The Real Issue
Added 2021-01-28 05:29:20 +0000 UTCYes. No. Maybe so.
That isn’t really the issue is it??
When a man raises his FISTS against anyone - whether it be another man, woman, or child...He has already lost control!!
Violence doesn’t solve anything.
It is a vicious cycle that keeps going around and around and around in circles!!
Don’t confuse the issue!!
What I am wearing or NOT wearing isn’t the issue. What I am drinking or not drinking isn’t the issue. What I may say or do is NOT the issue.
Don’t look at WHAT I am doing!! Look at what THAT MAN is doing...
Look at the BRUISE on my eye!! The broken vessels!! The BLOOD RED blossoming in my eye socket....
THIS can be your mother...your sister...your daughters....your neighbors and coworkers.
This could be ANYONE female!!!
Comments
I teach martial arts in my classes since I earn my first degree (Shodan) black belt seven years ago (I practice martial arts since 1984). Since both my hands and feet are lethal weapons, it'll put me in jail if I ever use it. I tell all my new students if I ever learn (or catch) them using their martial arts to bully or violence anybody, (only to defense themselves), they'll have to give me their belt and leave my classes permanent. I teach free self defense to all raped and violence victims for years. I've two rules regarding using my lethal weapons. First rule, always walk away from trouble or whatever. Second rule, always use it for self-defense if deadly threaten, period. I taught my students if they get angry, keep their hands to themselves. I'm also professional actor, and years ago, when I learn acting, I've learned there are two primal human needs: Power and Love. What he did to you (beat you up), and see how the Turkey Justice system works, that prick has his satisfaction. He has power. He know how to get away with. AND won't hesitate to find another victims to violence, even rape. When I taught one raped victim how to defense herself long time ago. I taught her first punch my face with fist, second grab my groin and twist it. I let her try on me but she couldn't grab my groin. She kept grabbing my penis. I instructed her to grab testicles behind my penis or just grab the whole thing. No matter how she try, she couldn't do it. So I whisper her ear, "Don't let the prick has his satisfaction". And right away, she kicked my groin. And as I grab my groin in pain as I fell to my knee, she kick my face. I was hurt as she did her victory dance. Later, she visited me alone to apologized me for hurting me. I told her she did fine and "no problem". That what wearing black belt is for. She smiled. She told me in details how she was raped and also violence by her alcoholic husband (divorced). I couldn't believed as I absorbed her detail story. Just for my recommendation to you, don't give that prick his satisfaction. Again, I'm shocked and sorry you've go thru violence ordeal but am glad you're not raped. Will pray for you with lots of loves and hugs for you.
Brian
2021-01-29 18:31:53 +0000 UTCHugsss I didn’t get raped just beaten up. Thank God! I channeled his rage to beat me up in physical violence instead is a rape. Usually I would fight back more, but I think I was having him just act out his anger and rage so he would be depleted. I will write more later!!
GYPSYCHRISTINE
2021-01-29 07:26:55 +0000 UTCI'm so shock about when I read your posts and what happen to you. I've lot more to say in later post(s). But the point is it's not your fault, you didn't ask for. And when a man hit you, he's not a man, just a coward. And you need to make sure your pregnant test is not positive. I've lot more to say in later post(s), talk you later. I've reread all your posts to make sure I understand and didn't miss anything. And I've walked on the Lake Michigan beach alone, thinking about what happen to you. I'll talk to you later, mostly tomorrow. I'm very sorry and very shock of what happen to you.
Brian
2021-01-28 21:03:16 +0000 UTCI guess so!! But it’s okay, many people get disturbed and don’t want to face the reality that violence against women and children are so so prevalent!! On a daily basis too. I am lucky that this was a one time incident where this man snapped when he got drunk. He is usually a very kind gentle man, but some people just snap and their deep hurt and rage come out. Or many possibilities.
GYPSYCHRISTINE
2021-01-28 14:00:02 +0000 UTCAll living things should be treated with respect. No man or woman is supreme that they can act like a supreme being. In my experience, a man who hits women is in fact a coward. One question...you raised an issue that the other comments seem to avoid - are they so easily distracted?
John Gwin
2021-01-28 13:29:09 +0000 UTCHope your eye is ok...
Hk471
2021-01-28 13:26:38 +0000 UTCOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHH so sexy lady
Bjarne Nielsen
2021-01-28 10:47:02 +0000 UTC
