Boyfriend holds you | Comfort for bad news (M4A)
Added 2023-04-30 20:11:11 +0000 UTCHappy #SoftSunday! ❤️ Apologies for the overly-raspy vocals today -- my allergies are acting up, but I didn't want to delay this episode any more.
POV: You finally got that phone call... and the news is not good. Your boyfriend holds you and soothes you while you cry and process your feelings.
This is a work of fiction for entertainment purposes only. All characters represented are 18+ years of age.
Comments
Just wanted to say thank you. I needed this a lot right now. 💜
Kenzo
2025-07-06 06:43:09 +0000 UTCAww good to hear, AroDemiDive 💖
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2025-06-02 13:36:21 +0000 UTCThank you for this, DDA! I was finally able to let go of stress I was feeling, and this was perfect for when the tears came. You're a treasure! Everyone listening to this audio, I hope you are taking care of yourself. I'm rooting for you!
AroDemiDive
2025-06-01 19:30:12 +0000 UTCoh... i'd been saving this one. this evening was rough. i'm an emotional person and hadn't been able to feel/experience much for several months (numb from stress). a lot of things finally got released and this helped me come down as i tried to get ready for sleep. thank you 🖤
Maria
2025-03-11 04:33:57 +0000 UTCJust what I needed today!!
Ruby
2024-10-15 04:16:37 +0000 UTCThis audio hit me like a ton of bricks. 😭 I think deep down, I needed to hear this. I have a horrible habit of just shutting down and disassociating when terrible things happened. I don’t know why I take it upon myself to keep it together while everyone else allows themselves to grieve or process what happened.
Pandora Mauve
2024-05-22 16:16:10 +0000 UTCGot it. My first ep ever!
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2024-05-18 11:50:13 +0000 UTCThank you for adding the labels so quickly! I only found one other audio that could also be categorized as [SFW], not sure if you'll think the same though. It's your Mar 5, 2023 audio titled "Cuddly boyfriend helps you fall asleep | ASMR | (deep voice, gentle, calming, breathing)."
PurityofThought
2024-05-16 01:24:36 +0000 UTCGood catch! Just added the SFW tag to this and one other. Let me know if you see any more and I'll add 'em. This kind of feedback is super helpful, so thank you ❤️
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2024-05-15 06:57:19 +0000 UTCThank you so much, PoT 🤍🙏
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2024-05-15 06:55:32 +0000 UTCHey DDA! Whenever you have the time, do you think you could group all of your SFW comfort audios by tagging them [SFW] or something along those lines? Initially I thought searching [Comfort] would only result in the SFW audios but there's a mix of SFW and NSFW audios that populate in the search results. It just would make it easier to binge the SFW comfort audios, which would be really nice to be able to do. Again, just a small request whenever you find yourself with some free time.
PurityofThought
2024-05-15 02:06:02 +0000 UTCI absolutely adore this audio. Not sure how I even missed it, but maybe I'm discovering it when I need to hear it most. Mother's Day is always a bit rough for me, which is SO weird because no other holiday gets me in my feels in this way. Favorite quotes from this audio: ✨️ "Sometimes I think for me it's helpful to just give myself room to be down about it and sad in a really big way." ✨️ "You don't have to explain even to yourself why this is bad for you or what makes this moment so tough. It can be kinda bigger than that." ✨️ "Sorry is this helpful? Is it helpful for me to kinda talk like that and try to be a little optimistic? Because if it's not I don't want to, you know we can just be sad together right now if that's better." It's almost a gut reaction to be hopeful and forward-looking when someone is down, but that's not always what is needed...or wanted. The fact that you included checking in with the listener to see if your optimism was helpful was the crown jewel of this entire audio for me. Not everyone wants to "put on a happy face" or be told that "time heals all wounds." Sometimes a person might need to sit with the heaviness of that sadness in order to navigate through it. Or sometimes you might not know the full scope of that person's pain and/or trauma so the optimism, although well-intentioned, could do more harm than good. I know this is a pretty long comment for an older audio, but I really appreciate that you have this type of content. Though incredibly small, I'm blessed to have a friend group I can turn to when things are feeling bleak, but it's not lost on me that for some people your comforting audios might be all they have. You know the fact that I only discovered you about a couple of months ago sometimes makes me irrationally angry at my past self! TL;DR: Thank you DDA 🤎
PurityofThought
2024-05-11 22:51:28 +0000 UTCThat was so sweet. Saving this one because it's just what I need on many days. Thank you DDA
MeridianSkye
2024-03-26 08:21:21 +0000 UTCNot having someone there for you sucks..this helps. Thank you
Rachel
2024-02-13 04:41:04 +0000 UTCThe guy I was interested in doesn't like switches. I'm bummed, and confused because it seemed like we were getting along well. Oh well there's more fish I guess. I know you had some allergy problems in this one. Honesty I actually think it makes the audio better. Thanks for making this audio.❤️
Sugar and Spice
2023-10-13 11:37:23 +0000 UTCI've never had a partner this comforting....I'm actually kind of speechless at how personal this feels. I'm glad I listened to it today.
