Need Time to Myself
Added 2025-05-18 17:12:17 +0000 UTCMay 22nd Update - Just want to say thank you very much for everyone's kind words. I appreciate all of you that took the time to express your condolences and share your stories, it helps. It hurts a little less each day, but we're getting through it.
I felt ok to do some updates for the mod list today, I'll continue to as I feel ok enough to (it's still hard because Sassy would always hang out with me while I worked).
→ Patreon Edition is re-locked to patrons only. I re-installed and re-configured it, hopefully that works. If you're still having issues, please message me. I'm honestly considering removing this plugin and set the Patreon Edition to be password protected instead (and share a new password in the pinned post for patrons each patch) because I'd love nothing more than to take this plugin out back and burn the damn thing.
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Unfortunately, yesterday we had to have our sweet cat Sassy put down, she was 15 years old. She adopted us when she was a kitten. I say SHE adopted us because she hung around our front door when she was just a kitten. Then one day when my husband opened the car door to go to the store, she jumped in with him! That was when we knew, she was ours. 💜🌹
So, I'm going to need time away to heal because this was one of the hardest/saddest things I've ever had to do. I just finished updating the list since there were a few mods that had important updates, so it's up-to-date (at this time anyways). However, I can't continue focusing on any of this at this time.
Patreon Connecting Issues
I've had a few reports from patrons not being able to access the Patreon Edition of the Mod List (I believe it was just affecting new patrons). The plugin is having a lot of technical issues right now that are not in my control. So, I temporarily disabled the plugin because I really don't want to deal with it right now.
I'll get it sorted when I return. Until then, the Patron Edition will TEMPORARILY be available to everyone. So, now's the time to try it out if you were ever curious about it. Enjoy the free trial!
I'll see you all soon, take care!
🌹Scarlet
Comments
Thank you, I'm sorry for your loss too it's a really hard adjustment. Sending virtual hugs right back to you! 💜
Scarlet
2025-05-30 15:31:24 +0000 UTCThank you, I'm sorry you had to go through it too! 💜
Scarlet
2025-05-30 15:29:06 +0000 UTCI'm so very sorry for your loss. There are really no words to express how much it hurts to lose your family like that. . My whole heart was broken when my dog Hershey passed. You take care of you first. No matter how long it takes. Grief is a journey, and it's different for everyone. Sending you virtual hugs.
BklynGrl72
2025-05-30 15:15:37 +0000 UTCSo sorry for your loss of your sweet kitty. I had to put my girl down at 17yrs old, I got her when she was 3 months. It gets easier <3
roxyblue
2025-05-22 21:46:51 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry you had to go through this too, Linda 💜
Scarlet
2025-05-22 19:05:43 +0000 UTCThank you Kimie, and no worries hearing others stories has been helping. I'm very sorry for your losses too 💜
Scarlet
2025-05-22 19:04:56 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry ♡
wigglebean
2025-05-21 13:05:26 +0000 UTCI feel for you. I still grieve for mine. I had to put my 18 and 20 yr down because of kidney failure. That was 10 or more years now I still miss them when I see a black cat or a cream colored tabby.
Linda Deuville
2025-05-20 11:13:18 +0000 UTCSo sorry for your loss. Take all the time you need.
Spazin1015
2025-05-20 02:30:07 +0000 UTCSo sorry to hear about your fur baby. I love cats so you and your fam have my deepest condolences.
Poka
2025-05-19 16:38:13 +0000 UTCSo sorry to hear about your loss. Wishing you comfort in this trying time.
Brianna Loyd
2025-05-19 15:50:41 +0000 UTCDe tout coeur avec toi. Pour avoir aussi un chat que j'adore je ne n'ose imaginer ce que tu traverses. ❤
Guenievre Reine
2025-05-19 13:08:03 +0000 UTCI'm so very sorry for your loss. Your sweet cat was lucky to have such a good mama to care for her for so long!
LeppLass
2025-05-19 03:06:07 +0000 UTCI, 1 million % know how and what you feel, you are valid, my prayers and heart go out to you and hubby, our Ahsoka adopted us in 2018 after a severe loss back to back of 2 babies and she helped us through, she found us hanging out at my old besties house and she stayed hanging around until we left late that night so we called my sister in law to bring the carrier over and she's been with us since, all 12 lbs of her. YOU TAKE ALL THE TIME YOU NEED AND WANT! I am hugging you right now cyberly of course. My furbabies are playing with yours over that rainbow bridge as we speak. Edit... I did not mean to make that comment about me, I said all that to say you have an entire community around you, who supports you with similar stories of loss who understand your pain, NEVER WORRY ABOUT your length of grief. TAKE YOUR TIME!
Kimie80
2025-05-18 21:22:03 +0000 UTCI have been there and my heart goes out to you. Sending you love.
barbazooka
2025-05-18 20:50:06 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry for your loss. 💜
Jennifer Richmond
2025-05-18 19:45:25 +0000 UTCIt's understandable. I love cat so much, it's heart breaking.
WICKED PIXXEL
2025-05-18 19:23:49 +0000 UTCMy condolences for your angel. I hope you can come out of this situation fully healed and reassured that she is in a better place now.
CM TheOfficial Ent
2025-05-18 19:21:37 +0000 UTCThe hardest thing we ever have to do for our Pets, yet it is the Kindest thing for them, They are our babies and touch our lives in ways nothing else can, I'm so sorry to hear about your little Sassy, hugs and Love xx
deborah robinson
2025-05-18 19:11:37 +0000 UTCOh, Scarlett, I'm so sorry. I had a kitten adopt my once, too. Losing our pets is the hardest part of loving them. Please take all the time you need.
Juliet
2025-05-18 19:00:36 +0000 UTCSo sorry for your loss Scarlet, Miracles and Blessings during this time.
LondonCali
2025-05-18 18:24:36 +0000 UTCI'm very sorry for your loss. I'm sure she had a wonderful life with you, and I like to believe she's still being her sweet self in heaven.
FrequentlyBasic
2025-05-18 18:17:05 +0000 UTCI remember you had to do the same for your dog, I'm so sorry! 🌹 Thank you meg, ily 💜
Scarlet
2025-05-18 17:51:17 +0000 UTCThank you, and I'm sorry you had to go through that too, Cheryl. 💜
Scarlet
2025-05-18 17:48:16 +0000 UTCI’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve been in the same position and it’s not an easy decision and definitely takes an emotional toll. Take good care of yourself and take whatever time you need. Your kitty sounds like they were awesome and you gave them a great life
Cheryl Drake
2025-05-18 17:28:26 +0000 UTCI know that pain you're feeling all to well, thinking of you and your family ily <33 please take all the time you need!
Meg
2025-05-18 17:24:47 +0000 UTCSorry to hear of loss. She was your baby, as dear to you as any human. Take the time to mourn and to remember her with tears AND smiles.
Vettac
2025-05-18 17:23:00 +0000 UTCI’m So Sorry For Your Loss. Sassy Sounded Like Such A Special Soul, And The Way She Chose Your Family Is So Beautiful. It’s Clear She Was Deeply Loved And Gave That Love Right Back Every Day. Sending You Comfort And Healing As You Take This Time To Grieve — Losing A Pet Is Losing Family.
Daniah Cunningham
2025-05-18 17:14:41 +0000 UTCI am so so sorry for the loss of your sweet kitty. Take all the time you need to heal, and we’ll be here when you’re ready to come back 🫶🏻
Stephanie
2025-05-18 17:14:13 +0000 UTC
