Life of a Dominant Futanari Week 8 Chapter 348/ 34: An Old Bet
Added 2025-02-28 11:06:20 +0000 UTCHey Guys,
This is my first chapter on my new laptop. It is a bit different from what I am used to, so it slowed me down a bit. That should go away with time, though. I love the new screen size; it makes my life much easier. Anyway, I made a nice 5k plus chapter, and I hope you enjoy it.
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1zU6wC7y9edyK6MLIohzFmOZXVqeF1lMYt-a3g9vO0EI/edit?usp=sharing
Comments
I can feel my blood pumping! Good chapter
Shamim
2025-03-22 20:23:29 +0000 UTCWow that is interesting how different it is to here. Maybe Americans like to put people more into boxes and lables then in Europa. The term femboy is not strong here its more Crossdresser: Men that like to wear womans clothes and of course stronger variants behaving like one wearing make up etc, Sissys is often here broader from end points crossdesseres to max taking hormones and beyond is often trans. But i always say call yourself what you want the person need to happy with it and not others, dont like when people try so force a lable on someone. Believe you some have harder lines on their hobbys and lifestyle then others. Still funny that sissy is more or a lifestyle descision and where you are it has more sex injectet. Hope one day kaylar gets some hormones to put her further on the path!
SirCoffee
2025-03-01 17:15:40 +0000 UTCWell here in North America it is more of a different name for most Sissies. The ones that are not subs tend to refer to themselves in a separate identity. Like Fembois are in many respects the exact same thing as Sissies. But god forbid if you tell a Femboi or Queers who hate sissies because people mistake them for one or hate them for the recent over fertilization of the community that comes with it. Many take offense to being called a Sissy. Honestly, Sissies are more like Men who overly idealize the feminine form to the point of it being a major fetish. Now it is obviously more complicated than that, all kinks are. But in North America, it is more like all crossdressers fall into multiple categories, which each want their own identity. Those identities help with figuring out what part of their culture they are in, but it also makes it easy to step on toes. So, Sissies here tend to be major subs. It really is stupidly complicated and I frankly could have a five hour conversation about it and still not reach a fucking end point. The basics are here is that Sissy Culture is not trans culture or Femboi culture. Sissy is more like a branch of crossdresser culture, with a darker side leading towards transitioning. Trans culture is a bit different and I have met maybe 2 in my life that would consider themselves a Sissy, both were force feminized by their masters (happily). Still, it is such a complicated conversation where there are many parallels and differences because of Euro culture being much more open about sexual education and liberty, unlike here in North America, where it is frowned and looked down upon.
Madjic
2025-03-01 14:39:13 +0000 UTCOur club did that to with better screening. We had a pretty open policy but after a lot of problems and drama it changed. A lot of young people came and like you sad sadly Dom Woman that took advantage of their BF. Im a bull and my girl is a cuckquean and we met a pair and we thought ok around 20 and maybe they want so expirience something in a new space. And we talk seperate with them and everything seemed good but as soon it got to the serious part the guy startet to cry and not normal cry he was wailing. I stopped took him and my girl to another room and talked and she pressured and more to come here to get cucked. I was feeling so bad that i couldnt see it but yeah what people do for their partner even when she was toxic. Fetish circles are riddled with traumas. First time contact with a Sissy (south germany, back then even more conservativ) sweet little thing had a giant daddy kink because her father didnt like him because he looks so feminine and he was gay. And me and my girl took her in (bdsm not house hehe) and she got so attached to me and we helped her with therapy and then a place to live away from the father and now she lives a good life. Kayler reminds me of her but i was first a little tacken back how the sissy culture is different here then in your area. Here there are different one some are doms, subs, some are middle of sissy and trans in your area it seems very sub driven, found it very interesting how other areas see different kinks. In the last 5 years or so the ammount of sub men and dom woman exploded and the age people get into harder kinks is lower and lower what i find problematic. Harder kinks are not a hobby it is a pillar of trust that you share but maybe the old man in me thinks so hehe.
SirCoffee
2025-03-01 14:23:46 +0000 UTCYeah, at one point, what we did was before anyone was allowed to join the community, they had to go to a meeting. In this meeting, we had someone teach the Redlight method instead of, What's your safe word? It makes things universal and so I also teach that in my books. Then it would also teach Consent, which is sadly lacking in North American society for reasons I won't get into. Then we would teach that negotiation is a healthy start to relationships and red flags. It was fine if they LIKED those things, but putting out your traumas (Which are all too common), like, I knew one Masochist where you could call her anything BUT Princess, you called her that, and you would have the next day or so consoling her because of childhood trauma. None of these completely stopped it, but we found that if they came into the community at least knowing many of these things, then you limit the number of people hurt by the bad actors. Can't eliminate it though which is sad but true. The worst is the Number of Women who completely take advantage of Masochistic or Submissive men. The general lack of Dominatrix women make it so that men get abused and are scared to leave the relationship because they think they will never find another dominant woman again. Which is a massive issue in almost all BDSM communities I have been involved in.
Madjic
2025-03-01 14:00:59 +0000 UTCYeah there are sadly more and more of them. And new subs think or more get told to it is normal or just dont know what is appropiat and what not. That is the good and bad thing about bdsm communitys there are tight knit but when someone in power does something the person gets often protectet. Sorry that you where in such a community, always sad to expirience something like that. Hope you found a good new one! Im glad that im way more dominant then an S, could see that when your are strong in both stuff can get in to your head and you get worse. The bonding in BDSM is great it has so mane facetts and it is so strong build on trust that i see a lot of good relationships come out of it. And little question how do you put Distance in your text?(handy?)
SirCoffee
2025-03-01 13:52:26 +0000 UTCSafety in play is one of the things that I like to emphasize, Bad actors too. The first BDSM Community I was in had a Dominant that was a community head for a couple of years. Pillar of the community, and we learned that he was taking the New Masochist women and pressuring them into things they were clearly not ready for. He was sinister about it too, he made it look like they just were not cut out for the BDSM life when it was him doing bad things. When one of the people he pressured was a closeted Switch though and had a couple extra friends that she talked about what he did, things blew up. It was a huge Drama that splintered the community, which I hate to see. The guy was a piece of shit and we later got in contact with over twenty women that he did this too before they were discovered. Bad actors are also what is shown in the media a lot. I hate reading in books, some of them I love to death, but still show BDSM as such a thing for the worst types of people. It hurts to see, but the truth is, it is all too common in communities to have predators. Why? Because Dominants are not only encouraged to be Predators, but really, Sadists are the reason. In my personal life, I sit with any person I dominate and I go over things with them slowly, with a negotiation phase. I never play with someone on any drugs or alcohol, unless I have been dating them for at least a year, and never the hardcore stuff. Anyways, Bonding with a bottom while you both dominate another bottom, Its fucking awesome, and you know your bottom is watching and imagining you doing everything your doing to them. They feed off it, and I hear that the emotional high is amazing. Thank you for the compliments.
Madjic
2025-03-01 01:09:26 +0000 UTCThat Chapter was on fire. First i love how you put a big aspect on safety, cleanliness, diseases and most important Bad actors. BDSM is a high risk fetishes where all of this very important and often described very bad in things like that! And man this chapter delivered everything and so many fetishes and i love how crystal turns sometimes into a dom. I love when my woman a sub trough and trough sometimes turn into one when we do something together and it feels special. (teamwork makes the bitch work)
SirCoffee
2025-03-01 00:02:28 +0000 UTCDamn now I want to read what happens next, and how Angela makes her lose the bet and what crystals sadistic plan for her is
jdhawks94
2025-02-28 11:48:18 +0000 UTC
