I underestimate myself..
Added 2022-09-12 12:22:27 +0000 UTCI got plenty of content to come..
And this ain't them all 🤭
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ur welcome I just thought the conversation was getting a bit heavy and it seemed pressuring 😘.Anyway onwards and upwards as I for one appreciate the effort and work ethic you put into doing these videos for us Patreon and YouTube fans.💯💕😘x
thecub14
2022-09-15 11:17:30 +0000 UTCThank you ☺️ Glad you enjoy my work. Appreciate the kind words
Jodie Marie
2022-09-15 09:57:58 +0000 UTCI thought I would jump in here. Looking at this post, it seems Ian is a pimp, as he seems to know the ins and outs of telling people what to do. I didn't realise this was a competition on Patreon. If you are content with what you are doing and happy without having to go that extra mile, good for you. If you do go that extra mile, good for you too. It's whatever is comfortable for that person. I mean ASMR—a feeling of well-being combined with a tingling sensation in the scalp and down the back of the neck, as experienced by some people in response to a specific gentle stimulus, often a particular sound. "ASMR is triggered by things like whispering voices, paper tearing, and scalp massage." It isn't to give guys an erection, as there is plenty of other stuff on the web for that. I love your work, Jodie, and if you're happy, I'm happy for you. xx
thecub14
2022-09-15 09:47:29 +0000 UTC‘Sex sells’, not ‘sales’, Ian.
Chris JC
2022-09-14 05:54:38 +0000 UTC‘Worn’ outfits not ‘warn’ unsuspecting males about your outfits, caution low cut top, undersized garment, loose puppies 🐶
Ian Houghton
2022-09-13 21:07:09 +0000 UTCWhat? But that's for roleplays? Honestly this mindset baffles me. I've warn low tops before. I've worn pvc too. I've warn a bo peep outfit too.
Jodie Marie
2022-09-13 17:24:12 +0000 UTCI’m not buying that, doubt she pops down tescos in a bra, baby doll outfit, corset or pvc cat suit. I’m not saying ALL women as I said frivvi doesn’t do that and Jodie to name a couple.
Ian Houghton
2022-09-13 17:18:30 +0000 UTC🤣🤣 Thanks
Jodie Marie
2022-09-13 08:48:40 +0000 UTCI think you are missing my point entirely, but leave it there. For the record I watch your channel as it’s funny and entertaining not because of how you look. Enjoy your swim in your micro bikini 🤣
Ian Houghton
2022-09-13 08:47:51 +0000 UTCI mean I think because you used Scottish Murmurs as example it doesn't work because I've met her and your argument doesn't work with me about her because she's spoken openly many times about her dress sense. But there are other examples you could have used and I can agree on people but I think because people see one person doing it for that reason they assume everyone is.. it's just not that way. It's not for me anyway half of my thumbnails I pick from the video. Rarely pose specifically. I've asked a few people what's better but not to attract Men specifically. Just for what looks better. Anyway I'm going swimming. For myself btw not for the Men at the pool 🤣 and I'll post pics because I want to..
Jodie Marie
2022-09-13 08:29:40 +0000 UTCBut you tube is opp to real life, creators produce images and content to specifically attract viewers, in real life women don’t present an image to please others it should be entirely for themselves.
Ian Houghton
2022-09-13 08:20:00 +0000 UTCAlso cutie beauty I get that most men are lonely. Hence why ASMR can help that. I've never said that Men aren't lonely. I completely understand that. I'm grateful for my male audience like if I help just a little through their day then it's better than nothing at all. Ive never been shy to talk about how suicides rates are higher in Males. That's why they tend to follow ASMR but then on the other hand I'm being told they only watch because we are sexy 😅. I know Men don't talk like Women do the support isn't the same for Men but maybe you could be the one to change that. Start a conversation to talk about things. It's talked about alot more now than it was. I just want to create, be myself and have fun if that attracts males great! But it's not solely for them it's anyone that needs it. It's also some fun and an outlet for me.. I would hate to think I have to stop my real little stupid outburst and restrict my personality online or change my clothing so I don't attract Men for the wrong reason. That would make no sense. I already restrict myself alot in what I say Believe it or not..
Jodie Marie
2022-09-13 07:30:17 +0000 UTCTbh though it's about time men/companies realised Women don't do things just to please Men 🤣 having a Cleavage, liking certain fashion isn't just for Men and its that way of thinking that is affecting it. Because we are surprised it's not an act. When I started youtube I didn't expect to get as many 'you are beautiful' comments as I did and inappropriate messages and comments that would never be said in real life. That's on the tamest of videos as well. Just because they find me attractive. I've never had alot of male attention in real life so why would I auto expect that online.. why would men just assume I had 😅.
Jodie Marie
2022-09-13 07:11:23 +0000 UTCThat’s my point having thumbnail pics full of cleavage is being deliberately done to attract more views and does add an element of sexualising the video, hence I originally said it doesn’t help the argument with yt that there isn’t at least a little sexual element. I’m not saying anything should be stopped but don’t be naive to who is watching and why and act surprised when yt get uncomfortable about things.
