Regarding commissions
Added 2021-09-11 11:13:58 +0000 UTCi'm not sure how to start this post because i know i will disappoint a lot of people, but from now on i decided that i will no longer be taking commissions.
there's a reason why i only open them twice a year, because i simply don't enjoy the process of doing them. i don't know if it's the perfectionist part of me, but i end up spending way too much time on them, that sometimes i even forget basic anatomy.
i've always been a people pleaser and it took me a long time to realize that this just isn't for me. i hate rejecting people, but you should always put your health first, and that's something i need to focus on more
however, i still will be taking B&W sketches and ko-fi headshots, because they don't take too much time and allow me to be more loose and messy. emergency commissions might also become a thing if i urgently need the cash. i will also finish the remaining ones, but if someone changes their mind because of this, it's completely understandable.
i know this is a very shitty and out of the blue decision, but i hope people will still respect it.
thank you for your comprehension.
Comments
I'm glad you can put yourself first, even if it upsets other people.
Dieced
2021-09-12 03:23:43 +0000 UTCThis is honestly very good news to hear! People-pleasing is a draining struggle to experience and setting healthy boundaries for yourself is not, in any way, a shitty thing to do. I feel relieved to know you are making this decision and look forward to what you create next! 🥳👍
Orion-Sunset
2021-09-11 14:13:14 +0000 UTCAaah dont worry at all! You do what you think is best for yourself 💪🎨And still rad that you are planning on offering at least a bit of your artistic skill thanks to them B&W sketches sometime in the future ^^
TheSkilllrex
2021-09-11 11:28:48 +0000 UTCthank you ;; it really pains me to make this decision but i hope people will understand...
Zinny (VHKAneweer)
2021-09-11 11:24:42 +0000 UTCThis is in no way a shitty decision! I'm very happy that you stand up for your own well being, and nobody wants you to be forcing yourself. This is a great, necessary step you had to take, and we support you! 💗✨💗✨
Rainy Aube
2021-09-11 11:16:57 +0000 UTC
