The One About Breakups

This episode was really sweet. I loved it

Alex

I didn’t watch this one for a while because it came out right after a ended a 6 year relationship and I thought I was going to cry but thank you so much for making me laugh during one of the hardest times of my depressing life

LaDarius

I NEED the link/details for Monet’s sweatshirt. Please and thank you! 😍😍😍😍

BlackLawyerBae

I'm so late to this party but there is no way Vanjie is on level 2 of drag makeup over Monet! She is VERY minimal

PL Digital

Me too! I live an hour away from Columbus and I think about him every time I go to the Dr there😉

MaryJo Anderson (JojoMama1965)

Not Bob pushing an agenda on how to have a proper open relationship or some ish with all these needless semantics at the end. Out here making me glad I don't dare or fool around or anything. Lol

Whenever bob says “Clayton county”, “Columbus” or “Georgia” I laugh soooo hard 😭

Please post the break up bye bye video. I can’t find it!!!

Christopher Johnson

I'm with Bob. This felt so short and I was really enjoying this conversation. We need a part two!!!

i think the way that bob speaks about relationships. To monet especially. is kind of condescending and made me feel bad :)

Ella

LOL living for the wig clip Mo u r so funny

Isabella Kelley

Ok Bob needs to chill on that last part, it’s totally ok to start out a relationship monogamous and then go open later on

Girl my college shut down too. An embarrassing resume I have now.

Jenny Jupiter

....not bob being right all the time!!!!

Adrian Suzuki

Damn. That ending was so abrupt I felt like they told me to get dressed and get out.

Marchmain

But also Bob wtf, you look so stunning like it’s crazy!!!!!

I’m always like “Yes, Bob is right” but not this video! Idk what Bob wasnt getting that Monet was saying her growing up made her mind view things differently! Also, some people don’t and will not ever have open relationships, and that’s valid. Point blank - it’s not about what Bob thinks “should be” it’s what Monet experienced and believes!

I agree Bob that was an abrupt ending. I was really into it you could have kept on going for me 😅

Richard Gambles

Monet looks stunning in this video. Such a nice change from the usual.

Anthony Ashcraft

I don’t think Bob can both say “I don’t want someone telling me what to do” and “I don’t think you should write off someone so quickly” if I don’t want my person sleeping with other people then that’s that. Not open for discussion, those are my boundaries, and it’s not fair/healthy for me to engage in a relationship I know I’m not comfortable with.

superb lip color on you bob

Maryse

that DICK!!! moment of Monet is such my mood

Maryse

We need a part 2 & I want a complete separate epsiode about Bob and Jacob's relationship during quarantine. Is this too much to ask and was anyone else wanting more? Sincerely, Sad & Single

M

bob talking about his 7th grade gf yellow teeth TOOK ME TFFF OUTTT 😂😂😂😂

Chris MAC

bitch also "SAY THEIR NAME"

Dairy Ann

BITCH I KNOW GIVBBERISH TOOO OMG I WAS SHOOK YOU STARTED TALKIN

Dairy Ann

I’m with Bob on this one longer podcasts are so much more fun there was so much more to get into !! Must be nice monet to be booked and busy

Breezy

Bob’s makeup to me is very natural beauty drag but still VERY drag 😂 it’s weird to explain. It’s natural to queens but exaggerated to the average makeup wearer. Nothing is super exaggerated but his wing liner.

Zoe Meltdown

I hope Monet tells us where she got her shirt from.

Mel8235

About the makeup portion conversation, i think a person who is right in between dramatic and soft makeup is Kameron😍

PopRockMakeup

Monet that wig is GORGEOUS on you

Lane

What'd you just call me?

Shoutout to Jay for editing this episode! Really appreciate the soft and subtle bleeping sound choices! Made listening to the episode with earbuds a lot more enjoyable than other commonly used sounds for bleeping audio.

Jax

I dated a guy, we were both closeted… and we ran into his girlfriend and then hung out with her for the rest of the evening… shooketh

The *gasp* name bleeps fucking terrified me every time 😅

Louise Gappa

Karen hugher!!!!!

I agree with Bob, I like longer podcasts too.

monet u look so good in that wig!!

zelina

I want Monet and Bob to do a stereo session where listeners submit a topic for these two to argue about

Imma need Patreon to allow full screen via their app. 🤬🤬🤬🤬

Terrence Randall

MONET!!!!!! THE SHIRT! I need to know where I can get one?!

