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Patreon Exclusive: Bob and Dakota

Bob catches up with his NYC drag friend Dakota and share some stories from when they started drag together. 

Patreon Exclusive: Bob and Dakota

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please PLEASE keep doing episodes with Dakota-- the stories you're sharing are incredibly valuable for the next generation of queens and beyond. You two were a part of an important piece of drag history in the scene you created and that history needs to be preserved!!!!!

dr0938

This was really great! Please invite Dakota back every now and then!

Felicia Porter

This was really awesome to listen to!

i loved this so much!! cannot wait to check out their podcast ๐Ÿ’œ

This was great! Dakota youโ€™re so wise! Love you Darling๐Ÿ’—

Rosie Goldstein

Such a great convo! I now have binged almost every episode of When God was Queer, and have loved every second of it, thanks Dakota and Bob!!

i love hearing the tales of new york from days past :)

incredible, i was legitimately thinking about this today as I was driving and I decided to watch this video after a while ... the universe is speaking!!

I loved every second of this!!!!

Emma

Every day I hear more shit that makes me ashamed to know I liked Sharon on her season ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ

Asia

This was SOO freaking good! Spilling tea AND educating all in one. This is my kind of episode ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ

Asia

I loved this video a lot. Please do more with Dakota

Terrah Card

Loved this! Would love to see more conversations between Bob and Dakota!

Dan estrada

I loved and appreciated this so so much! Ty both for doing this one. Seriously, an amazing and awesome epi. ๐Ÿ’œ

Venikins

This was a really great conversation! Last night I listened to a couple of eps of Dakotaโ€™s podcast (When God Was Queer.) Itโ€™s fascinating and well done! Looking forward to listening more.

This conversation was absolutely incredible thank you Bob and Dakota

Deron Jenkins

yaaas! to living in the nuance!

Just wanna share that this is incredible, thank you so much for this - Dakota said so many great things about the colonial concept of gender and sexuality and that's SO important !!

nour

I feel very attacked ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ I couldnโ€™t get past the first 12 minutes ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

15:57 I wish Dakota had not interrupted that Sharon Needles story ๐Ÿคฌ๐Ÿคฌ

Jewell Singletary

9/11 The Musical took me out only for Dakota's I'm a Slave for You description to piss on my grave๐Ÿ’€โ˜ ๏ธ

Jewell Singletary

this was so refreshing and empowering!! i rlly found myself getting emotional with all the ways yโ€™all were able to verbalize your beliefs so amazing!!! so happy to be able to watch this !!

Matthew Ramchand

Dakota is a force! Absolutely love every minute of this, so informative!!

Ben S

I dont know if the username in the video is correct but I cannot find them

does anyone know where can we follow Dakota? Iโ€™ve been looking for them in Instagram and Facebook and dont find their account :(

this was an amazing convo !!! loved hearing about dakota and bob's history in the city !! and i love when dakota brings up the differences of what gen x and y gays went through versus gen z. we were all kinda slowly figuring all that gender stuff out at like the cusp of the new millennium and early 2000s. i really really enjoyed this exclusive <3

KatieRose

In regards to the Marsha discussion, Iโ€™m guessing that people view her as a trans because maybe she told her close friends thatโ€™s what she felt. Those friend may have spread the info after she passed. Just me guessing.

David Sanchez

more catch-ups and reminiscing!

Whatโ€™s it called?

Siba Tobias

Learned a lot from this podcast and loved Dakota !!! โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธand you guys are right growing up as a kid, teen, or young adult in the early 2000s to mid 2012 There was a lot of hush hush vibes going on, people had to hide their weirdness to fit in, bullying was something that was considered as normal and kids were told to just take it, mental health was very taboo, Country leaned very right winged !! Even when Obama became president there was still a lot of prejudice and discrimination. A lot of right winged people & media were destroying his integrity. Basically If you wasn't white, then you experienced some cringe stuff growing up during this era. Gen Z folks are just exceptional and really doing the human race proud, the future looks very promising.

Chris MAC

This was really good. Iโ€™ve always seen Dakota on social media sharing their words. Iโ€™ve like come to appreciate them a lot more. Thank you Dekota for just being yourself and taking down those ignorant bitches all these years and years to come.

