My Best Worst One Night Stand
Added 2022-08-21 16:10:01 +0000 UTCHi cutie!
Today's video is about the best "worst one night stand" I've had recently, and how I advocated for myself before, during and afterward. I hope it may be of service to you!
Chapters:
00:00 Preamble
00:40 Intro
01:33 Building a polyam dating profile
04:14 Texting and vetting
05:48 Getting to know each other
08:11 Am I dating with monogamous checklists?
09:24 Going back to his place
11:17 Negotiations and sex
13:11 Going home and giving myself aftercare
15:07 Getting aftercare from my nesting partner
16:15 Resisting the urge to ghost
18:41 Reflecting on past one night stands
Closed captions included; Full transcript PDF attached to this post on Patreon.
Hugs,
Morgan
Comments
The first video I've watched since subscribing finally, and I loved it! Listening to your vetting process made me feel relatable like, "I'm very political I'd want my partner regardless of relationship to want to share my thoughts and interests" or having a very open and not limited checklist; the anarchist side. Made me realize that I'm definitely that I'm definitely a relationship anarchist myself, which feels comforting because I could never describe my vetting process. I loved the atmosphere and format and the outfit ๐ฅฐ can't wait to go through the backlog!
Gordon
2022-08-28 16:49:10 +0000 UTCThank you Morgan for sharing this private information for the community, it's really appreciated. I recently had a very similar experience to the one you share here and I've been struggling to explain to my other partners about how nothing bad happened, but the communication was not good, consent was kind of assumed, but ultimately I felt a positive experience, even if underwhelming, because I stepped in and advocated for better communication. Hearing you talk this through helped me put some of this stuff into words, for my own benefit and to help me articulate to others.
Sarah Hall
2022-08-22 08:18:56 +0000 UTC
