less important than the months they spent yelling at monet for spending time with kim, naomi and plastique and not inviting them. love bob but no on this one, the poll winning streak is DONE

I’m not hear for these fans rambling when they get pulled onto the podcast. Keep it together y’all. We watch for bob and Monet!

LaWanda Wakanda

love the live advicery and love all the gossip

Dakota Kennedy

I had an experience with a professor that was antiquated in his vernacular My class organized complaints against the teacher so much so that they gave us all a pass and let us skip the remaining semester of that class Especially when it comes to college I have to remember I’m the customer because I pay for the education

Lena Kuester

I really enjoy y’all’s Stereo sessions, please do more in the future.

Joel Villasenor

monets look is giving miss lawrence from rhoa 😂

tiasjah

I think the important point we’re all missing here is that Isaac hasn’t posted the porn alt

VERDELINDO

Why is Bob so problematic in this episode? He's legit using Quentin/Quincy's example as means to justify his point. No sir! You and Monet were nominated for an award. That said, it was important to be a united front in the event yah would have won. This isn't just a random friend trip, this is about the representation of yah brand. Sorry Bob, #teamMonet on this one. Also, to completely be emotionally detached as if Monet wasn't justified is WILD!!! Love you both!!!

I feel for Monet in this situation. You know, if roles were reversed and Monet did that to Bob, Bob would lose her mind. I stand with Monet.

IJS

this was so fun to catch live. please do more stuff on stereooooo <3

KatieRose

Not Bob gaslighting Monet! You two were nominated together and decided not to go as a collective. You have the right to change your mind, but you definitely should have told Monet that you are now going to go. It looks hella shady!

Bob!!! The award was for both of y’all!

Isaac so messy🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣he finna post hate on his friends account regarding a problematic queens

Ashvir Mohan

Monets make up looks so good omg, she is painted.

Ashvir Mohan

Bob is messy he has legit got mad at Monet for meeting other friends or going to other viewing parties without him when he didn't need to be included. Be better Bob

Ashvir Mohan

Nah because Bob did Monet dirty by not telling her he was going to the awards.

Lauren Soto

You were nominated for an award together. Bob!!!! Lol. You gaslighting Monet!

Daniel Pichardo

Monet is right. 1,000,000,000%. That’s shady.

Daniel Pichardo

also lets do lives on the discord next time! that would be so fun

Jessica Hill

Yeah Bob you wilding, Monet 1000% has a point and is fully right in this case. Bitch I’d be mad af and I’d be as petty as Monet is being. #SorryBob

Blake

OOF. The award show talk 🙅🏼‍♀️ yikes Bob 😂

Bob, you and Monet have a business together. If you change your mind, you should tell your business partner, with whom you were nominated for an award lmao!

Jessica Hill

I had to stop listening after the first question and the award show moment because choices. But can I just cast my vote for y'all to use Twitter spaces instead of Stereo. That way we can comment using the hashtag and save the voice moments for questions

Joanne Robertson

When did Monet do that?

TJames

Not Monet getting pissy about Bob doing the thing that she’s done before…

Brandon Bush

And Bob know damn well if it was the other way around they would LOSE IT😂

Corves Harris

Stereo is perfect for advicery, this episode had me dead👏🏽😂

Corves Harris

That would have hurt their relationship for years

Manuel Ayala

It feels so weird to be #TeamMonet on an argument. But she’s absolutely right

Manuel Ayala

Bob is deadass wrong for not letting Monet know that they changed their mind about going to the Queerty’s. No, Bob doesn’t have to tell Monet where they are going every second of the day, but that’s not what Monet was asking for. That was gaslighting. This was an event where both of them were receiving an award and they had already set expectations by coordinating with each other from the jump on whether or not they were attending. Bob could’ve at least sent a text saying that they change their mind. Bob has a meltdown every time Monet makes plans with other people without them, so I don’t know why “I also don’t owe you my coordinates” doesn’t apply to Monet when they’re hanging out with friends not named Bob. Love y’all! ❤️

I'm usually on Bob's side with Monet's gaslightery......but Monet is right on the Queerty's situation. If y'all were nominated together and discussed going or not going together, it makes sense to let her know if you wanted to go!

