I’m so lucky to have my best friend Joie in my life. We vibrate on the same frequency. When we talk we ping-pong back and forth with verbal precision, noises and affirmations and secret short-han...
2021-07-31 21:37:21 +0000 UTC View Post
I am so excited to share that the slumber party invite has been sent out. (If you’re a sapphic babe who wants to join us please send me a message!)
Once again we’re offering Inst...
2021-07-30 20:24:23 +0000 UTC View Post
I have two COUNT THEM TWO small social events this weekend.
One is music related, and the other is coven and kink related.
I’m eager to make joyful noises with friends. I want to sw...
2021-07-29 04:09:23 +0000 UTC View Post
I was married to a man who liked bare walls. Simple. Not any more. I’ve been framing all my favourite pieces. Things people have made me, photos I’ve taken, gay art I’ve collected over the ye...
2021-07-24 20:53:38 +0000 UTC View Post
So what do I do with all of my old circus-school uniforms?
They’re too casual for a sex party. Unless it’s a casual sex party? I don’t really know what that is. But we should have one...
2021-07-23 03:37:15 +0000 UTC View Post
Here are some fun hot vax summer shots I took on Joie’s balcony, along with a little bit of good news.
Friends and Patrons; I am pleased to announce that in less than 2 weeks we will be ha...
2021-07-20 17:20:58 +0000 UTC View Post
1. It’s moving weekend for Max! We’re in the sticks at her old place packing up (the dog came with us for one last big backyard bonanza). Then the moving trucks come and we unpack in the new pl...
2021-07-17 04:20:58 +0000 UTC View Post
*barring world demise
(And yes. You read that right. An entire WEEKEND!!! 🙌)
2021-07-14 13:42:10 +0000 UTC View Post
Some playful shots of Ms.O and I switching up who’s in charge.
June 2017 - Sapphic Slumber Party #1
2021-07-13 13:58:13 +0000 UTC View Post
You ever know your heart is gonna be crushed but you go ahead anyway? What kind of foolishness causes that dopey decision to let it seep in and seem like a good idea?
I want it. Even though ...
2021-07-13 03:11:28 +0000 UTC View Post
Last night was our first night in Max’s new place. We brought an air mattress and she bought a nice bottle of champagne and we celebrated new beginnings.
2021-07-11 03:59:45 +0000 UTC
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I love this voyeuristic shot of O, Kitten, and I at the very first Sapphic Slumber Party. I love her happy face when she’s getting what she wants. (I’m gonna see my kitty girl today for the fir...
2021-07-09 04:39:00 +0000 UTC View Post
I’ve spent the entire day building new dressers and rearranging my room. And then I spent 5 hours going through my clothes and lingerie. I found some gems! Including these very fancy panties, and...
2021-07-08 04:06:20 +0000 UTC View Post
I’m alone this weekend. How rare. The kids are with their dad and Max is working. Time to think.
I keep just carrying around this book I’m “reading”. But I’m not reading it. It’s...
2021-07-04 17:48:04 +0000 UTC View PostI wrote this almost a decade ago. Although I’m no longer married to the person I was with when I tried to articulate how ethical non-monogamy felt to me, I still stand by this explanation...
2021-07-02 22:13:18 +0000 UTC View Post
I call it my greenhouse because I meditate and smoke weed out there. There are two overstuffed comfy armchairs, some copper twinkle-lights, and a giant antique ashtray. The roof is see-through and ...
2021-07-01 23:12:25 +0000 UTC View Post
(Content warning: this post includes a graphic description of me taking prescription drugs with the hopes of becoming incapacitated so that my girlfriend and I could play out a consensual non-c...
2021-06-29 04:05:32 +0000 UTC View Post
Late last night I was drowsy in her arms, cuddled up on the couch. The lights were off, late summer sunset filtering in the dusky room with three candles lit.
She slowly pulled on the bow ho...
2021-06-26 01:44:10 +0000 UTC View Post
We are a signature away from dissolving what’s left. Just a stroke of the pen, a few letters and a flourish. It’s been an intense few days.
Photo: Me and the almost-former Mister Hea...
2021-06-25 04:11:20 +0000 UTC View Post
Today was HECTIC! Just fucking hard work, sweat and tears, bitter righteousness and laborious tasks. But I did it. Myself. And at the end of it all I stepped outside to put the garbage to the curb ...
2021-06-22 03:01:52 +0000 UTC View Post
Putting this one out there
Like a prayer on the wind
That these days will return
We’ll be blissful again.
Ms. O, Kitten and Heart
If you’ve been around for a while you know this is an annual tradition, and peony season is special to me.
(Content warning: In spite of this wholesome photo of my girlfriend curled up asleep on my lap, this post contains elements of consensual non-consent, and some intense discussion of assault and...
2021-06-17 04:57:44 +0000 UTC View Post
“I want your desperate kisses.
I want your needy hands that squeeze too hard until I yelp.
I want your teeth marks and your sweat on my skin, I’m your territ...
2021-06-16 00:11:33 +0000 UTC View Post
There is so much grief right now. Grieving my marriage, lifestyle, the future I planned, my vision for our family, grieving the end of what I thought was life-long work. I pictured us getting it ri...
2021-06-14 23:20:18 +0000 UTC View Post
“In the crooks of your body
I find my religion.”
-Sappho
Ms. O, Kitten and Heart
2017 - Sapphic Slumber ...
2021-06-10 13:57:13 +0000 UTC View Post
It’s funny to us now that she “isn’t kinky” because what we do is nowhere close to vanilla. Sometimes we’re in the middle of planning out some weird kinky sex and I raise an eyeb...
2021-06-09 18:22:45 +0000 UTC View Post
Happy BDSM, happy porn, happy queer sex, all of these things need to be more common in our cultural spheres. Sex is joyful. Kink is joyful. I miss seeing images that reflect that.
Tumblr fil...
2021-06-09 03:54:43 +0000 UTC View Post