Bob loves hard and Monet loves fast… can I be somewhere in the middle? 😛

EP

Bob is so competitive he competes about what type of consenting adult romantic relationship is better lmao

Nicolas Leiva Herrera

I’ve always wonder why I roommates hair is always wet lol

jguy

Change the title to “The One About Dragging Blair pt.6”

JonathanTiki

Came here to say this! 😂

It was to short I’m greedy I need more of yous 😂😂

Lynsey

This should've been the nice episode...I felt like y'all were super nice this ep lol

Monet has become verrrry LA (derogatory) very fast!

Monet girl fix yo wig I can see everything

Joey K. Aka “buk cho Lee” or “peeh cho” Looney Laos Lad. (Google where Laos is hoes)

Okay wigg

Yeah I think open relationships are more for people who regularly have casual sex. I'd want to be with someone who doesn't do hookups because I'm not about that, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't want them to freely talk about being attracted to other people. It's not always a negative control thing so much as a mutual agreement

Anthony St. John

Monet: "We're on a date we're talkin shkool" I'm in tears idk why this was so funny to me

Anthony St. John

the wigs are camp

?jaquarious?

Yes this is where she learned that antibiotics are a hoax

Anthony St. John

I love the bible quote battle

Anthony St. John

LOLL that killed me

Anthony St. John

Kimberly (the QUEEN of big makeup) must be LOVING this dis.

I HOLLERED at this!!

Joanne Robertson

I feel like Bob does big makeup and I love it. Also was I the only one chanting say their names for all the bleeped out exes? I appreciated Bob's struggle to not drag his first girlfriend for having a yuckmouth. But I wanted him to drag them all. My name is Joanne and I am a petty-holic. Lol

Joanne Robertson

Both of my big breakups were cinematically dramatic and I’ve definitely had the “leave the curtains closed 😪” moment before. It’s part of the healing process.

Jalen✨

not the cindy wig

ethereal

Awe my husband left the other night, because he said it was him or the puppy. I said I’m keeping my puppy 😂

Alyssa whitworth

Y’all look soo good

FatKellyP

"I ain't gonna be too many more 'Montenegrins'." LOL!!

MadMaxineShaw

The juxtaposition of these two looks is giving the fun aunt and the not fun aunt who thinks she’s better than the fun aunt

Monet saying Trixie is the only queen with big makeup as if rock m Sakura’s eyeshadow doesn’t take up 50% of her face

Dante Arias

The way monet screamed "DICK!" while clenching her fist sent meeeee

Monet I LOVE love this wig you're wearing. You look so pretty. You should wear it more often!

Cristina

Can y’all please redo the anchor app ad lol I’m so sick of it

Justin Singer

fell out when monet said ring-ging-ing-ging-ging 😂

BENG

There are levels of open I have entertained ,like 3somes and shit like that .... But having a full other relationship is just extra AF. Bob likes this arrangement and has found partners who are cool with that . But please sir get off your soap box trying to convert everybody into wanting that 🏌🏿‍♀️

Can we get a Part 2 ??? 👀

Rodrick Washington

Not Bob not letting Monet express her preferences😂😂 Everyone doesn’t want to be open like you BOB! You should respect her preferences as she has clearly respected yours. I don’t see how you manage an open relationship when it seems like a one way street with you LOL….still love you! Don’t read me down!😂

Jeanette Carter

My sister and I spoke jibberish together our whole childhood. And all the neighborhood kids! It was our secret language. This brought me back! 🥺

Mallory Wharton

yall look so mf good

Joia G

So many of you currently going through breakups is heartbreaking. I'm so sorry because that hurts so much. I remember how that felt, even though I haven't dated since the early 1980s. One broke up with me by a note in my mailbox the day we were headed on a trip :-/ My situation was unique though because unbeknownst to me until later, most of the men I dated were in the closet but are out and proud now which I love. I've always wondered what made them want to date me in particular....

MaryJo Anderson (JojoMama1965)

Monet’s wig looks sooo good on her omg

Artistar

Bob: ion like them this short Me: same 🥵

Bee Luis

the gasps as bleeps for the names was so funny, thanks Jay! now, everybody say "thank you Jay DiFeo"

I love me some pedestrian drag & love Monet's street looks.

J

Idk why, but Monèt's profile with this wig is giving very. . . Asia O'Hara.

Stephen K. Pittman

Monet - I totally understood where you’re coming from. I had a similar journey of understanding how an open relationship format would work for me. I still go back and forth.

