So many guys are afraid of coming across as creepy. They don't want to approach us, either online or in real life, because of it, and they worry they'll never attract a woman because of their shyness or average looks.
So for this episode, I recruited five female erotic audio performers and one writer to address these concerns, in their own words. (I know I say I'm joined by five ladies, but one of them was a late addition and I didn't have the chance to edit that particular part.)
I asked them to answer the following:
How do you feel about shyness in a man? If someone is a little socially awkward around you, does that affect your impression of him?
How important are the typical manly-man looks to you - does a guy need to have a six pack and a chiseled jaw to be attractive? What are some non-typical looks that you personally like?
How do you feel about this statement: "I don’t have anything going for me, being a ’nice guy’ is all I can offer a woman".
What makes a guy ’creepy’
Any words of advice for a shy guy about how you’d like to be approached, or what turns you on or off about a guy?
Throughout the audio you'll hear:
BadHorsie1970
Belle_in_the_Woods
FranticTumble
NickelSilver (I read her comments for her)
Sweetashoneyy
SweetCarolineKisses
along with my own insights in between the segments.
And because this is a long audio, I thought you might want to skip right to certain questions, so here are the time stamps for each of the questions:
4:40 - what do you think of shyness?
9:50 - How important are looks
22:34 - "Nice guy"
24:54 - what is creepy
43:19 - turn-ons
47:36 - advice
Huge thanks to the amazing ladies who took the time to think about these questions and give their honest opinions.
Thomas_james
2025-07-08 17:12:36 +0000 UTC