After "the one about teeth" who was right?

I agree with what bob was saying about wanting Monet to back down and not push the subject but i also feel like bob was being very pedantic about Monet's word choice and the way she chose to make her arguments. There's nothing wrong with wanting your friend to feel better about something they feel insecure about and then furthermore, there's nothing wrong about Monet pointing out that bob puts others needs before hers. You don't need to identify with something for it to be true and i feel this was just another case of bob being mad at how Monet said something without addressing the actual point she made

Erica Makowski

This is a more sensitive day for bob or monet is a menace situation. Which sensitive bob is even more argumentative, I can relate lol

Edie

It was a classic sibling rivalry argument. Bob was arguing about one thing and Monet was arguing about something completely different. Then it dragged on for 30 mins because neither one was really listening to the other XD

I think overall it wasn't a big deal and they were just having a little moment at the beginning but when Monet doubled downed and was gaslighting Bob about her acting differently all of a sudden, I really turned #TeamBob This episode was so wild lol!

Beep Beep

Lmao!! I’m sorry Bob! Robb I would be Monet. If it my food good friend- I’m suggesting options though. Lol maybe I’m wrong too!! I should’ve voted neither lol

Gu

The whole time bob was just trying to express how she felt from the remarks, and tried to establish boundaries from there. All bob wanted was for monet to acknowledge this, apologize, and give some indication that she would respect this in the future. I love you monet but you were not in the right and defensive when you shouldn't have fought against bobs expression of being hurt by what you said.

Anna

No one is right. I’m like the parent driving and hearing their kids argue so much in the backseat that I just grab the toy they’re fighting over and throw it out the window.

D. H. Prescott

Money was not coming for you she just suggested to get it fix before you get too busy with work if you were gonna get it replaced in the first place

Diego Luna

i can see both sides but i voted monet because although i can see how bob is affected by his tooth monet didnt act any different than they normally act and if roles were reversed bob also pushes these types of things because thats just the type of friendship they have but i think bob didnt see that because of the trauma he has with this in particular but thats just my opinion

Agreed. Anytime Monet expresses she is uncomfortable Bob don’t let up until Monet relents and accepts it as a joke. I

Naaman Brown

I voted for Bob in this situation but if the poll was about gashlighting…Bob gaslights Monet WAY more

Aubrey Walsh

Seeeee. I agree with Bob’s points but Monet is literally Bob’s family. If someone who’s my chosen family tells me “you should get your tooth fixed”, I might be really sensitive about it if it bothers me as much as Bob, but like I wouldn’t argue over semantics of how someone said something. Again there is a line and boundaries, but Monet really didn’t do all of that and Bob went offff. I love the girls though, if we lose this podcast over teeth…..idk y’all lmao.

Alex Malandrenias

Bob: I'm not ready to accept the apology. Also Bob: I'm never said I'm upset. I'm not upset. This was one of the most entertaining rivalries so far! haha

Monet will never win an argument with Bob using Bob's argumentative logic and Bob's focus on specific wording and definitions. As soon as Monet starts arguing based on their feelings, rather than precise "logic", Bob automatically softens their argumentative stance and starts to see where Monet is coming from.

Bob loves to bring up Monet's talent show, which Monet has made it clear was sensitive for them. Yet when Monet makes a comment that they did not intend to rub Bob wrong, it causes Sibling War 365 Love Bob and their feelings are 100% valid, and two wrongs don't make a right, but Monet is right about how they interact and there is precedence.

Roberta gave me very much Alexis Michelle vibes when Farrah Moan read her for her weight. And that's that Monet wasn't even reading but just asking a question.

Okay, so I voted for Bob before listening and I stand by it! I do think Monet has a point about close friends/loved ones often are the people who push us to do things that we don't want to deal with, but she should have left Bob alone after she told her she felt sensitive about it rather than invalidating Bob's feelings. Just because Bob joked about it before doesn't mean she's not sensitive about it. Clearly she uses humor to cope/deal with things that bother her, and can laugh at herself. That doesn't mean Bob wants to be told what to do with her own body, or feel judged by a friend for the decisions she makes. The question is, does Monet want her to fix it sooner because she is concerned about her friend's sensitivity (and is giving her a push in the right direction rather than watching her friend relive past hurts), or out of concern for herself because she done listening to Bob's complaints/sensitivities about her tooth? Maybe a mix of both!

Aubrey Benmark

it’s neither but still voted bob because i agreed with more things they said. like by example helping people IS NOT in detriment of ourself, a cause helping people build strong relation ships, community, trust, and all of this will benefit ourselves short and long term. and i totally agree with bob that the way monet brought it insinuated bad traits of bob that are not actually accurate and this is an oppressive way to give advice. so yeah it’s not neither it’s bob who’s right! 😅

Bob has no filter every other day! Monet was hilarious. Lol.

Daniel Pichardo

I always Vote Blue no matter what! #monet2022

Ivan Luza

I love you both, I relate to Bob feeling sensitive about their teeth because I feel the same way about mine. My front two are chipped and it bugs the hell out of me.

Miranda Moore

What was the reason?! Girl I had to turn it off. I love the girls, but damn this was a lot.

Tony Marshall

Monet wasn’t saying “you need to get it fixed” bc it’s bad or something. Monet was giving advice on when to do so Bob could fix it if he wanted to. Big difference

Joseph Shanahan

I haven’t seen the episode yet but I’ve just seen Monet’s post calling voter fraud so I’m voting for Bob out of pettiness 🤣🤣🤣 love you monet! I’m gonna go and watch the episode now to see what you’re all so pressed about

Frida Sapphic

Voted bob before I even listened to the episode bc I know Monet loves to stir the pot and be on her bullshit constantly 😂😂

Xavier Rose

So I don't think Monet was making fun when she asked if Bob was gonna fix it, but afterwards she did basically dismiss Bob's feelings by assuming she wasn't insecure about it. Generally I always side with Bob though, Monet doubles down when she knows she wrong and it can get frustrating to listen to.

Monet nailed it when she said if Bob was sensitive he shouldn’t have agreed to talk about it on camera. Bob is obviously on the defense about it which is fine and valid. Just 35 mins of arguing about who said what, wasn’t warranted.

switch tracking lol

Laura

Both of y’all were right. Monet was playing and Bob was not feeling it. You talked it out like two people who love each other very much and have a deep interest in learning how to support one another.

Lenae Yawn

I feel like Monet led with the best of intentions but the delivery was not what Bob needed. Their was soooo much switchtracking I hurt my neck just trying to keep up! You can still feel the love- Monet not letting go of Bob’s hand had me dying! Relatable.