Peter Lam

I still remember Monet’s ex boyfriend with the broken foot or whatever that she had after season 10 😭 Bob did not like that man, oh at all

Sibling Gabe

that’s certainly one of MY favorite wigs, monet!!!

saj da

48 MINSSSS!!!!?????? NOT EVEN A FULL HOUR!!!!!!! OHHHHHH IM SICKENEDDDDDDDD NOWWWWW!!!!

Bob was right that was too short

multiculturist

Same.

Monet's hair giving Holli Would realness

Clyde Raccoon

I feel like if Bob had said "soft makeup" instead of "small", it would have made more sense to Monet. But I think she knew what Bob was talking about and just wanted to pick at it to be honest, lol.

10 minutes in and they are already fighting hahaha

Terrah Card

Yaasss Bob!!! Gibberish! lmao it's like adding -iddig- in the middle of syllables. Shoe --> Shiddigoo. Red Lobster --> Riddiged Liddigobstiddiger

Sean

Why'd your parents do that to you?!! 🤣🤣 Monet plsss

zacassie 2

"I literally minored in biology" skskskskksksksks

Sean

Big makeup - Trixie. Small makeup - Katya. Other ‘big’ beats surely have to include Crystal Methyd and Rock M Sakura. Also, Kimberley Chi?

Kate

"So you've changed your mind since?" "I HAVE!" lmaoooo I LOVE Monet

Sean

not this topic coming out as i'm going thru a breakup.. pls this is not very camp

Absolutely gorgeous

Drag Blair St. Clair 🤣🤣🤣

Bre_T

i agree Monet fuck circumcision :(

Ryan Mortenson

Do you do drag??? You have so many opinions lmao give me the energy of someone who could NEVER give actual mug so have to project onto others🤣 like I said in the comment that you respond to NOT EVERYONE WANTS TO LOOK LIKE A CLOWN. Period.

Feel like this topic needs a part two lol

Dru Taylor

- lol pretty is subjective tho, a little eyeshadow a lip &a wisp of a lash isn’t drag & does not flatter most people … it just doesn’t. There has to be a BIG/dramatic element to it… that’s what brings it from over the counter onto the stage… it doesn’t have to be bianca big…. But there is a difference between small/minimal .. Pedestrian & big/drag Trixie & Katya for example one is VERY big & one it small very pedestrian even …. But the outfits/hair are always over the top The girls wanna throw on ivy park & think they’re serving. But it gives man ina dress 9/10… also a lot of “pedestrian” looks read GREAT on socials/pic & in person/stage fall flat. It’s all about the illusion

Darryl Dash

I could never see myself in an open relationship. I don’t understand it

Salvatore ♱

bob u look sexxxxxxxy

Is this the one they finally.break their toxic relationship ?

Francis

OMG Monet you look so STUN! You too Bob xx

Not Monet X Change crying alone in the VIP 🧍🏽‍♂️🤣🤚🏽

Victor Manzano

I’m sidetracked by the beauty 😍

Jacob Allbright

Bob this hair isssss GIVINGGGGGGG 💕💕 you look really young here too and Monet as always SLAYS 🔪🔪🔪

Chris MAC

MONET LOOKS SO HOT

This was such a good episode

Maya B.

Jesus christ you two look so fucking good!

The absolutely is a “big” and “small” when it comes to drag make up. Comparing it to a person on a street is not a valid argument 😂

Asia

wow asked for this weeks ago I’m so happy for this, can’t believe the place I’m in today didn’t think I would ever get to a good place. It really does get better y’all! Gotta go to sleep but can’t wait to watch this tomorrow. Thank you for this little piece of happiness week after week. 💕💕💕💕💕💕

Oscar J

I absolutely love that blonde wig on Monet! 😍👏👏

short episode 💔

Lmfaooooo them gasping sounds tho?! Cdfuuuuu and monet where can I get that shirt?!?!?

Gucci R

what in the serial killer… bob chopping monet up 🤣🤣

Every 2 seconds a name is getting censored and the gasping sounds have me rolling

I agree with Bob on the small/big makeup. Let us not forget Crystal Methyd.

Damn Bob is still dragging Blair 💀

I agree with monet, not everyone needs to or is open to being open in a relationship, it works for some and some it does not, I think there’s many ways to make a relationship work and that’s particular to that specific relationship with those specific people. I’ve experienced both and I can proudly say open did not work for me. Tried it, didn’t like it. Now I know what I do like, might change later on but not anytime soon lol. Monet that hair is everything btw.

Dev

I used to think Bob was right a lot.....but I'm siding with Monet so much more these days! 😹 This episode is wild and I have more to say but can't articulate rn. Bob's openness to relationships is great but apparently it doesn't apply to monogamy and that is wild 😳 I've never been broken up with but I guess I've broken up with some folks on accident 🤷🏻‍♀️ relationships are weird.