Ian Houghton
2022-09-13 07:00:48 +0000 UTCIan, Ian, Ian.. LOL its not just ASMR Artists that do that though but it's ASMR that gets sexualised. Of course men watch bikini videos but the video is put up for women to see men just watch. So women should stop posted in bikinis or stop getting paid for posting in bikinis because men like to watch?? HAHA huh?? And Scottish Murmurs of course she would have done that for herself. 🤣 your mad..
Jodie Marie
2022-09-13 05:48:12 +0000 UTCAnd I’m saying creators deliberately choose their thumbnail to attract male viewers which is fine and why not yt is a numbers game. But you can’t then complain if yt want to desexualise asmr if thumbnails are full of cleavage or inuendo language. Example look at scottishmurmurs one of first channels I watched, her cleavage has grown at least twice and features in every thumbnail. I hope she did those things and new teeth etc for herself and not as tax deductible expenses. I bet lingerie and bikini try on hauls have a massive biased towards men viewing them and they aren’t there for consumer feedback on the quality of the stitching. Why would a 50 yr old man want to watch a 23 yr old girl trying on micro bikinis in her bedroom.
Ian Houghton
2022-09-12 22:25:40 +0000 UTCAnd why is an increase in male views a problem? Most people's views are mainly men across most genres of youtube
Jodie Marie
2022-09-12 21:42:25 +0000 UTCBut the whole point of you tube is to attract more views so why not maximise the attention of a thumbnail, it’s the concept of click bait. Most asmr artists are female I bet majority of viewers are men. I’m not condoning it just saying it doesn’t help to dispel the myth there is a sexual element to asmr.
Ian Houghton
2022-09-12 21:23:28 +0000 UTCMissing my point not saying bikinis are sexual, what I’m saying is the assumption that a greater proportion of men will notice a pic if it contains a female in minimal clothing and YouTubers recognise this and use it to increase views.
Ian Houghton
2022-09-12 21:10:20 +0000 UTCBikinis aren't sexual. Youtube don't even care about bikinis online it's mouth sounds. The kissing and things. I actually love the sounds of kisses. It's not sexual for me but for some it might be but that doesn't mean it should be categorised as porn
Jodie Marie
2022-09-12 18:05:45 +0000 UTCThey do that style deliberately to attract men or more likely it works in terms of attracting men to view the post. I follow lots of vanlifers most of their thumbnails include the female in a bikini 👙. Sex sales nothing wrong with it but if you tube don’t like it then expect to get pulled for it. Many artists also have only fans channels, you tube good recruiting ground for thirsty men.
Ian Houghton
2022-09-12 17:59:12 +0000 UTCWell that's not Frivs style some girls just prefer that style. Lol what? Women can't help the size of their chest 🤣 unless obvious they pay for it but again they do that for themselves not for men
Jodie Marie
2022-09-12 17:49:40 +0000 UTCCome on they are using their body parts to attract viewers, agree doesn’t take much to trigger a man but look at frivvi, she does mouth sounds and kisses but doesn’t do the cleavage thumbnails. Maybe it’s a coincidence a lot of YouTube asmr artists have enhanced chests.
Ian Houghton
2022-09-12 17:37:44 +0000 UTCTbh Cleavage ay sexual though. Women shouldnt have to hide their body just because men find them sexual 😬. Literally anything can trigger blokes so it's becomes ridiculous difficult to stick to that tight rope line.
Jodie Marie
2022-09-12 17:21:55 +0000 UTCExpect it will all blow over excuse pun, they say these things then realise the impact. There is a weird line I think between asmr and sexual content, but it’s an intimate experience sound bound to get some crossover. Artists don’t help themselves trying to pack as much cleavage as they can in their thumbnails.
Ian Houghton
2022-09-12 17:15:43 +0000 UTCHi Ian I have quite of content still to put out. I was going to see how it goes as I won't be making mouth sounds videos for youtube. They will just go here. But you know what youtube is like once you find your audience it hard to do anything else
Jodie Marie
2022-09-12 16:43:32 +0000 UTCAre you back on it now after last weeks worries.
Ian Houghton
2022-09-12 16:41:05 +0000 UTCThank you 🤗
Jodie Marie
2022-09-12 14:54:46 +0000 UTCThank you 🤗
Jodie Marie
2022-09-12 14:54:27 +0000 UTCLove the pics, cute smile 😊
Peter Vreeman
2022-09-12 14:52:59 +0000 UTCLooking forward to it!😁
Eric
2022-09-12 13:11:31 +0000 UTCTar Brian ☺️
Jodie Marie
2022-09-12 12:27:13 +0000 UTCThank you ☺️
Jodie Marie
2022-09-12 12:27:06 +0000 UTC🤗
Jodie Marie
2022-09-12 12:26:59 +0000 UTCCongrats Jodie! 😁
Brian
2022-09-12 12:26:22 +0000 UTC😄 exciting 😊
Kevin Lowe
2022-09-12 12:24:57 +0000 UTCAwesome
Geo
2022-09-12 12:24:08 +0000 UTC