Bob fully didn’t wanna be wrong but he def is lmao

Dillemma Rodriguez

Conversation**

Angi Bitao

I felt like Bob was right in the beginning when leading the concession was right but then Monet got it at the end and was trying to be attentive and specific to Bob’s needs but Bob kept trying to re-clarify things in circle then Monet was right lol

Angi Bitao

Both of y’all are wrong cuz u made a 10 min conversation 35 min long . Bob could’ve told monet not to talk abt it on camera and monet could’ve respected his word the first time he asked. Instead y’all went back and fourth and it .

bella bunni

Honestly, this conversation could have been quickly squashed in less than 10 minutes. I usually agree with Bob, but I feel like they were being a tad bit sensitive in this episode regarding teeth gate. I felt like Monet was playfully provoking Bob which is no different from what Bob usually do to Monet in this podcast series.

this was so weird, monet should have just apologized lmao

Jessica Hill

monet rlly reached just to try to be right

angel sin cielo

even though the advice to get it fixed as soon as possible was unsolicited, monet was only looking out for bob’s best interest (and feelings) as she was aware he was feeling sensitive about the chipped tooth. it wasn’t an opportunity to “keep dragging it on”, it was only a problem-solving response as she felt this could possibly make things easier for bob. so monet wasn’t intending to be dismissive about bob’s feelings, i agree she could have acknowledged them in a more empathetic manner but i also understand why she reacted that way. Team monet!!

Both of you seemed PMeSsy 🙏🏽❤️‍🩹

NayNaySayersX

The shark tank speech💀

Carlos

I just don’t think monet meant to be hurtful and she apologized but it seemed bob wanted more from monet and I didn’t understand what it was she was needing that monet hadn’t tried to give so for those reasons I’m out.

Salina

Bob, nothing but love, but I think you’re wrong here! (But I’m that friend like Monet who doesn’t mince words soooo)

Jeez, guys, it’s just for fun. Chill out.

Elizabeth Querusio

Bob if you are not hyper sensitive and Monet didn’t hurt your feelings about and you’re not upset then what in the hell was the point of all this?!?

I get that bob was sensitive about his tooth and i think monet did pry a bit too much about asking when to get it done after bob said he didn’t want to talk about it

If your friend is saying they don’t feel safe or they are sensitive about something then chill the fuck out, put your ego aside, and support them. Both of you needed to chill out but especially Monet.. Didn’t come off as being a supportive friend at all.

KristyJoanne

Monet cracked me up (or should I say chipped), so #TeamMo

Costa

Y’all should’ve added Jacob to the poll as a 4th option.

I agree with Jacob that y’all could’ve steered the convo in a different direction lol

Monet wasnt trying to be nasty or rude… just wanted to help a good friend out. Yes it was unsolicited but friends always give each other advice like that… dragging it out was too much. Of course Bobs feelings are very valid but Monet never had ill intentions which is why i think Monet got upset as well because Bob wasnt able to read that

Alexis Arteaga

It started off innocent, but Monét was borderline gaslighting Bob. The conversation just went on a tangent.

I’m confused all monet said was “bob are you gonna get your tooth fixed”😭I don’t see how that’s disrespectful like some comments are saying

Ian

Bob was being a too sensitive… it’s a chipped tooth. Dragging it out for no reason. They want Monet to baby them. Monet didn’t say anything rude or mean…

justin

One of my son's who is close in age to Bob spent the last seven or eight years with a chipped front tooth. He stopped smiling in photos and was super self-conscious so I could really feel where Bob was coming from. Luckily my son came in to a bit of money and was able to finally afford to have it fixed. It made a huge difference in his self-esteem.

MaryJo Anderson (JojoMama1965)

That was the best conflama I’ve witnessed in a min. Num, num, num.

Rj Williams

Update: ypu can indeed check more than one box.. Hint* hint*

alec hathcock

Waiiit how is Bob winning?

Kristen Starks

Y'all were both crazy

Bob was on one

Monet should have acknowledged Bob’s feelings and read the room!!

mmm i'ma go w bob on this one girlie. i killed the shit out of my tooth gettin in an accident on a bike and i remember being so stressed about it. my cousin was pretty insensitive abt it like "well go see a dentist if ur so worried u have like a week of nothing" meanwhile i was about to fly out the state again for school and busy packing and wouldn't have had the time (or money). i see why ppl think bob was kinda doing a lot for nothing but i think she just wanted monet to realize why she should've just dropped it when bob said i feel sensitive abt this topic. anyway luv u both ! ! !

j

i feel like this is a trap 😭

George Leney

Definitely Bob. Bob would have to say at least three times that they’re sensitive before Monet would drop it? Are Bob’s feelings Beetlejuice? Feels a lil wild. Shoulda dropped it in 5 minutes, not 35. Absolutely love you dingdongs tho

Chelsea Abbott

if yall were in line before 8pm you can still vote! #STAYINLINE

Caitlin Bell

If Bob said it was bothering him/hurting his feelings then Monet should have just apologized and dropped it, even if they joked about it previously. Body imperfections can make you feel certain kind of ways at different times. Y'all dragged on the arguing way too long on this one. Love you both!

The chipped tooth don’t even look bad.. but I’m not bob so can’t tell him How to feel !!!

Gigi B.

I havent seen the episode. I just voted to see what the results looked like. Happy reading, bob.

Ynb

Unsolicited advice is intrusive and can feel judgmental in-spite of good intentions. Once Bob said they were sensitive about the tooth Monet should have dropped it. Bob was in a sensitive place and Monet should have waited for a different podcast to press the issue. Team Bob for sure. I love you both and enjoyed this episode so much!

Karen Sanchez

Literally same

Hugh G. Rection

Well, Bob was right that Monet pressing about Bob's sensitivity regarding her chipped tooth was insensitive, Monet was right that Bob is crazy, and often confronts Monet about things Bob herself does too. But don't get me wrong, I love every minute of it all.

Madelyn

Neither really but kinda Monet. I feel like Monet is forever trying to wind Bob up but on this occasion Monet was being unusually reasonable and Bob was just making a mountain out of a molehill. I agree with Monet in the beginning like if you are so insecure about it or sensitive about it, as a friend monet’s encouraging you to get it fixed ASAP

I'm gay

Anthony St. John

Me seeing if I can vote twice for Monet because Bob was acting Wild

Ashvir Mohan

I voted for Monet because whenever she says she is uncomfortable with something and would like to move on Bob ain’t let it lie so this is typical behaviour for them. I can see why she thinks it’s weird that he reacted like that

Naaman Brown

Neither were right or wrong. In terms of Bob, Bob was right in being defensive about talking about a part of their body that they're sensitive about. However, Monet is right about not understanding how severe or serious Bob was being about their sensitivity of their teeth since Bob is a very over reactive person (nothing wrong with that). Example, Monet touches Bobs hands, bob says "Did you just hits me" and looks to the camera so offended. Love both of them.