Aaron Woodall

Yikes Bob… I gotta side with Monét on the awards show. If y’all weren’t nominated, it wouldn’t have been a big deal. But the fact that all of your hard work, AS A DUO, was being recognized with a nomination, you should have either both gone together or not at all. This is your business. It’s ok to be not right once in a blue moon.. I still got crazy love for ya and wouldn’t rub it in your face if you publicly acknowledged it. Lol

Angieeee

Colleen’s scream in the background has me crying of laughter 🤣😂🤣😂

D’Angelo

You wanna act like you don’t know mee when we’re out in pubLICCCC, low key miss Lawrence is an amazing singer

Mauricio Jordan

Not Bob complaining to Monet for so many episodes when she has plans without her and now that she acted shady she's saying she does not owe Monet her whereabouts. Make it make sense. lol

Nicolas Leiva Herrera

When bob brought up the queertys again trying to defend his shameless actions I stopped watching I couldn’t take the gaslighting

Cesar

For the first time ever I agree with Monet regarding the event. If you and someone decide not to go somewhere TOGETHER it's pretty rude to then go alone or with someone else and not tell the person you were initially going with that you changed your mind. The whole purpose was the two of you going together so now it just looks shady that you went without her. I hate it but Monet is right for once <3

J

They should make a maxi challenge of creating and hosting a stereo podcast and that's the episode Bob and Monet would be double eliminated

Crystul

Monet looks SO GOOD

For bob to do that to monet is very shady it feels like he just wanted to have a date night and have the spotlight on him and that’s why it feels shady. Like you’re both nominated why wouldn’t bob let monet know he’s going? He doesn’t have to but it doesn’t change the fact it makes it shady.

Cesar

I think there's limited evidence to assume that Bob wanted to steal the award. I love me some Bob and Monet no matter who's right or wrong. I deffo don't have any bad names to call either of these ladies.

Monifa

Y’all I’m fucked up about this Isaac situation 😤 sure if you have established that you can take each other’s phones then that’s fine. But to try and manipulate someone to come out is crossing a line. His friend is clearly not ready to come out and that’s not something you can pressure someone to do. It has nothing to do with how close he is to you or how much he trusts you. It’s something he’s working out internally and he has every right to do that. I think in this situation I would keep that info to myself until he comes out and then that exact moment I’d tell him about this event. It may be messy, but you’ll just have to live with the consequences. No hate to you Isaac, but I do think you’re in the wrong here 😔 but hmu if you want more of my perspective

Bob in the talk about the queertys showed that Monet isn't the gaslighter on this Podcast

Justin Bruce

Bob must be joking around with the Queertys thing bc…it’s giving delusional

Matthew Ye

Let's lay off the name calling?? Psychotic is a bit far hmmm? Nobody is that pressed and its entertainment. I love both my siblings. Calm yo self

Monifa

I mean, not thaaaat shady as we know that Bob wasn't intentionally excluding Monet so you know context

Monifa

I think what it really gets down to is that Monet’s saying no was CONTINGENT on Bob saying she wouldn’t be going to the awards show. Monet likely would’ve had a different answer had bob said she was going, so for bob to switch up and decide to go without telling Monet is shady IMO.

Asa Symons

This is old as hell to me. Yall are nominated for a podcast.. TOGETHER. Had the conversation to skip the award show.. TOGETHER. And Bob expected that it would be okay for him to show up and not tell Monet. What happened if you would've won? Bob was going to receive the award and Monet would've found out from their home.. it's a no from me dawg. lol love you both <3

Danessy Pineda

Bob making the conversation about giving Monet his coordinates is gaslightery darling. He is wrong for not telling Monet he changed his mind about going to an award show that together they were nominated for.. not going.

