Intimate Insights by Ember Solaris

Madonna's Wh*res: Reclaiming Life Post Purity Culture

https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/W_uDFLqSS3a_fz250svSdg

Tonight at 6pm EDT. Det...

Risk Aware 2.0 for (Especially Higher Risk) Kink: The Essential Frameworks

How (and Why) to be a Monster F*cker

BDSM Bio Basics: Risk Aware Hygiene

Inclusive Anatomy for Vulva Sharps

Inclusive Penile Anatomy for CBT

Anatomy class

The Neurobiology of Consent in Sex and Kink

Slides: https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1H1SB1w5jIw5K...

Sex Positivity in BDSM

Scarification with Scalpels

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Month 2 Draft

Month 2: Self-Consent and Embodied Awareness

Bloodboarding Class

This class is for advanced sharps players and waterboarders. See Liquid Will for foundational information.

Month 1 of Draft

Day 5: Legal vs Ethical Consent ✴️

This exercise has a 🧩 Consent Foundations track addition.

Assignment:

Write two definitions of consent:

• ...

  2025-06-09 16:50:11 +0000 UTC View Post

Liquid Will

Recording of Liquid Will.

Day 4: Agency Is Not Just Saying Yes

Reflection Prompt:

• When was the last time you chose something because it felt aligned—not because it was expected or the easiest path? 

• What did...

  2025-05-11 17:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 2: Consent Is More Than a Yes

Assignment:

• Make a list of five reasons someone might say yes to something (sexual, kinky, an unwanted work assignment, or something else) that isn't truly consensual...

  2025-05-10 17:00:07 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 1: What Does Consent Mean to You?

Month 1: Understanding Consent in a World That Undermines It—Foundations of Consent

Week 1: Defining Consent Beyond Compliance

Weekly Focus: Breaking down what consen...

Book Announcement: 365 Days of Consent Culture Exercises for Kinksters

By Ember Solaris

I'm excited to announce my upcoming book, "365 Days of Consent Culture Exercises for Kinksters". Parts and sneak peeks of the book will start being posted here for subscriber...

Complimentary Ticket to Risk Aware 2.0

The link above will get you a free ticket to attend should you like to use it. The event is pay what you can otherwise.

RSVP here: 2025-03-13 00:27:07 +0000 UTC View Post

My Discord and Monster Fucking Chat

Okay, I've opened a Monster Fucking chat in my own Discord since I'm not sure whether or not Kinky Kollege's is just for event attendees. 2025-02-06 20:41:47 +0000 UTC View Post

Self Harm/NSSI and Improving Your Relationship to Pain in Kink

Slides link: https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/...

Beyond Fear: Stalking Awareness and Safety Measures

Monster Fuckers Recording

Hi Delightfuls!

Here's the recording and other info from Monster Fuckers. Since it is so sexually explicit, I have not posted it on Youtube, because Youtube will strike me. Instead I'm shari...

Deciding Whether to Break Up

Understanding Relationships and Breakups

Emotional First Aid for Kinksters

Slides: https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1ckqSfYTKOy5g...

Verbal Self Defense

Science of Sleep for Kinksters

Avoiding the Creep Factor

Intro to Neurodiversity

For Neurotypical Partners