Monet. I do agree that anything someone is sensitive about should be approached respectfully and with care. However, I also think that in a relationship (friendship, romantic, family) that's pretty tight and has been so for a while (+10 yrs), a person would naturally get invested in the other's well being and would want what's best for the other partner. Eventually you being in pain would also cause a bit of pain for me because of my love for you. I would want to address that pain as a person that cares for you and that wants to see you happy. I would understand and acknowledge and accept that addressing this would give you a bit of discomfort, but I would also be denying a part of myself if I just stood by and did nothing while you dealt with something that's bothering you, and had been for a while, all by yourself. I would feel hurt if my efforts to assist you in dealing with this sensitive area in your life weren't considered, as if my contributions aren't appreciated. Long Rant Short: I'm with Monet because I do believe that an important person in my life should be able to assist me in dealing with certain things even if it makes me uncomfortable. My friend would be there to guide me through the discomfort.

First half of the episode monet was wrong but as the conversation moved forward bob took back the torch. If someone says explicitly "That makes me feel bad" I usually take that to mean not to go any further

Max D

This poll all suddenly is gonna get deleted and we know why 👀

Crystul

that's a great tip especially if you're with an insecure or anxious partner

mattdeb21

MONET LOSING??? STOP THE COUNT

Also there was a point where Bob was saying Monet insinuated that Bob was acting different and she wasn’t. I disagree I think Monet was just saying that she was surprised at Bob’s REACTION to behavior that is typical for her.

Asia

I voted BOB. BUT Bob was on that ♋️ bs today. I’m literally the exact same way. He was being an ass even though he was right. Monet misread the moment and had valid reasons for doing so. She was coming from a good place and deserved a little more grace.

Asia

Right! That is the crux of the argument.

Manuel Ayala

Y’all wild for doing neither this is the 2016 election all over again 😭

I think that Monet just suggested getting Bobs tooth fixed asap because she could see how sensitive and flustered it made Bob feel. I think Monets intentions were pure and came from a place of love and she hates seeing her friend suffer emotionally. I think the conversation should have ended when Bob resolved to not getting it fixed until a little later despite her sensitivities.

Andre Thomas

Both have valid points but both won't let it go and it got to a weird (and entertaining, your arguments are always entertaining!) place. So yep, my vote goes to neither 😅

I think Monet had the best intentions but triggered Bobs insecurities that carried out through the whole episode 😂

Juan Rodriguez

🤣🤣🤣

Diamond Nicole

I honestly thought Bob was joking too 😭😭

Peanut Jams

One thing I do is ask my partner if they want advice or support when they're sharing something with me. Like if you want advice, I'll tell you to go get your tooth fixed sooner than later. If you want support imma tell you it's no big deal, get it done when you can, nobody will notice it, and you look stunning as always

Jenn D.

Not a single 'put this pu$$y on your chipped tooth" reference from these two ALLEGED Nicki fans!? Electric chair. Voting for neither out of pettiness and toxicity.

Wholahay

To the people voting neither: TEQUILA OR VODKA?!!! BOB OR MONET?!!

Jonathan Avila

I'm usually a Monet stan but I'm with Bob on this one. What if your friend was like "I'm sensitive about these wrinkles around my eyes" and you're just like "well you should really get that facelift asap then"?? Not that. You gotta handle us Cancers with care bb 🦀💔

Jenn D.

I know y’all not thinking Bob is right… girl Bob was doing THEE MOST

Kind of on Monet’s side here. While I acknowledge Bob’s feelings and obvious touchiness on the subject due to his past, I would’ve just dropped it and moved on. I think what’s important here is intention vs effect. Although Monet had no malice, Bob was still effected/offended. Monet’s point was also valid but I would’ve been “You know what. I apologize. That wasn’t my intention. I hear you. Let’s talk about something else”.

Edward C

Team Monet here. Like she said, I don't think Monet realized how sensitive Bob was about his tooth. So, like any normal podcast banter, Monet pushed the subject. 100% a miscommunication I don't think Monet meant any harm ❤

Mina

I normally side with Monet on all arguments because she has never been wrong in her life. However, for this I have to side with Bob 😅

Pup James

I think both of yall were right. Bob is right that when someone says "I'm sensitive about this" the appropriate thing to do is change the topic. Monet is right because I don't think she was intending on it blowing up into such a big thing and she was just asking a question. Bob was the one who went "wow, I can't believe you just made fun of my tooth" which I think just further shows that Monet shouldn't have even brought it up if Bob is that insecure about it.

Naethyn Robb

What if you want to be confronted by Bob lol

Maddy

I voted for monét btw

Macaroni X Cheese

I think Bob is right but also there have been times where Monet has expressed that she doesn’t like when Bob makes the rich St. Lucian family jokes, early when Bob started making them. Now Monet just plays along and rolls with the punches lol

ludicojo

Did we ever even find out what happened to the damn tooth?

Bob, you’ll get my vote when you start posting sexy ass nudes like Monet.

English not being my first language I had to look up what gaslighting meant. I didnt know it came from the play/movie gaslight, makes sense. Anyways Bob all the way onto his one, I usually enjoy listening to these two argue about superficial shit, but the whole "I'm very insecure about my tooth" vs "I worry that you don't prioritize yourself" made me a bit uncomfortable. I adore Monet, but I found myself wanting her to stop, rewind and just say ok my bad 5 minutes into the conversation.

Toro Luna

I voted Monet! Lmaooo hands down. Especially when she tried to apologize multiple times and each time it just wasn't good enough.

Gucci R

You can select more than one option!

Daniel

How did da toof get chipped dats what I wanna know

Drake Mathews

There should be an option to pick “Both”!! So I just voted neither instead

Tom

Can I be confronted for voting for Bob instead?

The Neither votes!!! Jill Stein is shaking

This

Next episode will be about "Voter Suppression"

pls imagine this ends up a tie

el

I really can't believe we are having the discussion on this. Bob is right. That's her feels and Monét pushed the issue. I have friends that do the same thing. And I'm like, I just was telling you how I feel, not asking you to elaborate. But still love you both❤️❤️❤️

I don’t necessarily think there was inherently something wrong with Monet’s initial comments, but when Bob told her he was feeling sensitive about it, that was the time to just let it go. Then everybody got way too dug in, and things got weird. Again, I don’t know that I would’ve reacted the way Bob did, but I don’t know all of what is going on with Bob, so when he gave the sign that it was enough, it should’ve been enough, right?