Agnes in Wonderland

Not as a gift from Bob that’s for damn sure

Muk Minaj

Bob was right, this was too short :(...

Robert Khachatryan

I'm going to have to agree with Monet on the open relationship thing! Not saying what Bob said was wrong, ( I adore his partners) and I'm glad it works for them, but I think the getting to know you stage and building confidence and trust in that relationship can make the open part easier to manage so no one's feelings get hurt.

I can understand Monet on the gradual acceptance of an open relationship. It doesn’t just happen in one day. It’s like getting use to kale or something of that nature. You hated it 10 years ago. It wasn’t as bad five years ago and eventually it becomes something you decide is good for you. I also believe that you need to understand the person your with first and yourself before you add others. Kuddos to Bob for having that understanding beforehand, most of us take time. I’ve been with my partner for 17 years and I don’t feel like I started understanding my significant other until 5 years in.

Dominique Jackson

The banter gets me every time hahah

(Me rolling over after hooking up with my ex that broke up with me yesterday): omg bob and Monet posted about us!!

kittygirlineedsomehelp

You two DID NOTTTTTT i got broken up with 2 weeks ago after a 4 year relationship….are you guys psychic or what pls tell me your secret

Giana Hill

No shade but from the side Monet looks like pre surgery Wendy Williams

Julian

Monet looks SO GOOD. Well, the face specifically. I love this makeup.

Asha Bynum

Monet is %100 right about the makeup stuff😭 just because someone’s pretty in drag all of a sudden they’re not doing enough or they “look pedestrian” like damn not all of us wanna be Bianca del rio in the face

Everyone says things are their favorite nowadays. saying "its one of my favorites" or "its my favorite" is equivalent to saying "I feel above neutral about this" and that applies to monet and the wig too lmao!

Amari

Love u both a lot

bob needs to break up with that wig

Me deadass going through a break up with my significant other who does drag. They were cheating the whole time and I had to find out by seeing them close out Grindr on their open apps and I saw they were talking to over 40 people sending vids and nudes. I have never been so heartbroken before cause when I love, I love HARD.

Lmao I LIVE for Bob’s delusions lmao he’s literally telling Monet she looks “pedestrian” bc she has little eye make up with no cut crease, and then says she does have a cut crease and doesn’t know what MONET is arguing about LMMFAO tell me you always wanna be right without telling me! Tell me you love confrontation without telling me! Lmmfaooo love these two

That laptop is becoming the third host of the podcast haha

YALL ARE FEEEING THE CHILDREN

david Leoni

So level 4 is like Gottmik, Abhora, Raven.....

Kit Tusks

Your name is homophobic + you're cancelled

Anthony St. John

Just smoke a blunt in readyyyy

Diaperbutt69

Yall look gorge

Naethyn Robb

LMAO shady

Anthony St. John

👀 *steps in ready to ruin your life and credit score*

brandyn from the fif flo.

Where did Monet get her hoodie? It's cute!!

Yall are serving this episode! Yall look good!

Haven't listened but I love how these outfits look like mother and daughter

Anthony St. John

same😭😭

Caitlin

I’m early affff

Emmanuel Quiroz

My single ass sleeping peacefully tonight knowing a fuckboy isn’t being a POS to me. To the fellow siblings who are going thru a break up my heart goes out to you. Just know they ain’t shit, and they don’t deserve you! 🖤

Whewww can’t wait to hear this

Asia

In the words of poet laureate Rihanna: [I-I-I-I] nee-ee-ee-ee-ee-eeded [this]!!!

Deekal10

🥺❤️ hope you’re ok

Asia

There is all these breakups..im sorry patreon family

Purple Reign

I clicked so fast 😂

i literally just went thru a breakup a few minutes ago and u guys posted this… y’all are my guardian angels

shawn

Dang, you people are FAST with the comments

Not you putting this out the same time I’m going thru a long messy breakup….!

Bout time

James

But you are still beautiful love

Purple Reign

Y’all look cute af

Kenya E

Oooo a day early! We love prompt queens!

Bitch not me currently going through a breakup.... this episode is going to be a Kiiiiiii

brandyn from the fif flo.

Lol Me Two 🌺🔥🌺

Dee Ramsey

Ahhh yes sleep ..who needs it!?

Purple Reign

Omg perfect timing!

joesteezy

Not this coming up when I got broken up with a few days ago. 🥺

Y'all look purty

WERQ DJ

OMG IM SO MF EARLY

eddie