Cutting short my abandonment cycle
Added 2022-09-25 10:59:01 +0000 UTCGood morning,
Let's talk about feeling abandoned. I just had a really interesting connection with a crush last week, which set off a small abandonment wound cycle. But, I found self soothing and security within a matter of days. It was so interesting to see a complex trauma response and recovery cycle in such a condensed amount of time. Today, I'll share what happened and how I moved through it. Maybe that will be of service to you.
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
00:44 Background
01:26 Realizing risk of an abandonment cycle
03:33 Noticing flags
07:25 Post-hookup drop and withdrawal
09:50 Separating the old from the new
12:15 Self soothing and negotiating with them
15:34 Coming out of the abandonment cycle
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Warmly,
Morgan
Comments
Wow this is so helpful. Thank you ❤️ I’d love to hear more stories from you like it. Also, how do you build your support network? How do long distance poly relationships between 2 travelers look like?
PoppySeed
2022-11-12 06:48:15 +0000 UTCthank you <3
jaykay
2022-10-02 06:33:45 +0000 UTC