Zach Lamm

If someone says they’re insecure about something I think the proper response would be to drop the subject and apologize regardless of what the intention was when you brought it up.

Initially y’all were both right just on two separate pages but 30 min I the argument was lost lmaooo y’all both should’ve gave it up at min 10

Tamario House

u guys have to understand people have their own insecurities. no ones in the right and wrong it was a simple argument between two friends.

Team Monet!!!! I was feeling what you were saying at first, Bob, but then you lost me in the end. Monet not making you feel anything but clearly she did or else this wouldn’t have been an issue…. Your reasoning and theory on feelings and what is valid got wild. But you’re

David Preciado

I just want to know how the hell u keep chipping the same tooth?!?!?

WERQ DJ

I think they’re both right and wrong. Monet saw her friend having an insecurity, so she suggested a solution to make Bob feel better about it. Bob explained that they don’t want to correct that insecurity at the moment, and that should have been the end of it. Both of y’all took it a bit further after that and it became a whole situation, but I don’t think anybody was necessarily in the wrong 🥴

Jade Hunter

Close friends/family think they’re doing you a favor by giving unsolicited advice and then not listening to you when you say it hurts your feelings!!!! Team Bob on this one

I AGREE 100% WITH THIS!!! I didn’t think Monet was totally in the wrong, I knew where she was going, she just wasn’t wording it right, and Bob needs to stop acting like they ain’t mad, should of been called, “the one with miscommunication”😂👏🏾

Monet hands down. Bob just twisted everything

I can’t believe so many people r supporting monet over Bob that is cooked to me. Bob said that doesn’t feel good to me and monet doubled the fuck down 😳😳 jacobs laugh when monet said let’s talk about dental health was it for me. done.com/Monetgottachill

It’s the “Choose all that apply” for me.

monet was right the house down boots

STOP THE COUNT

Starr Banks

🍅🍅

Zion Augusta

Monet hands down

aina

All MONET was trying to say was, this issue is negatively effecting your mental health, why not resolve it sooner to shorten the length of time you feel this way rather than prolong your “sensitivity”. But BOB chose to sprinkle in MONET was insinuating BOB doesn’t manage his time properly and doesn’t take care of himself.

"I'm not upset" *created 30 minute argument*

Sean

Now do another poll about who is the bigger gaslighter! XD

Marchmain

Neither was 100% right, but I did feel like Monet's advice about her knowing Bob is a busy person and should do it sooner rather than later was valid and makes sense, maybe she just didn't say it in the best way? However, I do understand that Bob felt sensitive about it. I think it was just a miscommunication and you guys were arguing about 100 different things lmfao

LMFAO not this shit almost a tie. Bob is boutta have a ball about him winning 😭😭😂😂

Gio L (@bluntburnz)

Bob was right 100% You can't tell someone you had time to do something at a certain time. Maybe they had time issues or money issue. Friend or not, stay in your lane girl.

I keep checking in just to see if I was crazy for thinking Monet was just looking out for her friend, I usually agree with Bob but I totally see where Monet is coming from and just feel she maybe had a hard time articulating her point....

Brandyn With A Y

^^^

I kept listening and at some point I lost what either of you were trying to prove which is so typical of this podcast and one of the many reasons I love it!

Edy Guillen

These results are really telling. Honestly the thing went on so long both of you became wrong lol 😂

Dawson Land

I voted for Bob because I also have a chipped tooth

GioB.

This tie is wild

DangoDani

Monet was right. Bob had an insecurity that was due to a medical procedure That could easily be fixed. No need for the insecurity. Seems that bob wanted to push his insecurity onto others.

Monet was literally just telling Bob she is generous and Bob disagreed. How is Monet wrong here!??? Bob was just twisting her words to be mad.

The way its a tie LMAO

Diaperbutt69

Omg please confront me Bob 🙏🏽

The poll is honestly unfair to both Bob and Monet because it just allows ppl to project their friendship/relationship issues onto them and take this situation to places it don’t need to go😭Only they know how they REALLY felt in the moment and from the outside looking in, just seemed like both sides were having two different, yet valid, opinions at one point lmao.

Gagged so many of y’all agree with Monet. If we are talking about the argument, which was literally just was it wrong and shady for Monet to try telling Bob that they need to make time to fix their tooth, then obviously Monet is wrong. Lol like what is the confusion?

Michael Thompson

im gonna say neither bc this feels like a miscommunication that was unnecessarily dragged on by both sides :> love you folks ❤ & quit bringing poor little jacob into yalls fights, instead of getting him a mic get him some soundprood 🎧

Monet stays twinning

Hugh G. Rection

Bob definitely was right but you proved your point Mary move on lol…..

Ilayjah Gary

Monet definitely egged it on at first but Bob really dragged this argument out for something that didn’t “bother” them. If someone argued about something for almost an hour I would feel like I made you feel some type of way. Hence why monet thought Bob was being very sensitive

Cesar Munoz

Winner Winner TWO Chicken Dinners!

#TeamBob

Again. Where is the write in for Jacob. He’s the real hero here

E B

Bob. The whole argument was that Bob felt insecure about his tooth and Monet’s questions and comments triggered him but Monet made like excuses for Bob to not feel that way 😂😂 which just made Bob more upset

Shady Tyrell

I usually think Monet is on point but Bob gets this one.

100% Monet is right and I though I’d never say that but Bob is being ridiculous… if it’s that big of an issue fix it, that’s Monet’s point!

Paul Graves

It seemed like Bob was making a big deal out of it to give Monet a hard time and Monet as usual said the opposite of whatever Bob had to say, to give it right back.

Madison Diana

I mean what part 😂😂 there were like 7 arguments back to back

Shady Tyrell

Bob is about to gather me like a pony tail

If we're asking about detriment, Monet was definitely wrong.

John Stephens

Monet is right because bob is the one to always say that “I can’t make you feel anything”. Then proceeded to feel a type of way about what monet said. MONET FOR THE WIN

Not Sibling Rivalry: Civil War

Derek Williams

Monet. Is Bob valid? Of course but this was a regular dialogue between friends.

Dot

Not as stressful as the ticket/court debate

I bet you all are voting both on purpose just to gaslight them even more 🤣

not this tie

Jeanie

Bob was really in his feelings with this one...

Not the extra content as emotional compensation... pls 😂😂

Yasmean Lee

I think initially Bob was in the wrong: Monet didn't seem to have ill intentions when asking about her dental work. Once the conversation kept going after Bob clearly stated his position on the discussion, Monet should've let it go. Monet was definitely wrong for implying that Bob should make the time to get the work done.