Bob is deadass wrong about The Queerties. And that was some adept Gaslighting about the situation too. Monet was absolutely right to be annoyed and Bob trivialising it was shady as fuck.

bobs abusive as hell lmao

Sibling Gaslightery aside..are we still getting Purse First Impressions today? You will be hearing from my lawyers if otherwise! #JusticeForME #BoredToTearsThisMondayMorning

I know they are siblings but bob ain’t my family he my mf step family 😭💀

Jordan Harper

totally on team Monet about the Queerties thing. It's a little off putting when Bob is so dismissive saying that he doesn't owe Monet an itinerary when the nomination was for them both. It's called courtesy Bob... skipping this episode. The vibe is so off.

Mark Bau

BOB IS ACTING WILD

Jordan Harper

💚💚💚

Gus Marrkand

That's not what happened. Are you gaslighting yourself?

Joe

I already commented on the YouTube video, but I’m doubling back to the PATREON comments too. I’m usually on team Bob, but this was a bit much for me. You were very condescending and dismissive. Even if it wasn’t a big deal to you, clearly it bothered Monet and you could have acknowledged and apologized for that. I usually reeallly look forward for Monday’s because of SibRiv, but this put a damper on it for me

NubianGoddess

Haven’t even gotten to this part yet but HARD agree. Glad to know there are other Demi Lovatos in the Patreon ❤️

Jalen✨

“Trivializing - Using this technique, the gaslighter aims to make the target’s thoughts and feelings seem unimportant. The gaslighter will accuse the target of overreacting to situations or of being too sensitive. This can cause the target to begin to believe that their feelings are invalid or too drastic.”

Jordan

monet literally told bob over the phone that she doesn’t want to go to the awards… turns around and gets mad that bob was gonna go?!?!

Norma Liza Bortion

Bob is TRIPPING about the award show 🤣

tim wanjohi

how is bob going to compare telling monét about every little thing he does to going to an award show where they are nominated as a pair? imagine if they had won and monét gets online and sees bob accepting the award alone😭😭😭 i feel like it’s kind of uncharacteristic that bob didn’t tell monét and it’s weird that bob acts like it’s no big deal after the fact

Jack

Bob was ON ONE ngl…

Bee Luis

I think Bob was fully right about the crying thing, and now Monet is fully right about Bob being expected to warn her about going. You're even now!

R M

i’m literally never team monet but…..girl

Jamey

Monet looks tf good!

Bryan Mukama

I love Bob but yeahh Monet right on this one!

It is insane for someone to not tell the CO HOST of the podcast they are nominated for that they changed their mind and are indeed attending an event. It’s shady and weird if it’s just a regular event and you didn’t tell your friend you are actually gonna go after, it is psychotic that it’s the co-host of the show y’all are nominated for! Bob!!!!

Mauricio Jordan

I don't think even Monet is as bothered by this as you are lmao

nah that’s a free app

aina

I think it’s important that this is partly a work event, not just a party—it’s promo for the podcast. What if they’d won (as they should have)? Would Bob have made a whole speech on her own? Wildddd

Caitlin C

As a gay Demisexual, I relate to the last person. It’s hard dating in a community based mostly on sex.

Artistar

Was just thinking the same thing. An incredible beat!

MadMaxineShaw

not bob trying to receive the award himself 😭😭

Arturo Sanguino

Exactly!! That's the big difference between Monet's bday and the Queerties

Sydnee Croft

monet's face in this thumbnail is just beyond stunning 🤩 unreal beauty!

.jazbati

Not Bob being a total bitch this episode. He’s oh so upset if Monet even goes to a dinner with someone else and he’s not invited, but feels the need not to tell her he was going to the award show. Seems like he wanted to be the one receiving it himself orrrrrrrrrrr….. 🤨

Forever Denise

Damn. How Bob gonna try and dig themselves outta this one. I ain’t seen one Sibling siding with Bob 👁👄👁

Darian Flores

Monet really is the only reason I keep coming back to SibRiv. The vibes are always off when I try to connect with Bobs’ persona.

Darian Flores

checkin back to see the likes grow on this as we all grow itchier

.jazbati

Bob was shady as hell for deciding to go after they told monet they didn't wanna go. Its sibling rivalry not bob and friends.