David Sanchez

Please bring Dakota back again! Iโ€™m learning so much about history and also love hearing your wild stories!

Eric Wong

Loved hearing Dakota talk, they need their own college class on gender & sexuality! C'mon, educating the children! ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿพ

Obviously there are homophobes here but in my mind that didn't register as a general problem just like a small town/ some villages problem. Its might be different for other people but I grew up where my dads best friend/ my godmother is a butch lesbian and she used to take me to do things all the time because her wife/ girlfriend didn't want to have kids (this wife/ gf is sooo messy to this day)

Zanele Booi

Its so wild hearing you guys talk about the bush era and how yall and to fight for marriage equality cause where Im from marriage equality came late (2005) but I as a 21 year old genuinely thought growing up that gay and lesbians marriage was allowed internationally then as I grew up I thought it would be allowed in all western and European countries and Ive been learning more and more. But like from birth till 16 I didn't even know gay marriage was a point of contention since I thought it had always been legal where I'm from. I even got taught sex ed about gay people in primary school. I didn't even know people thought aids was a "queer disease" because we were taught that anyone can get and have HIV so it was mind blowing when I started consuming queer media that wasn't rupauls drag race or random shows that had a queer couple.

Zanele Booi

I used to watch them on Kat Blaqueโ€™s Teas and Kikis. THEIR AMAZING!

I LOVE DAKOTA! And When God was Queer has been on non-stop since listening to this episode.

Courtney Fretwell

I loooveeee dakota. Umm I found the video of Honey LaBronxโ€ฆ shooketh!

Bee Luis

Holy shit, Dakota is SO smart and SO sexy! Epic lady boner here โค๏ธ

Kate

I want to be on the level of adult where my nails can be that long AND donโ€™t pop off. Love Dakota!!

18+ only https://youtu.be/xwHyVMS3ct0 Honey LaBronx infamous Fruit Salad Number. VIEWERS BEWARE

Dakota definitely was amazing. I loved this.

Lauren

I just loved this video, your energy together was captivating and hilarious, and Dakota is an absolute delight!! Would love to see them collaborate with you and Monet in the future!

where can we find dakota? theyโ€™re amazing.

aina

I adored this.

Katie

Dakota is awesome ! Canโ€™t wait to listen to their podcast !

Riles Foโ€™miles

I go back to the late 70s - early 80s with NYC's drag community, so this stroll down memory lane was SO precious to me!

what a joy to see this

sue

i have tickets i got them thru a link they posted on their ig

Erick Balboa

congratulation on such a good and refreshing episode, I think Dakota should be a guest again! Loved you both

This was an amazing episode.

i loved this!

This was incredible

yarpyarp

Enjoyed this way more than I thought I would

why do people who are spoiled insist on spoiling everyone else

Genosai

Holy Shit this was a good episode.

Adriana

Yes! We had Two-Spirit people before the colonizers arrived!

Adriana

Sending Monet love during all winners ;)

I loved this! I was so happy when Dakota started talking about how the idea of two genders was used as a tool to colonized indigenous spaces. As a native of an island in the Micronesia I greatly appreciate it.

Bald Step-Hennie

This was such an amazing episode wow

Living!!!! Binging Dakotaโ€™s podcast

โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ”ฅ

More Dakota content please!

This was a fire ass episode!! I loved listening to the stories and honestly it was a history lesson for sure! Very interesting to hear a queer perspective from someone who was raised in the North, specifically NY when I was personally raised in the South and have a totally different perspective! Loved it!

Bernard Green

I listened to a few of Dakotaโ€™s podcast yesterday and itโ€™s really interesting and his voice is awesome also, everyone go check it out itโ€™s called โ€œwhen god was queerโ€

Is Dakota taking new friend applications?

Stephen S

Hmm guy

Dakota was great! I really enjoyed listening to them talk. You two painted such a vivid picture of those earlier days of your drag careers. Also, I want to see that doc about Thorgy's roast. Can we watch it together as a Patreon exclusive?

Es Dub

this was such an interesting conversation, just here to say I'm 100% here for the Justin Timberlake slander

Wow. Dakota is amazing. They seem like an amazing person. Grateful to have experienced this conversaton!