Rob

They both had their points, and I see it from both sides. However, I'm team Bob because if I, as a listener, can see and feel how insecure Bob is about his tooth, then his platonic life partner should know more than me.

Kimary Quinones

Usually I don’t but, imma go with Monét on this one. I understand that Bob is sensitive about his tooth being chipped but you dragged this out like beyond. But then again Monét dragged it on by talking about how bob puts other people first. We need a double episode next week plus watchery 🙄 lol

Hgs Vda

I think Monet didn’t mean any harm. But I understand where Bob was coming from…so I’m voting for Monet

Salvatore ♱

I’m always on Bob’s side but this time Monet didn’t seem like she was being insensitive. It seemed like she genuinely just cared and was trying to make a point about doing it when he’s not busy rather than later when he’s touring. Monet should’ve dropped it after he said he was going to Atlanta in 2 days but at that point Bob was defensive and wanted to make a point that it was insensitive to say “I don’t believe you” even though usually the tables are turned. Monet’a usually getting it from Bob.

Monique Skellington

This sounds like every argument I’ve had with my sibling. “I apologize if I made you feel…” 😭

Oh lord....

R S

Team Monet, I’m not the dramatics kind of guy, let’s get it fixed already

Bubba

Bob was on one that day, Monet wanted to choke her and be done with it.

Bob better be ready to be Monet’s next twinner

Albert

Right about what lmao there were so many tangential arguments being had

I mean, Monet meant no harm, so she can only apologize for Bob being offended by (or sensitive about) what she said. Monet cannot, however, apologize for simply having said it, unless she was fully aware it was going to affect Bob the way it ultimately did; and clearly, Monet was not aware. Yes, I know Bob said he's told Monet about this sensitivity. But if Bob genuinely believes that Monet was fully aware of the previous reminders then Bob is simply being W I L D. Honestly, I feel like Bob's trolling Monet; and Monet deserves it because she played right into it, just like siblings. I voted Neither.

Joseph King

You can vote for more than one option if you want haha

Daniel

Where's the option for "BOTH"? I see the truth in both sides and have been on both sides of friend fights just like this. I'm fully Switzerland on this one queens!

Wow

Bender (She.Her)

The conversation should have been over after Bob said he was sensitive about it.

NubianGoddess

When Bob told Monet she was insecure about her tooth Monet should have just left it at that

Not the threats!

its so clear that bob was right lmao

zelina

Both should have been an option here lol

Asking who was right is hard because it’s like who was right about what specifically? The argument covered an array of issues and nuances so I went back to the very beginning and the *original* spark was Monet asking “are you going to fix your tooth” which Bob interpreted as mean or shady because she responded with “I cannot believe you tried to shame me about my tooth”. So it’s a question of was Monet’s original question rude or not. I didn’t think it was so I voted for Monet being right. Honestly tho I think Bob was responding more to Monet’s tone than her question which I think lead to the conversation about their typical dynamics with each other and then of course it all spiraled. If it’s a question of Monet’s tone then there there may be no right or wrong because tone is often subjective.

Brandon

Bob kept saying he was sensitive but didn't mind talking about it. But if I'm sensitive about something I wouldn't want to discuss it at all. Also, when Monet tried to apologize, Bob acted like he didn't want it, didn't ask for it, but then it's like what do you want??? Please come for me 🖤

voting monet so bob confronts me

M JM

Bob just simply said the same thing from beginning to end. Monet kept sidetracking the entire time Hahaha.

RENO

She did say my bad and try and apologize more than once. Bob was having none of it.

Oshi

lol ultimately, ya both were cappin. Monet is always gaslighting bc it’s just her gig at this point. but, Monet brought a good point on perspective about Bob joking about it mostly and then just saying he’s sensitive about it, but to what end?

Elliott Knight

well now i wanna vote for monet

Shi-Ann

Lmaooo not this being almost even

I think I was team Bob for most of it, then switched when Monet said something along the lines of being a close and trusted friend. I agree that these qualities can allow for more playful and honest banter.

I love commenting and then deleting. I voted Monet lmao

Sean

Omg not Gaslight Exchange winning all these votes . THIS election is the rigged one, Mary

VERDELINDO

Monét was being congenial

Marcus M

455 confrontations and counting

Phillip Aderhold

To me it sounded like Monet was genuinely curious about when bob was getting their tooth fixed, something I think is pretty normal for friend to ask another friend. And then paid Bob a compliment by saying they’re selfless and puts other people before themselves, and bob got defensive and took it as an insult.

Shane McConnell

How is the poll almost 50/50?! Y'all are wild. Bob is 100% correct.

Yva

Just paused the video after the argument to vote…I’m usually on monets side but I’m team Bob in this 100% with extra credit on the side. All monet had to do was say “my bad.” But then again it wouldnt have given such an entertaining episode so far. 😂

i’m still wondering if bob’s sensitive about his tooth ..

isaiah

Bobs feelings are definitely valid BUT we all know how y’all love pushing each other’s buttons. So many times when Monet isn’t having the best day, Bob pushes them buttons regardless. Y’all are amazing and I love you both ❤️

Haitham Haidar

Would love an episode where the two of you meet with a couples counselor who helps mediate a dispute

Ian Crowe

Your feelings are valid, Bob. Monet was gaslighting. Love you two and hope you can both learn to treat each other better. Pride will be yall's downfall 😅

Akia

i know this isn't the case, but what if you don't have the money? it's really not that simple

Javi

Monet’s heart was in the right place, but Bob in this case

Uzzielh Marquez

#teamMonet

The tea is that they were arguing different arguments at the same time. However, if I was talking to my friend about something and they told me they were sensitive about it, I would drop it immediately. Especially if I knew they were serious.

Braxton Simpson

this was by far the most stressful episode to watch lol

Bob thought he was WRONG once ……. but he was MISTAKEN

I can just imagine them arguing over when to cut the voting, every time they get a vote lead they just go off.

Johnny R.

Justice for Monet

Gonzales

How is this so close hahaha

Tbh I zoned out the first 30 minutes it felt like I was back at home hearing my brothers and or parents argue about something LOL it filled my heart for a bit❤️ lmao

i blame camilla cabello

Mo 1000%. If you can’t take comments about your tooth just get it fixed. Simple as that. 💋✨💋✨💀

Darian Flores

Chippy Longstocking Plaque Sparrow Kay Nine

R S

Ok but lets be real the only right person here was Jacob

Crystul

Monet Isa gaslighting bitch and she KNOWS IT

Luis Garcia

Monet shouldn’t have taken it so far BUTTTT Bob seemed to be dancing around the fact that it gave him a FEELING! Like saying he felt monet was insensitive obviously meant that he felt some sort of negative feeling which if he described monet could have understood him more. I agree with the fact it just seemed like Bob was joking about being sensitive and then as it continued monet didn’t want to admit defeat.. typical best friend bs!! Love you guys <33 it really was a great thing to show real communication tho!