Christopher Perez

Bob is wrong. No one said they had to tell Monet about their itinerary but I think it’s interesting they have this attitude concerning last minute change of mind and attending events when they had smoke in the city for Monet about the vacation she took where she changed her mind with Pixie 🙃

“It was giving very much monet and bob… gaslighting” lmfao

Ben C

Is Bob holding Purse First hostage until we all agree with her?

Joe

Bob is a master manipulator. I bet you he knew this was coming and did all the PowerPoint/Ted Talk/press conference stuff to win a few people over before getting dragged

kt

Quentin’s friend is shady as hell

Ben C

Bob if u change your mind then shoot monet a text saying you’re gonna go!

Ben C

Yeah Bob I usually do agree with you on a lot but not telling Monet you decided to go after explicitly saying you wouldn’t be going is mad messy!! You don’t owe anyone an explanation of what you’re doing with your day, but you do owe it to Monet to keep her posted with what’s going on with y’all’s literal work!!!

Tim Harris

Same!

Erich

Bob is crazy about the queer ties.

Thomas

Now Bob.... I'm on your side 99% of the time BUT I am Team Monet on The Queerties...

R S

also transsexual is not an inherently bad term, many trans ppl feel much more comfortable with that than transgender 😊

George Leney

I felt like it was entitled of that person as well. Plus, the friend may not be in the closet, just has a job that the caller presumes means the friend is gay.

Queen Skye

is one of these questions rly someone trying to out their friend who clearly ain’t ready to come out? seems very weird n entitled to me

George Leney

Do you have to pay stereo to speak/ submit questions in there??

Monifa

#IStandWithMonet

Adriiaannn

#TeamMonet on the Queerties argument! Lol Now Miss Bob 🤣, sis, a simple “hey girl, Ezra talked me into going so get dressed” and would’ve been just fine! 2 second text. Simple.

Donnie Chanel

I’m here to validate Monet! 😂 Bob should have sent you a text about the plan change right away!

Maddie Pappas

Bob was trying to gaslight Monét on the Queerties thing. The award was for the podcast so I expect you two show up. It’s shady and I stand with Monét on this one

Stephane

Bob's echoing laughter 4 me

Gunk

I’m sorry monet that you have to live through this abuse

It's one thing to blindside your friend about going/not going to a social event but when it comes to an industry situation, that is a whole another level of problematic. That's your business partner. That's making you look shady.

Margo

Bob was wrong...

DEMIFrosTT

Yeah Bob you wrong as hell here. It yalls show together and yall talked about going together so you should have told her when you changed your mind. And you're even more wrong for making MONET seem crazy for wanting to know.

Destinee Mason

If me and my friend were nominated for an award together and they went alone after telling me they weren’t going i’d be HEATED. Sorry bob that was not a nice moment especially your reaction to how monet felt with the “i dont owe you anything” i dont think that was a nice moment

Nai

Sorry ILY Bob but this was quite nasty. Sure, you don't "owe" her anything. You don't owe anyone anything. But it would have been nice, considering Monet is meant to be your bestfriend. She seemed genuinely upset and I would have been too

TJames

I normally love bob but this podcast really pissed me off. He was being so rude and childish. And what’s crazy is had this situation is vice versa, and Monet gave that dismissive ass “I don’t have to explain to you” bs it would’ve been WW3 and we’d never hear the end of it. He’s completely missing the point. I’m not gone lie if I was monet I wouldn’t talk to his ass for a while because that’s so shady and especially how he acted afterwards. Like damn if you just wanted to be the star and the only one recognized just say that.

Alexis clark

Bob… you’re so shady for the Queerty’s thing. You DO owe Monèt the decency of letting her know you changed your mind about going. You’re nominated together for you podcast TOGETHER… so to say you aren’t going and then suddenly you are is shady. What if you went alone and Monèt had no idea and people there started saying shit like “oh Monèt clearly doesn’t care as much as Bob” or some shit. Cause people out here wild. So I agree with Monèt, it was pretty shady Bob.

Nick

He has a Twitter dedicated to Camila Cabello........... it's giving gay lmao

Sean

exactly! so monet ended up going because she found out bob was going!!! thank u!

Amrit

It's definitely shady that Bob didn't let Monet know that he changed his mind about going.

