An addition to my hedonistic August..
Added 2020-08-04 11:56:16 +0000 UTCIt appears that I have a wonderful weekend, or at least an overnight trip, in the works. I feel like my last everyday life play session, outside of my house, was a lifetime ago.
The quirky thing is.. I don't usually find people in everyday life with an interesting in hypnokink. Some may dabble or think we can jump right into stage hypnosis (make me a chicken! well, not a chicken, but that kind of thing..). Others, I feel, are so chronically sleep deprived that a session would result in a very boring night for me!
But.. I've gained consent on this trip to do a prolonged session, one basically woven throughout the time together. I'm quite curious about how it'll work out. I get amazing feedback from many of you and I plan to use it to my full advantage.
What does that have to do with Prince? The other party also asked me what he should wear.. and other than my standard love for simple linens and neutral, I also absolutely LOVE what Prince is wearing in this live recording of Darling Nikki. I have a fascination with a man in pearls. I have fascination with the way those trousers are fitting. And I have a sexual fixation on the way he was able to move those hips.
It is erotic eye-candy in all the perfect ways for inspiring today's writing and the upcoming play session. So.. while I wasn't old enough to appreciate this song/etc when it first came out, grown-up me can definitely appreciate it now. I have a feeling though it might be a challenge to hunt something like that down. Did anyone else know that he was only 1.6m and 112lbs? Mmmm... I usually find the 6'+ men.. now I'm lost in a daydream of what I'd do with one about my size. Probably share clothes. That sounds about right.
And .. if you want to hear the actual song go here BUT!! you can only do so if you swear to me that you'll do the left hand movement as well. It starts around 30 seconds in, consider it to be stretching.. or an homage to the Addams Family .. or... just fun.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GA_FqxZLSMk
Mistress Elswyth
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Got to visit paisley Park. They still do a vegan no alcohol no phones party on the weekends in his lounge. It was magical to hear his music on his equipment and be with people who were there. Simply wonderful.
Matty
2024-02-05 19:42:49 +0000 UTCMaybe start by probing for a general interest in power play, dominance and submission, etc., those things are becoming more mainstream. Then, you can go more specific if it sparks some interest. There are definitely challenges in coming out as a submissive man to a vanilla person. Misconceptions abound and it submission is often seen as falling out of the sphere of masculinity. Establish a connection as a person first, people will be more interested to explore with you (there are dominant women out there who don't know it yet) if submission comes as a part of a whole package they find interesting. And be specific about what you are interested in. "Submissive" might bring a lot of misconceptions, so you can try talk more specific - I like my partner to be in charge, I like to put my partner's pleasure above my own, I like to teased and denied, etc. Or look for people who're already kinky. Hypnokink seems to be a growing interest among the kinky crowd. Even if they aren't interested in themselves, they won't be shocked by it.
Cookie
2020-08-05 10:52:16 +0000 UTCI never find people in everyday life with an interest in hypnokink. :( I've never asked anyone, though. I'm too scared. How would you even bring it up? I don't know if it would be easier or harder being the submissive. It's so easy to imagine the avalanche of preconceptions from the listener. :(
privateObvious
2020-08-05 00:55:24 +0000 UTCSounds like an exciting weekend! No plans here as of yet... He may have been Prince, but he was the king of seduction. Pretty sure every woman wanted to be with him, every guy wanted to be him (and probably a higher than expected number of guys that wanted to be with him). That hand movement got me tingly all over.
Raven Heart
2020-08-04 12:53:30 +0000 UTCHow was your hand job? Good?
Spoken By Elswyth
2020-08-04 12:42:38 +0000 UTCThank you for sharing the video and your thoughts. Prince is definitely a model to follow when it comes to expanding the space of possible clothes for men. I'm not 6'+, but still probably not small enough to share clothes, though. :( That's great! I'm also going away this weekend... extending into next week. It won't involve hypnokink, but it will involve spending time with family and visiting a city where I've never been before. :D PS: I watched it just to do the hand thing. :P
Cookie
2020-08-04 12:37:12 +0000 UTC*best comment on the 2nd video is "Prince paid 18 years of child support to those speakers..."
Spoken By Elswyth
2020-08-04 12:06:11 +0000 UTC
