QUICK FIX for FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM
Added 2025-09-17 15:46:54 +0000 UTC**Compatible with the latest game patch from November 4!**
Sorry! I forgot to upload the new file when I edited this post! The most recent file is "EllaNoir_FlirtyFetishesBDSiM_vSept_ForAll" Please make sure that one is the one you've downloaded!
EDIT October 12: Hey! So I have heard you and I have created a new debug option for BDSiM Insight Trait! Simply click on your Sim, got to the FlirtyFetishes pie menu, click on "Instant Aftercare," et voila! Your sensitive Sim no longer is upset.
This feature will stay but please know I am working on more things to make this feature better. All the while, my team is working on new things we are going to add that are going to be dirty and just the right kind of weird!
This is not considered the new monthly version! Just a quick fix for y'all who need it for the BDSiM Trait. Stay tuned for a new update this month!
Note: Do not add the BDSiM Insight if you do not want the SimDrop features!
EDIT: FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM mod is compatible with the game patch from Sept. 18!
Hey! This month's update has some updated elements, all in preparation for the new tier and what I will be creating going forward!
I am really excited to say that strap-ons are now available for Sims (with vaginas) to equip during the BDSiM Training Session. Thanks to TURBODRIVER, your Sims can suck plastic like any ol' penis now in my BDSM mod for The Sims 4!
Change Log:
Collar slave Social Interaction has been moved from the D/s Dynamic pie menu you to the Master or Mistress menus.
Added sounds to breast animations
Replaced Mistress icon with new and improved version
Fixed male erection
Added strap-on option for Training Session
Changed Inflict Pain menu icon
Something else new you might want to join, is The "Secret" Secret Society tier! With limited slots, this tier gives you access to beta testing, more exclusive polls, and the opportunities to get your fetishes heard and engage with me and others in the BDSiM Community!
*Lock in the $15 price before it goes up to $20 now! If you have questions, let me know!
Comments
I had to remove the BDSiM Insight on my Sim because of the 18 day long moodlet for low BDSiM meter. The Debug did not work. Moodlet Solver did not work. I have the latest version installed, TS4Script is in the right place. I am not sure why it is not working, but the mood decay is not disabled (if it is supposed to be), and the debug to resolve it does nothing.
Seleos
2025-11-16 00:40:13 +0000 UTCBeing in love doesn't make a difference. As long as they each have one BDSiM trait, they can be in a D/s Dynamic. In the current version of FlirtyFetishes, there is no "Dominant" or "submissive" trait. So ensure you have the correct traits and not one from another mod. Check out the guide pinned at the top to see!
EllaNoir
2025-11-12 21:39:12 +0000 UTCI cant get them to create a D/s relationship. They are both in love with opposite traits (dominant/submissive) but it doesn't work. Can I have more than one trait or if a sim is dominant they can´t be degrading at the same time? Maybe that´s the problem?
tamy delgado
2025-11-10 22:45:28 +0000 UTCthank you <3
Daishinkan Sama
2025-10-15 22:05:42 +0000 UTCyay!
Crystalfairy
2025-10-14 21:40:27 +0000 UTCOMG AFTERCARE 😭😭.
SSimmer
2025-10-13 13:50:55 +0000 UTCHi! Are you asking to add this to my mod?
EllaNoir
2025-10-13 06:36:00 +0000 UTCYou can upload photos, images or posters of the Halloween-esque animatronics and costumes with the Halloween theme 🎃 please
Erick Miguel Romero Gutiérrez
2025-10-13 06:13:31 +0000 UTCHey! Can you tell me more so I know what to look for, please. Thanks!
EllaNoir
2025-10-04 23:36:16 +0000 UTCjust a heads up, i think the mod might be having issues. i can't get any of the master/slave stuff to work, but the rest of the mod is working fine
Aera Thorsdottir
2025-10-04 23:21:24 +0000 UTCHi! Welcome! Check out this new guide I just created: https://www.patreon.com/posts/flirtyfetishes-89176995
EllaNoir
2025-09-19 15:23:36 +0000 UTCHi! I am downloading this mod for the first time, however, I am not well versed in mods so I am unsure how to play it...I've downloaded the package you linked to this post, and I've clicked on the inclusive package to play, but don't see any bdsim traits in my aspirations so I don't think I'm doing it correctly :( im not great with computers so could you kinda guide me on how to start it? thank you!!
ashli g
2025-09-18 23:31:32 +0000 UTC