Gavin Higgins

this is another argument where both are right because they were arguing two different things. bob about sensitivity and monét about gaslighting. it was the same argument but like not.

VOTE OR DIE! 🤣

R S

Because this ain't Allstars 4!

R S

Drop your dental-related drag names below! ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️

Ricky Ricardo

I mean Monet's view of how their conversations usually go sounds kind of accurate so I wouldn't think by Bobs initial reaction on camera about it that they felt that sensitive about it. But Monet beat that horse to pulp Chile... leave bob and they tooth alone

That part.

R S

As soon as Bob reminded Monet that he felt sensitive about the topic, Monet should've said sorry and moved it along. I kinda got a little pissed with Mo 🙈

R S

In the big picture, Bob was right. They both always end up having to different arguments though, which makes neither of them right or wrong. I say Bob is right bc you shouldn't ask someone when they're going to "fix" something about themselves. Imagine if Monet said so Bob, I know you have some free time, when are you going to lose weight?

Nephele

Bring a couples therapist on to an episode

I think it would be different if Bob hadn't made it clear she intended to fix the tooth before. It's not like Monet said "oh that looks bad you should fix it." She knew Bob intended to fix it and just suggested Bob do it when she has more free time. That's how I interpreted it anyway.

I think Monet had good intentions sure, but regardless of that, I don’t see how it’s right for her to continue pressuring Bob after they had clearly stated it was something they’re sensitive about. Bob seemed to be setting a boundary in regards to telling her what she should do with her own body and her tooth. And instead of acknowledging that boundary and pivoting the conversation, Monet also became defensive which led to pride being everyone’s downfall for 35 minutes 😂😂

Brandan

Honestly though. What Monet did initially is something I’d do because I always poke fun and give my friends a little hell, but Bob made it pretty clear he didn’t want any of that and then it went on and on and on….Monet should’ve dropped it quickly but I don’t think she’s at fault for saying what she said at the beginning. Just a little ribbing that got blown out of proportion and the come backs from Monet eventually had me siding with Bob.

Dawson Land

This is a trap 😂😂

Kayla

Bob couldn't admit she felt some type of way. "Defensive" isn't a feeling, it's a reaction caused by feelings. So for Bob to play it off like she wasn't bothered after 30 mins of arguing is hilarious. "Pride will be your downfall" etc. LOL

Nephele

I almost couldn't either, lol. As I was about to skip the fight, they stopped. The good thing about these moments where they argue a LOT over nothing is that it's always hilarious right after they're done.

Gonzales

it was monet

Sadie

The reason why I'm not team Bob is because even though he was right with almost everything he said (and so are you), y'all are being a little too extra. It's not that deep, lol. Comparing this to sexual consent is too much. Monet was just trying to look out for her friend. Sometimes we need our friends to remind us to get a hair cut or go to the dentist...

Gonzales

This never dies for me 🙌🏻 Icon Ish

Let me preface this by saying that I know it’s not that deep, but my therapist once told me that, “Fighting to be right is not productive because in the end you both lose, because you’ve lost each other.” It definitely helped me and my partner have productive fights. Just putting it out there!

Luna Maria Luz

usually monet in the wrong but ima have to give it to her cuz Love you both but Bob always looking for something to argue about 💀 this was not it heuuoney *Bob voice*

ChaCha

The whole fight was literally Bob trying to convince Monet that she was gaslighting Bob by gaslighting Monet in the process, I can't 😂😂

Sylvie

Considering how long the argument went on, neither of them can be right lol

I am almost never on Monét's side 💀 , but I have to side with her on this one. It didn't even seem like anything worth taking up so much time over tbh. And not because I don't want to hear people argue. This conversation seemed pointless and senseless 🤷‍♂️. I wondered if Bob was having a bad day, bc he just seemed itching to get into it. (Which I totally relate to because I get in those moods as well 😪.)

Wally

I’m not playing this game.

I do not think there was anything wrong with Monet's suggestion as she was just trying to help Bob be their bestest self. Now that the boundary is set concerning that body part that shall not be named, you guys can move forward.

Will

Omg this is so divided💀💀💀

Jalapeño Popstar

It's the way Monet barely rolled her eyes at Bob, then Bob said "don't you dare", and then literally rolled his eyes at Monet like 3 seconds later lmaoo 😂😂😂

Sylvie

Ok… really I voted neither but I was leaning Bob. I just thought it was too obvious and that made me doubt if he was being genuine. So I guess I’m saying Monet was right? Some how I think that makes me toxic 😳

Lisha M

Have you all ever heard of "no means no"? Consent isn't just about physical, sexual interactions. If someone says "I do not want to discuss this aspect of my body", that means no. Maybe it's "not that deep" and "she was just making a joke" but as soon as we start coming up with situations where no doesn't mean no, consent is off the table. #teambob

Jennifer M

I don't know why people expect Kumbaya when the name of the show is Sibling RIVALRY!

i thought the same thing

yeux

I usually like the back and forth, but this was a little uncomfortable to watch

Julian Isenia

Not the "who was right" poll. All I know is Bob didn't know what strawman was at all and then after reading a wildly different definition than what he said claimed "yeah that's pretty much what I said."🥲😂

Dillon C

my dad is a cancer and he is very manipulative and victimizes himself all the time. except my mom and i never fall for it… my sister falls for it though. when i call him out on it he starts to cry and act like he never does anything but be “nice” to us

yeux

I got 4:30 in...Bob 😆

Kell Ryland

I do think that Monet was just being silly and poking at Bob at the beginning and that’s fine because that’s what close friends do, but I think the topic should’ve been dropped mucccch quicker. The longer it got drug out the more I sided with Bob. Voting Bob on this one.

Dawson Land

Monet seemed to be coming at this conversation exactly like that conversation about the court house and bringing your money or not and bob seemed to genuinely want some softness from their friend about their tooth especially if she knew bob was blocking people making jokes about it and monet did not give bob any space to have those feelings. But it also seems like monet doesn’t wanna be labeled as having been insensitive. People can lay out boundaries and sensitivities at any point during a relationship regardless of how things went before. You have to take a note and move forward not justify your behavior that someone has said they don’t appreciate. Lastly monet seems to speak from a much more privileged spot especially about teeth. Bob said they had 7 teeth replaced. Dental pain is the worst pain I’ve ever had and going to the dentist isn’t just a cleaning for everyone so i would get pissed too if someone who doesn’t know is telling me it’s so simple to fix.