Gayle King Kong

100% Monet is correct about the queertys 😳 if it was flipped, Bob would be lit up the same way they were about the sweater

Joey Wilson

@Amrit Grewal, because they heard Bob was going from there manager and decided to go too?? Lol Did you all not listen to the story they told???

Lee Bolt

Weird that Bob doesn’t think he owe Monet explanation about going to an event that they are both nominated as a DUO “Sibling Rivalry”. Like it would be weird if chloexhalle were nominated for Grammy one gaslight there sister that they were both not going but then heard from third party changed their mind to go. Come on Bob. I believe Monet wouldn’t have gone alone if she wanted to go but only if Bob was going even if she didn’t feel like it.

chafnx

so why did monet go in the end…because she found out bob was going

Amrit

I feel like you all are not totally understanding the situation - Monet decided not to go because she didn't want to go, not because Bob wasn't going (like you all seem to think?) So Bob going to take Ezra has no bearing on whether or not Monet would change their plans. 🤦

Lee Bolt

Bob that's shady as hell for changing your mind about going to an event without telling the very person who asked you if you were gonna go. Also since the person who asked you is your partner on this podcast aka the only reason why you were going to the award show in the first place. I'd be hella upset too lmao

Cam

Okay, Bob.

Ardalah

Bob definitely should have let Monet know she changed her mind about going… especially since she texts/calls 6-7 times a day lol. Think about how weird people would have found it if Bob had shown up without Monet??? People would have been like “Monet hates the queerioes, snubs award show and Bob.” If I were Monet and I hadn’t gone, I would have been so mad/confused when I found out Bob went.

Caitlin C

Nope I think Bob is a little wild for that. If we nominated together and I want to go together and you tell me you’re not going, so I decide to not go as well, and then you turn around and say you’re going but don’t tell me? That’s funny to me idk…

Marcus Been

right? i really side eye people who do that “i don’t have to tell you my every move” — ummm? no one is asking you to

Rinni

I'm with Bob about the Queertys. If Monet decided not to go because she didn't want to go (for their own reasons - NOT because Bob wasn't going), why should Ezra wanting to go and Bob changing their plans to suit Ezra alter Monet's plans? And why would Bob think that it would/should? You all need to chill. We all know Monet would probably make a big stink about it anyway. They didn't "decide not to go" as a Sibling Rivalry unit - Monet asked Bob if they were going and Bob said no, and Monet said they're don't want to go either, etc. It's really weird how some of y'all feed into Monet's mess - we all know Monet is even making a big deal out of this to get under Bob's skin/cause mess, that's why Bob looks completely unbothered. xD

Lee Bolt

Also going to a joint award without telling the person you’re nominated with is not the same as telling someone your location at all times!

snackattack

Sibling Advicery going for the Emmy.

soCreigh

Bob may still be hurt that Monet invited him to his bday beach party, but said he may not like it bc there’ll be drinking. That was tough.

Mi Lu

I have to say, I really think Bob should have told Monet he’d decided to go to the Queertys especially since there had been a mutual decision not to go. Yes, you are allowed to change your plans and not tell the other person, but the friendly and considerate choice is to let the other person know. If I saw a friend had showed up at an event that we had decided not to go to and never told me, it would definitely hurt my feelings!

snackattack

I actually think it might be some hurt still lying within Bob. He rebutdtaled Monét by sayin “you go places and don’t invite me”. He’s mentioned this in past podcast as well & while I remember Monét usually explaining herself as to why events occurred the way they did, maybe that’s a conversation that needs to be brought back up and hashed out. I know I keep commenting but Bob can usually be pretty reasonable so I’m just trying to look a little deeper as to why that wouldn’t be the case in this situation, I could be off.

Vaylen Virgo

I know Monet is sitting in her kitty cat wig and enjoying these comments. Like 90% of the people, myself included, are on Monet's side with the whole queerty situation. And much like many others, I usually side with Bob on the majority of their disputes. But Monet didn't want to know where Bob is every second, it was literally just about going to an award show where yall were both nominated for and where yall had both talked about not going to. If I told my friend I wasn't going to OUR nomination and ended up wanting to go, I'd update them bc to see if they'd want to go bc they're my best friend and I can only imagine that they'd make the event better by being there with me.

