Let's talk about sex (work)
Added 2021-07-14 13:44:34 +0000 UTCI will be honest, as always.
I am highly triggered.
Another man has come into my life, taken up my time, my bed, my body, needed healing for a recent breakup, made me feel the anticipation of relationship being a possible result of our time together only to realise that I have been played again basically as a free prostitute.
The word in the dictionary when I wondered to myself what free prostitute means, is slut, as it turns out. Ah, interesting. So men see me as a slut. Good to know.
Well, in these unsettling times where money is few and far between, the heatwave makes it near to impossible to have a brain to work in the heat and men knocking me off my emotional centre, I have decided to call a spade a spade and in future, inquire into the needs of any man approaching me, as I would any life coaching client.
If they are looking for a girlfriend then I can explain that there will be no sex for about 3 months while we date and get to know each other (something almost no man these days can tolerate)
Then if they are not interested in that, what if I were to inform them I offer sexual healing for those that are looking for sex, love, companionship, someone to talk about their problems and with no anticipation of our connection unfolding into relationship. And it comes at a price. The money exchange keeps it transactional.
If the money puts them off because they want a free sex worker, then I know they are seeing me as a slut, so I preserve my emotional and psychological energy of not engaging with them. What if putting a price on sexual healing would make it possible for me to help men heal their broken hearts, doing something I enjoy, whilst getting paid?
Isn't it interesting that we live in a world where this conversation is taboo and yet governments are getting away with murder?
Thoughts on a postcard.
And obviously I am only talking about engaging with men where there is mutual attraction.