Ben Elliot

Instant love for Dakota. This was a great conversation

NOT 9/11 the musical!! Bahahahaha

Jessica Hill

Where is Monet?!

I had just graduated college and moved to DC in 2008. We all went to watch Obamaโ€™s inauguration and to say it felt like true magic is an understatement. The complete shift was unreal and so energizing. (It was also cold af if anyone was there and remember! Ha!)

MaryM

Same. There were so many epic sounding YouTubes, documentaries, etc in this episode!

MaryM

Dakotas sign off ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

MaryM

Does anyone know where I can buy tix to Bobโ€™s tour date in Irvine, CA on Aug. 25?

Caleb Flenoury

Dakota is so cool wtf I love this

Palloae

Bob didnโ€™t actually do that number but yea

Palloae

i love dakota!!! bob and dakota are both queens for the people.

Amber Soto

thank you so much bob and dakota st clare, great, necessary content. it was a timely post for me! Loved it.

I disagree

Michael Oliva

This was fascinating, really cool to hear about y'alls experiences and opinions esp coming from a non-western country with a very different sociopolitical landscape. Really appreciated it ๐Ÿ’•

Stan R

This was so great !!!

Omg this conversation was FUCKING AWESOMEโ€ฆ.bring them back!!!!!

Prince Vince

Where is this roast documentary????

Kit Tusks

What is dakotas insta

This was really great. More like this please.

Casey Newsome

Loved this episode. I could listen to Dakota for hours.

Nicolas Leiva Herrera

I'm interested in performing in the nyc and philly area but I'm not sure where opportunities for gender non conforming people are...

Anthony St. John

Dakota's podcast sounds interesting, that's true that deities in ancient times were more androgynous

Anthony St. John

Omg thanks for introducing the siblings to Dakota, this was LOVELY

Sharon really reps the white midwest with the casual racism

Anthony St. John

Getting arrested during your show.... Werk

Anthony St. John

Yes it is? Thatโ€™s two decades ago wth

Dot

I love hearing yโ€™all talk about marriage equality and the before times, Lol. I remember when bush was elected and thinking that it was never going to happen in my lifetime, it reminds me that things have changed and still can.

This should be a tv show like pose but about the early drag scene

Jermaine Johnson

9/11 the musical? Like in Skins UK?

Em Val

and may i add im LIVING for the tea spillage in this episode!!!!

Could you imagine taking your mom to her first drag show and it's homie busting a whole ass apple out their ass?

Megan

Hi! I cannot find Dakota on instagram, is the username on the video correct?

This was amazing. Thank you for popping the corn AND feeding the children. ๐Ÿฟ

Squeaky_Fromage

"Oh it was a different time!" If it happened after the year 2000 that is not that different babe.........

Why monet look like that?!?!?

Donnelle Parker

And im only 18 minutes in

alec hathcock

THIS EPISODE SPILLS THE MF TEA

alec hathcock

This episode was the tops. I love how Dakota speaks, the topics they casually throw out there and how they explain these topics. There also funny AF ๐Ÿคฃ 100% finding their podcast

KSolstice

Wow, narrow escape there on who run the world ๐Ÿ’€This conversation was everything - thank you both!

This was Wonderful, thank you ๐Ÿ˜˜ We need more Dakota please ๐ŸŒบ๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŒบ

Dee Ramsey

What an awesome conversation, Dakota is so cool!

Eamonn

love the marriage equality talk

Erick Balboa

Great episode, Dakota is a class act! I love seeing bob reminisce about New York. I think it could be a nice touch if when you have different guests, to link their socials/podcasts in the description of your videos. GG friends โ˜€๏ธโ˜€๏ธโ˜€๏ธโ˜€๏ธ

I need more old school new york stories ASAP

Chris Sins

WHERES THE HEIDI GLOOM FOOTAGE?

aron rod

Loved this!

Elizabeth Mercer

Interesting Marsha P Johnson take

aron rod

finally my weekly dose of serotonin

GioB.

This is cool! I'm learning so much! I hope this becomes public at some point in the future ๐Ÿ™ˆ

Mazen

Bitch! not 911 the musical๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Hey Bob!!

Sharon Needles Tea at 37:00 lolol

โœ‹๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘„๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿคš๐Ÿป

IM YOUR BIGGEST FAN

Hugh G. Rection


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