David Rocha

Wow, welcome to the Bob bash! Lol… Sorry Bob, but I’m with Monet on the awards show change of mind about attending but not telling Monet conflict. Love you both tho!

Mi Lu

Now make a PowerPoint on how u know u did Monét wrong gurl !! ☕️

Vaylen Virgo

Misses 10 calls and Texas'es back and forth over the course of a day. At long last, they finally connect over phone. "What's happening?" or "What's the emergency?" Instead of getting to the 10-missed-call point, Bob nitpicks and needs to be correct about verbiage. "I never said anything was happening/I never said there was an emergency." A simple "No emergency! I just wanted to check on ..." would've sufficed but that would've been sufferable.

Ardalah

Bob it’s Bob and Monet present: Sibling Rivalry not Bob and his little boyfriend present: Sibling Rivalry. Also Mo seemed excited to go to the show when she was on Alaska and willams podcast but it seemed she didn’t want to go because you weren’t going so even extra shady!

Juan Quinonez

gurl if u said YALL NOT gon go, then u decide u wanna go and not tell her... that's shady! hello?

Vaylen Virgo

Monet is right...Bob should've let MONET know once the plan changed back to attending the award show

Completely random from the topics, but I just have to say, Bob, I LOVE your dresses!! You really have a lovely collection from what I’ve seen on you. 😍😍😍

Gaby Castro

Also "I don't owe you explanation about everything that goes on in my day" is not the argument. Monet isn't saying "report to me what you're doing minute-by-minute." It was an event you were invited to together for a nomination you got together for a podcast you do together. I swear I be wanting to tap in every episode to catch Bob in these lil loopholes.

Ardalah

I have to agree with Monet, the award show thing was shady. Bob you could have at least texted her to say you decided to go since yall were planning on going together (since you were nominated together)

Cristina

Bob’s See Feel Want advice is actually very very good

Blake

OBSESSED with Monet paying Bob dust on multiple occasions by calmly and unbotherdly staying on track to answer these Quentin questions when Bob is dropping little jabs to try to antagonize.

Ardalah

Bob was wrong for not telling Monet that they changed their mind in regards to going to the award ceremony. It's kinda shady to tell your business partner that you're not going to go to an award ceremony that you were both nominated for and then not tell them that you changed your mind. From an outside perspective; it makes Monet look bad.

Monet has secret brunch plans already lined up ..”Dinner with Gigi Goode Thursday “

Kyla

I agree, I know the intentions are good but no one should be forced to come out, even if everyone knows or thinks they know. People need to come to terms with their sexuality in their own minds and be given time and space to come out when they feel comfortable. Also who knows they might be experimenting they may not even be/ identify as gay

Lorna Cox

Okay usually I think Bob is right but Mo gotcha girl 🤣🤣 It’s a joint award so I would think we’d go together.. and it’s shady to say your not going then change your mind even though I just asked and we agreed not to go .. you don’t owe her your location but at least a heads up girl .. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Kyla

Bob you were being shading for omitting that you changed your mind. That is ineffective communication with Monet because it’s not open & honest.

The thumbnail LMAOOOOOO what is this ☠️☠️☠️

nah bob was mad shady for deciding to go to the award show, that they both were nominated for, and not tell Monet. especially after they had a convo about not going. what's extra shady is bob being like " I don't have to tell you everywhere I'm going" as if they were not telling Monet about a trip to the nearest corner store. it was an award show y'all were nominated for together. don't play that down

Jared Williams

Not Bob handing Monet a clear victory after his powerpoint! I think it's specifically kinda shady because they were nominated together. You absolutely don't have to tell your friends everything you're doing, but this involves Monet a lot more than just something like brunch plans.

Monet is right, Bob is wrong and needs to stop trying to Son Monet. It's making us uncomfortable and we don't like it 🤷🏾

Dee Ramsey

Ooooob yeah bob is big wrong and foul for not telling money she decided to change her mind about the award show ! PERIODT . I’d be pressed .