Kailey

We’re going to have to really come together to stand a chance in 2024 y’all

Mohammed

whoever agreed with bob just hates monet . Lets be real 😂

How is this even close? Bob is literally right... asking someone when they are going to fix part of their appearance is mean.

Katherine Judge

This never would've happened if Nina Bonina Brown were Blac Chyna

Crystul

Monét definitely got the villain edit lmao

Lmaooo pleaseee tell the ppl why Bob blocked you!!

ChaCha

I for sure see both sides, but Monet was wrong for saying right after “let’s talk about the dentist” i lost it💀

Corves Harris

It’s literally 50/50….

Thomas Kizzar

how is it exactly tied

kt

I actually agreed with both as I could understand both sides. But I agree with Monét more I guess. It’s not like she was trying to be intentionally malicious. Suggesting someone get their tooth fixed during a period where they both have the time and the money to do so isn’t exactly wild for a friend to suggest. Lol Edit: If someone knew you didn’t have the means to get your teeth fixed (many, including myself, don’t) and suggested it, then that’s pretty cruel.

Rattlin_Bones

Bob the Victim

yarpyarp

the bigger conversation here is realizing that sometimes you're not in the mood to play and clearly bob wasn't..

Ry

call me crazy but hasn’t bob said on the podcast that she will do stuff for others even at the detriment of her own self????

natedawqq

i was just talking about it with my bf, i think monet was wrong for pushing bob on it, but at the same time, bob said "what you said made me feel defensive" and then minutes later said they didn't say that? like very much a cancer sun but. bob was right about how monet crossed her boundaries, but i can also understand why those boundaries are confusing for monet

Both yall negros play too much. That's why yall can't tell when something serious or not 😅😅😅😅😅

W.S.

We need a "both" option too

ARCHER

PERIOD

Liban Hassan

I think what could’ve changed the outcome of the conversation would have been if Monet started with “Speaking from a place of care and concern, I think you should get the done sooner or later, since I know this is just going to keep bothering you.” She said it later on as a clarifying point, but I think qualifying her point at the get would’ve felt less commanding.

Powell

My initial response is neither... but... I think Monét had good intentions and definitely wasn't "shaming/making fun" of Bob by asking a simple ass question. That's when it fell apart. Lol Bob took that and ran with excessive emotion and semantics, the latter of which is a frequent tactic of hers. Multiplying 1 word specific argument into several many word arguments for her to needle at until she wins because her grasp of words is better than Monét's. Miss Monica Lewinsky X Velveeta Cheese doesn't back down easily so it just went on and on...

Bob is right but Monet is coming from a good place. Sometimes we’re sensitive about body things and we don’t want “solutions” to them, we just want to vent and resolve it on our own timeline. Monet wants to help but this is just an area of personal self-consciousness for Boberta so it’s better to not pick on it. I think the self-sacrificing Bob argument is a distraction from the main issue.

Caitlin C

**In Monique's voice*** AMERRICAH, a good Judy is gonna tell you their truth. Now was Monet shady for not dropping it? Yes 😂

OverWatchery

Im seing alot of monet comments and i usually agree with my girl but she was deff pushing buttons. But part of being friends is arguing like this to grow. But i love both of yall honestly. ❤️❤️

Liban Hassan

Nah, Jacob can sometimes be biased. Imma vote for the true Miss Congeniality of the Pod: Colleen.

Mark Shaw

Happy to defend Monet against Bob the Bully

Christopher Morillo

Initially I was on monets side because it was never that serious lol and it seemed like bob was just being an asshole. However once he started breaking it down I started to get where he was coming from and agreed with him. But I still feel like he was being super petty & Bob is a cancer and they are great with manipulation and words soooooo I chose neither lol.

Alexis clark

It was both until after the conversation Dr. Monet ask Bob about his first visit to the dentist ??? I cackled very loudly #teambob

Honestly I'm just here for these comments... y'all are messy 😭

Yasmean Lee

I normally agree with Bob but someone was in their feelings during this episode. I really enjoyed the podcast. Excited to see what 2022 brings! 😊

I’m with bob. I have insecurities about my hairline and i plan to eventually get surgery. If one of my friends commented “when are you gonna get your surgery” it would only hurt me not encourage me. Then i know that they know that i know that im insecure about this.

Ben C

I understand Bob being sensitive but Monet was just doing what any good friend would do.

Will Tingz

I feeeel like this is a boy who cried wolf situation for Bob 😂 Like people are labeling this "Bob just like to argue and be right", and maybe tis true BUT I feel like the feelings were valid and I also don't feel like Bob was argumentative. Why people explaining their feelings gotta be an argument??

Raven Powell

Isn't it usually the other way around, where Bob pushes buttons and Monét TRIES to gaslight?

Mark Shaw

Neither, it was poor communication on both ends

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Honestly I feel like it was pretty even

I just want to see the results…..

Kristen Starks

Sorry Bob 😉

David

Jacob, for avoiding answering any questions to favor anyone 😩

Rob

Lol! Your voice matters! Lmao

Monet was definitely in the right. Maybe I'm insensitive but like if you are venting about an issue I'm gonna tell you to resolve it asap and probably give my advice on fixing it, especially if you're my stubborn ass best friend.

James Constantino

I haven’t heard the episode yet, but when has Bob ever made a point Monet hasn’t completely and thoughtfully reconstructed and retorted?

Trevin Wacker

Team Monet!! She suggested he make an appointment for an insecurity that can be fixed on a work lunch. Bob has read Monet downnn many times and all was fine then

Karen Carlos

I witnessed it!! Workplace violence!!

Tamisha

Owen

Can we add a 'Both' button?

Brittany Bolton

Strawdogging????? I’m dead

My answer is Colleen, the real Miss Congeniality of the Podcast.

Mark Shaw

Do the right thing.

alec hathcock

This episode made me anxious I’m voting neither cuz I don’t wanna hear it again. 😂

Matt

⛽️ 💡 🫖

Salina EsTitties

I didn’t care enough to listen to the whole fight

Gaslight Gatekeep GirlBOB

Zack Hologram

woooork, yes exactly

Naomi Joy Turner

Not me refreshing the browser to see Monet come out on top

yarpyarp

Ngl, I haven't even watched the episode yet, but I'm tempted to vote for Monet just so that Bob will confront me 😂

Courtney Ferriter

It’s bob saying they are the normal one out of their friend group for me 😹

Both were right. Bob has the right to feel however bob feels but Monet didn't do anything out of character in asking multiple time

Matthew Mata

You saying "regular ass annoying Monèt" is sending me

David Rocha

Bob has read Monet down hard compared to this.. many a time. I understand you're sensitive but Monet wins this one !

