Queening
Added 2024-09-26 03:38:57 +0000 UTCI was told via the discord that another term for facesitting is 'queening' which is so fierce... I can't decide how much portia puts her pleasure first, I think she would a few times before realizing edwin gets off on her getting off, so then she's not worried so much about him finishing and leaving her high and dry. I think they'd just compliment each other perfectly, opposites attract etc.
Edwin has no prior experience, and is pretty practical aka 'portia = hot, portia = does all the work, why else want more?' I think he's surprised he's gotten this far more than anything. Portia has more experience, but I def think for how much 'experience' it's assumed she has, she rarely let partners sleep with her, and typically just pleasure dommed them, I think only a fraction ever actually got to fuck her, just cause she enjoys getting pleasure from people, and HATES being disappointed... she also gets the ick and has very high standards aka another dom tactic which she enjoys. She's had a variety of partners, and typically she wants to top or at least be taking the lead, I think edwin's one of the few she's allowed take the lead and he's gets too shy. Shy top edwin, bratty bottom edwin. Likes to be degraded a lil but only if there's praise in there too. I think Portia maybe can't relax whens she's not in control, struggles to let go and feel safe letting someone else take charge.
Eventually they work through that together, aka edwin's sobbing post nut clarity diminishes because he's not bottling up his feelings as much because portia listens, and validates said feelings in the most 'well obvi you're upset! that was upsetting!' feels seen, and Portia slowly allows him to take care of her, letting go and not overthinking/running away so she won't be hurt. He def shows his love via acts of service, which she loves, and she shows her via praise, which he eats up. the reverse in the bedroom, he wants to be serviced and she wants to be praised and it's all great