Waiu Maad

Jesus Christ Bob 'Only Child' wasn't up for the Award bitch bring yo s-i-b-l-i-n-g

Flatbush Junction

monet PLEASE give bob a taste of his own medicine and accept the next sibling rivalry award without his childish ass i beg you!!!! it would help me sleep at night 💖

Amrit

Bob, please call when you’re done.

Whit Germano

When A business event, where a discussion was had about being there, changes, a co-worker should let the other know. So hearing “I don’t have to tell you everywhere I’m going” soundssss like a childish answer.

jordan simen

monet looks like the lady dragon from shrek

angel sin cielo

oooop. not bob the gaslight queen

Michelle F

so when monet doesn’t invite bob to a lil lunch with her friends then it’s a problem but bob going to an award show where they’re BOTH nominated TOGETHER is meant to be okay?

Amrit

I respectfully disagree with the advice for Isaac. I'm pan and came out "late" in my early 30s. When I finally came out to my sister, it was well-received and she admitted to knowing I was queer from my email inbox. She wasn't snooping, we're just close and she was using my computer for work, etc. My point being - if she had addressed it with me at that moment in time, I was FOR SURE not ready to accept who I was/am and I don't think I would have been prepared for that conversation. Provide support when you can but please let people come out on their own terms.

Stephen S

Bob saying “I don’t have to tell you where I’m going” but always complains when Monet hangs out with friends without her is WILD

Kendall

Bob should have called and told Monet he changed his mind. 1 point for Monet

Robert Rumsey

Yass Monet giving homage to Miss Lawrence from RHOA

Bob acts like Monet is so shady if she goes out to lunch with friends without him, but apparently it's completely fine if it's an award show. Never mind that it's an award for BOTH of them. If I was Monet I'd be pressed about it too. But Bob still probably won't admit he's dead wrong about this.

Ace A

Yeah no bob was wrong and I don’t like how he’s acting about it very dismissive and rude

Alexis clark

My housemates think I’m crazy cause I keep laughing out loud to this with my AirPods in

bye af now bob is just being bitter that monet hangs out with other people without her. mo literally just asked if bob was going to make a public appearance at an event for a podcast they were nominated for as co-hosts. bob said no and then was going to go anyway? she’s lucky mo found out before the actual event—imagine the drama that would have been 💀

I would be pissed if I was Monet in regards to the award show. Both of you were nominated so it’s a little shady not to tell the person on the podcast you’re both on. They should have told Monet.

KB

So happy to see you guys uploaded right after I rolled my blunt 😊😊😊😊

Alexis clark

I’m almost always team Bob but Monet is right on the Queerties invite 😂 They were nominated together, so Monet should be given the option to change her mind too with the additional information that Bob is now going

Dawson Land

Monet is 100% right. If you’re nominated together as a duo and don’t organise going together then that’s so off.

Amrit

Please tell me Monet’s eyeshadow is in BoMo Cosmetics. It’s so pretty!

Eric Wong

Okay monet looking fierce as fuck

Isabella Kelley

Bob is in the wrong about the award show. & kinda gaslight monet on it

ok stop bc i was on bobs side until they started talking abt the queerties. y’all were nominated together like you could have let monet know you were going to go after all. she decided she wasn’t going because you didn’t feel like it.

Monets right about going to the awards.

Haitham Haidar

Omg lol

this thumbnail is sending me 😭

Sibling Gabe

Monet looks fucking amazing!

Romario Accime

It was last week Wednesday (in Australia) for me! Gotta turn those notifications on

They’ve been doing these beef posts I saw the Patreon notification and literally said “what one of these bitches is saying some shit now?”😂😂😂

Jay

imagine the gag if bob sent one in about a gaslighting friend

Curran Murphy

Okay, I’m going through a break up rn and literally everything break up related is popping up and now here I am with bob and monet talking about break ups.

When did y'all go on stereo 😭😭😭 I would've been there

Braxton Simpson

It feels like everytime I’m feeling shitty or anxious there’s a new upload and it’s my escape, thank you thank you

Monet is giving mommy dearest in the face today 😄

Good evening girlies