Derek Williams

Bobs feelings were completely valid and should’ve been respected from the jump. Forget about how Bob “would’ve reacted if the cameras weren’t there” or how much he “neglects himself and takes care of others”… he said what he said about how he felt about the tooth and from there it should’ve been done✂️

Kashia Kancey

I said Bob because Monet using shoulda woulda coulda’s didn’t fly for me

Maurice S.

Felt like Bob needed to argue and he's always determined to be right when there was nothing wrong with Monet expressing he should fix a problem that's amounting to an insecurity for him while it's convenient for him. Especially since he isn't even making an effort to schedule an appointment to have the procedure as a first step. If he's too busy appointments are made to fit within your schedule at the soonest convenience.

Seikou Kaba

i def think both sides are valid.. though i think monet was only trying to to give suggestions for fixing it only so he doesn’t have to feel so insecure about it anymore……. my friends would do the same. but i get being sensitive about something and not wanting that kinda advice.. oof

Naomi Joy Turner

I was on Monet's side until she chose violence and attacked Bob's arm

Javi

Look at all of the aliases I’ll have to create and dollar bills I’m gonna have to drop just to ensure Monèt wins this one and it not be a total popularity contest 🙃🙃🙂

Ricky Ricardo

as a moderate democrat would say: “there’s good people on both sides”

Sibling Gabe

I voted bob I was trying to figure out how monet kept straying so far And then bob taught me that called strawdogging ,,,

At the risk of setting Bob off again, it's not that deep! 😂

I never give it to bob but I had to do it today. Bob had a valid point which I think was misunderstood by Monet and then grew into something else.

Honestly Bob you were just being a sensitive cancer 🥴… fyi I am a cancer 🤦🏽‍♀️

Ant

Love you Bob but I’m sorry this one was Monet

Steven M

Idk but after that episode I was feeling really CHIPper🥴

Victor Manzano

imo monet was being very considerate and just suggesting “why don’t you go get it fixed before tour since you’ll be so busy” and bob changed it to “GET IT fixed sooner”

Long live the 🧽!

Bob was over doing it, yes “you’re emotions are valid” but your emotions can also be dramatic and unnecessary too

Lmaoooo

Gifty K

Both are right!

Angel Marieee

Lol that’s how I got the convo, Monet offered suggestions

Zion Augusta

I couldn't sit through it all...

The Sorceress

Monet pushes buttons and Bob gaslights. Let’s just leave it that at that.

Emmanuel Quiroz

Both of y’all had good claims. But Bob you been to so many roasts and you mad about a tooth?? 😭😭😭 #TeamMonet

Artistar

All ya’ll votin for Bob are crazy. They broke down 4 specific sentences Monèt said for THIRTY SIX minutes. Like Bob was doin too much over Monèt being regular ass annoying Monèt lol Bob was being too literal and way too damn sensitive.

Anthony

Voting Monét just for the free confrontational meet & greet

Calluna Vulgaris

this even split chile

I think you should also add a poll about the dress also💀 Bob is gonna gaslight all of us into swearing he has them Latrice teeth next😂

I voted I say Monet only becuase Bob you were feeling an emotion perhaps past trauma and it escalated something which maybe normally would be nothing.

Julian

Bob loves to play the victim 😂 and I be fallin for it every time.

Xay

stop the bullshit y'all know monet was right on this one

Sinan

Y’all weren’t even talking about the same thing when it came down to the end of it but monet was being very extra when bob very obviously just wanted some sensitivity not solutions and then it was all about semantics

Kailey

both of y'all

j0w0.com

I'm skurred yall I'm not voting but I feel they both had points they just were kinda maybe sorta maybe stuck on proving what they were saying rather than viewing the others perspective

Deekal10

i’m just going to say neither because the real answer was that y’all were both right, and it was just a misunderstanding 💀 Bob’s feelings were valid but Monét clearly didn’t realize how seriously he felt about it. Some apologies and better explanations could’ve ended the argument much sooner, but like i said in the youtube comments “where’s the fun in that”

Sibling Gabe

i think it was a communication issue tbh

Ain't no way y'all saying Bob 🤔🤔

Roman Svengali

This is messy behavior 🤣

I feel like it depends about what parts of the argument 😭😭 Bob made a lot of good points but Monet also came from a good place and had some good points

Also, right about what? Because y’all had 5 different arguments

Wheres the option for both??? Bc y'all be gaslighting each other!!

Seemed like bob just wanted to argue, but bob has the right to be sensitive about it

both made some valid points but monet made less sense in her argument

Alix

The one who own the body part decides how it's addressed you don't gotta like it but if you love the person you gotta respect it simple as that.

I understand where Monet was coming from but Bob was 100% right

Cole Swartz

i’m almost always on bob’s side… but i’m sorry monet had this one for me 🥺🥺🥺

Caitlin Bell

Obviously Bob’s feelings are valid, but I do think it wasn’t outside the realm of what is normally talked about on sibling rivalry. I did not think Monet had I’ll intentions

Dawson LaRance

Bob is right. He said he was sensitive about it, and Monet kept pushing.

Monet was being reasonable and Bob was being high maintenance

Darryl McCallum

If what monet said was “you should fix it” bob was right. But i think what she meant to say was “if you want to fix it you should do it soon”,,,, but i could be wrong LMAO

Anthony

bob was a bit too extra about it when they’ve joked about it in the past lol love my gaslight queens so much tho

Karen Carlos

Wait I kind of thought both to a degree...

LOL! Bob just gone have to confront me then. we can talk! i'm down. 💁🏾‍♀

Swankk e. Smalls

I want to make a joke but I’m scared

I’ll just stay neutral 😂

FeiztyLeo (Jayson)

Jacob

Emmanuel Quiroz

Bob blocked me on tiktok so Monet is my favorite now chile

hotmama267

I'm to scared to vote as to not be confronted by Bob

David Rocha

Imma stick beside my answer. Lol

Gifty K

I think we should just let this one go honestly😕*votes anyway*

OWEN MCKINNEY

Monet! girl cmon now 😭

Monet of course

Clovice Holt

Not Bob blackmailing us

Jaden R

and the winner is. ANYONE ELSE

stian

Good points were made on both sides.

superiority complex out the ass

#TeamMonet

James MacDonald

We all know who was right

carlos suarez

Why is BOTH not an optipn

MONETTTTT PERIOD

Kaysen Houston

Fight night round 2 in this bitch

Sol

i’m too scared. sorry!

stian

whats bobs obsession with being right

NOT it being completely tied

Naomi Joy Turner

I think both claims were valid😭

Joia G

Y'all im scared to vote. Ima sit this one out 😅

Alyssa H