Sugar and Spice
2023-09-18 17:56:13 +0000 UTCSo glad it was helpful ❤️
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2023-09-06 18:58:26 +0000 UTCi got a bad news today and this audio helped me feel a lot better. it’s so sweet and felt like a warm hug if that makes sense. thank you🩷
pinkromi
2023-09-06 16:20:34 +0000 UTCHonestly situations like this, and having to face them head on while single is definitely a reason I consider finding a healthy relationship. There’s just a certain comfort that friends and family can’t provide in rough times. Those times are when a supportive partner is important, other reasons too, but helping each other through the hard stuff makes your relationship stronger.
KC
2023-09-01 06:59:52 +0000 UTCThis was so amazing. It made me cry so much harder at first bc I wanted to FEEL being held but it helped me get past the crying phase much quicker. I loved that you tried to do the man thing and fix it but you also were willing to get down in the dark hole I was in with me. The only thing better would be if I had been able to have an actual bf hold me
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2023-08-17 17:54:14 +0000 UTCBeautiful work, thank you
Jenima
2023-08-04 02:12:52 +0000 UTCSo glad you like it ❤️
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2023-06-01 12:51:18 +0000 UTCsoft Sunday is the sweetest thing 🥹
Emma
2023-05-31 22:42:21 +0000 UTCSorry to hear. I'm wishing you well 🖤
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2023-05-20 00:42:35 +0000 UTCGot a "bad news call" this week and I am expecting a second one. This really helps. Thank you.
E-Grill
2023-05-20 00:18:16 +0000 UTCOh wow, that sounds intense. Hope it's fun and not too heavy ❤️
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2023-05-05 21:17:17 +0000 UTCI’ve been playing a really sad game this week, Spiritfarer, where I have to help characters pass on. I’ve cried like 3 times over it. This helps.
Tiffany Lewis
2023-05-05 13:06:34 +0000 UTCDefinitely!
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2023-05-01 13:10:09 +0000 UTCok at this point I feel you're not even a real person and just a fantasy I've made up in my mind.
Laeay
2023-05-01 12:21:50 +0000 UTCI really need to quit you 😭
Val
2023-05-01 10:30:40 +0000 UTCMust file this away for a no good, very bad day. It's so lovely and sweet.
Joy Binkley
2023-05-01 07:24:36 +0000 UTCI loved this ❤️ can you do a reverse comfort one? Where we hold you and play with your hair and make you feel safe? Thank you 😊
Angel
2023-05-01 03:54:38 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry 🖤
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2023-04-30 21:22:32 +0000 UTCWhat a perfect audio for a gloomy, rainy Sunday. I have allergies too so I know how you feel. Raspy or not, your voice is always wonderful. This audio is so soothing and comforting. “I’m talking too much” - NOT POSSIBLE! 😏🥰
Pam 701
2023-04-30 21:16:17 +0000 UTCGood luck with the finals!
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2023-04-30 20:42:40 +0000 UTCThank you ❤️
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2023-04-30 20:42:28 +0000 UTCIf this is about losing someone I can relate. I just buried my brother last month ( died in a car accident). It doesn’t seem real.
fangirl001
2023-04-30 20:42:25 +0000 UTCoof just as I’m about to stay up late to study for finals… this was the perfect way to spend my break and exactly what I needed to hear😌💛✨
eleni
2023-04-30 20:39:16 +0000 UTCAllergies suck, just don't push yourself too much! We can wait. Although the rasp isn't a bad thing listening wise. Great job on the audio💜
BlackViolet
2023-04-30 20:39:13 +0000 UTC
