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Title suggestion

Could you suggest a title for the video on how to respond compassionately to abuse disclosure?

Also, if you wrote comments on the video itself, and you're willing to post them on the version ...

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Private video poll

I just posted a link to a video about my experience with secondary victimization and some of the ways we can do better to prevent trauma like it in the future. This is a poll to help with next step...

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Private video

hi. As you may know the last few months have been a new kind of challenging for me. An old abuse case that I had resolved for myself as a victim has new victims which means I'm often recounting the...

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Today's video and a favor

Hi All, 

As you know the last few months have been tricky. I'm working on it and trying to make sure sex education stays a priority. I recently got to talk with my dad on camera and it w...

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Today

Today I'm feeling more vulnerable on Patreon than ever before. There has been an influx of patrons who believe that by supporting me here they will unlock nude photos and videos or at least feel ju...

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Book questions

How do you feel about me reformatting the Sexplanations' episodes into a book? 

Do I need to write all new sex education so it's original?

Would you like a book-version of the vide...

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Link to full photo shoot

Here's the link to the google drive of photos: https://drive.google.com/driv...

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pura vida

This week I signed a contract to work with Crave. They make the vibrating necklaces I wear which are super quiet and well-built. Anyway, as part of the set-up, I needed to send them photos of me wi...

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Please vote for as many options as you'd like for my life:


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updates -- happy sads

Hi All, 

Let’s have a board meeting. I’m writing from my couch in my new house four blocks from the sea on the east coast of the Baja Peninsula in Mexico. As you may know I came here...

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Thank you for making this video possible

I've wanted to make this episode for a long time and I feel so grateful that I finally got to. Especially now with so many people sheltering in place and needing contraceptive resources. Thank you ...

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Someone asked me if I was going to address what's bad about vibrators

so...

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Your answers, friends

I didn't answer all the questions you asked but here's some of them. 

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Extra $, tax update from Patreon

Hi everyone,

I wanted to give you an update on some changes that we’ll be seeing which may affect some of your pledges. Due to new laws passing in several countries and US states, Patreon w...

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New video about my tattoo

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Rough Cut Preview

I'm a little stuck on what to do with this episode. I don't love the thumbnail or the choppiness of the cuts at the beginning and the end. I'm not sure if it needs music in the background, or if it...

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Sex Toy Unboxing video

Hola from Baja, 

I hope this video brings you joy. I had fun making it and watching it. She’s a silly sexologist ;o)

Quick updates: 

  1. Thank you to those of you wh...

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a little joy for your lockdown

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Thank you for making this possible

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Let's Talk

You’ve been on my mind everyday for the last month but it has felt like I didn’t know how to move the words from my throat to my mouth, or in this case my keyboard. Now is the time. I’m ready...

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Draft Preview

As you may know I rarely have the same guest twice. This is because there are so many voices out there; I want to make room for more people to share their stories. That being said, I've worked with...

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Dear Decision Makers

If you're able to see this post it is because you pledge at an amount which gives you access to voting and decision making. Thank you. I'm writing to check-in and pose some questions. 

F...

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New video

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Meet Midori (preview)

This is a preview of my interview with Midori (author, artist, educator, expert). It has been edited from so the footage is only 20 minutes compared to hours BUT I’m uncertain whether or not to c...

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I felt like playing

This week a TikTok video made by another sex educator on how to put on condoms was flagged by TikTok and I think removed. She didn't say anything about sex, just how to put a condom on properly. Su...

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Sweatshirt Question

We designed this really pretty sweatshirt from the RV wrap graphics and we'll be advertising it for pre-sale on DFTBA.com this week but before everything is finalized and goes to print I wanted to...

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New video on sex and masturbation

What's the difference between them? Is one better than the other? Am I a monster?

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Packages

Over the last week I have mailed out close to 100 packages. Half of them went to people who donated $200 to the Road Tour during the livestream and another chunk went out to you yesterday. I took t...

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Sex tip from my dream

The other night I had a dream that I was running down a hall in a big convention center to my wedding. But I wasn’t sure about getting married so I stopped to ask these girls who displayed Baliwo...

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Live stream in 3 hours

I'm borrowing a computer and the brain of my editor to operate a live stream that works. It is all set up and scheduled to connect us at 5:45 Pacific. 

Here's the agenda:

Say hi. T...

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