benjaminkoll

Jacuzzi one last time 💦☺️🍰

Added 2024-06-05 13:24:45 +0000 UTC

Good morning, guys! It's #wetwednesday again, so let's go back to this jacuzzi photo shoot one last time. It'll be a great way to relax after the last bunch of intense posts. I'll bring the cake! 🍰💦☺️

It took me about a month to decide and write those posts. I think we need more information in the gay community for older guys. There's not much there in the open. It was my urologist who gave me the last push when I had the revision. When I asked him why there was so little good info for our segment of the population on matters of aging related to sex and other body functions, he told me, "Women have every kind of doctor for that, but we men have the tendency to keep those things to ourselves."

I thought about different ways of approaching this. My main issue is that I'm not a doctor, so giving health advice from my position would seem unethical. But then, everybody is an expert on TikTok, so it wouldn't raise any eyebrows, but still, I would feel responsible. Doing a podcast series on YouTube sounds tempting, but the censorship is real. I'm sure that I would have many problems with open social media just by saying the words "erection" or "mature gay," as they don't like older, big gay guys. So I decided to test the waters by posting these two stories here and on my other two subscribers' pages. I really hope it was helpful for any of you. That's my goal from the start.

Now back to rehearsals! The show next Saturday is looking great, but I need to rehearse and rehearse until I don't forget my lyrics anymore. Crazy, isn't it? 😅 Have a great Wednesday 😘❤️