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Genevieve King

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It's OK to Ask to Feel Special

A big warm welcome to new community members Lauren, Alyssa, Kristie, Alan, Christine, Elena, Seline and Fen! You're the reason I do what I do!

Today, cuties, as a follow-up to the LDR video l...

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10 Ways to Cope with Long Distance Relationships

Hi cutie!

The top request this week was to hear about coping with LDRs, since even local partnerships can feel like they're long distance during quarantine. So today, I offer you 10 ways that...

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Questions we can ask when tempted to text an ex (who needs to stay an ex)

Times are lonely right now, so we can all be forgiven for romanticizing any memory of IRL connection. That said, some people really do need to stay in our past.

So when I find myself feeling ...

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10 Ways to Cope with Social Distancing

This is a stressful, uncertain time. So I've put together 10 ways to feel less shitty as we cope with the social ramifications of COVID19:

1. Mind your temperature. If you’...

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On Stabilizing As We Grow

Hi cutie!

As I prep for my international move tomorrow, the stress got me thinking about sustainability during growth. Specifically, how much we need to stabilize our foundation when we go fu...

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New Resource: The Jealousy Workbook

A big warm welcome to our new community members Emily, Stacie, Melanie, Veronica, Mary Jane, Rebecca, Baylee, Maria and Nadine! So happy to see our extended chosen family expanding like this!

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3 Ways to Heal a Vulnerability Hangover

Ever been vulnerable, then started second-guessing everything? Brené Brown coined the term "Vulnerability Hangover" to describe this feeling.

In today's Patron Exclusive video, I share 3 way...

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Should we keep exes in our lives?

A big warm welcome to our new community members Ella, Anne, Katie and Köatzin!

So cutie, we've talked about breakups recently, and I want to expand on the post-breakup process. Non-monogamy ...

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Review: "Spiritual Polyamory" (Mystic Life, 2004)

Happy Sunday! And a warm welcome to our new community members Sam, Lauren, Emily, Sylver and Samone!

Today, let's unpack how the book Spiritual Polyamory...

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New Resource: "Love Without Emergency (I Want This but I Feel Like I'm Going to Die)"

Hi cutie!
Originally this was going to be a review of Clementine Morrigan's 35 page booklet Love Without Emergency, but it basically b...

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Interview: Roz, Jaz & Logan on Being an Open POC Throuple

This interview was a labor of love with cuties Roz, Jaz and Logan of @adventureswithchaco - I hope you enjoy!<...

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What if they just can't help us with this?

There can be a LOT of pressure on romantic and sexual relationships to be each others' primary emotional support, but sometimes our partners just can't help us (and vice versa!).

Today I shar...

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"They're making me feel crazy..."

Let's talk gaslighting, and how to navigate it. Below are 10 recent examples of gaslighting in my own life, and how I responded. Hopefully it can be of service to you!

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Dealing with 2 Very Different Relationships Simultaneously

Hi cutie! As you may know, I got married this week! I also got dumped. 

In this video, I unpack this as a case study to real-time processing of 2 extremely different relationship statuse...

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Review: FX's "The Americans"

Today, let's explore how The Americans defines "cheating" within consensual non-monogamy.

Spoilers ahead for seasons 1 & 2.

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You Don't Have to Be Over It

Hi cutie!
This is a very broad overview of how I stay patient during the slooowness that is evolving poly boundaries, and growing as people.

I offer a few core focuses that really serve me...

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Your Needs Are Not an Inconvenience

Hi cutie! 

Today's bonus video is about how I process my needs in real time, especially the ones I fear expressing. I hope this is helpful to you!

Hugs
M

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Review: Netflix's "She's Gotta Have It"

The following contains spoilers for Netflix's ...

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Interview: Laura & David on Sustaining an Open Marriage

Today, I chat with hierarchical spouses Laura & David (together for 10 years, poly for 4).
Feel free to skip to the timecode of your choice!

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10 Alternatives to "I Can't" or "No, Thanks"

Saying no to friends or partners can be uncomfortable. We need to draw lines and set proper expectations, but don't want to cause harm to them, or the relationship.

I don't use the te...

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10 Phrases to Express Our Needs Effectively

Hey cutie!

You ever been told, "just talk to them about it"? But how do we even start? Or what if we already tried, and it went terribly?

In this video, I offer 10 phrases that help me ...

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How to Defend Polyamory (if you choose to)

Today we look at how to self-advocate (if you choose to) around non-monogamy, especially with judgmental or defensive family members.

Willow Smith is our case study!
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Challenging the Premise(s) of the Relationship Escalator

Hi cutie,

Today, I'm sharing a piece that I basically just rewrote from scratch, based on an archive post from 3 years ago. I want my Patreon archive to stay fresh, so I'll often go through a...

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Interview: Brody on Solo Poly and Transgender Love

Today, I chat with Brody @brody_polinsky about the following topics! Feel free to...

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Review: "Black Mirror" & Digitally Simulated Non-monogamy

The following contains spoilers for Black Mirror (Season 5, Episode 1: "Striking Vipers").<...

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Patron Exclusive: How to Answer Sex-Negative Questions

Trying a new format this week, let me know your thoughts!

Today we look at how to push back on ignorant questions about non-monogamy, while staying composed and not getting d...

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New Resource: "Normalizing Non-Monogamy" Podcast

If you're hungry for even more chats about non-monogamy, here are some cuties with a lively and nuanced podcast!

Hope it serves.
xx
Morgan

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Interview: Sierra on V's and Interracial Love

Interview Number 1, baby! These interviews are 100% funded by patrons.

Today, I chat with Sierra 2019-06-30 12:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post

Review: "Bojack Horseman" & the 8 Dad Polycule



I’ve been searching far and wide for more complicated polycules in pop culture...

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🔓 1st patreon goal unlocked

We hit our 50+ community goal! Big thanks to Crystal, Kara and Madeleine for putting us over the mark!

Next I’ll start interviewing poly folx from all over the spectrum of relationship styl...

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