In the beginning, when kink is still new, you follow the widely followed. You go to event hosts for your kink education and K&P to learn about consent. Surely the kink scene knows who knows, so...
2024-02-26 05:15:20 +0000 UTC View PostYesterday, an alt-med practitioner posted a request to our local community board: Would someone please send him the details of the member who’d shared about her depression yesterday? He wanted to...
2024-02-23 15:44:15 +0000 UTC View PostSSC: Safe, Sane, and Consensual
RACK: Risk Aware Consensual Kink
CCCC: Caring, Communication, Consent, and Caution
CCCCCCS: Cuddly, Cute, Caring, and Communicative. Oh, and Colour...
2024-02-22 03:51:52 +0000 UTC View PostA few weeks back, a Fet friend asked the question, “Is there really a difference between COVID and syphilis?” They’re both pathogens that can be spread through sexual contact, so is the very ...
2024-02-20 05:10:46 +0000 UTC View Post
The standard Zulu greeting translates into English as “I see you.” I’ve always loved that little piece of language for all it says about connection. It doesn’t waste time with empty words. ...
2024-02-19 07:09:16 +0000 UTC View PostAn ex once convinced me to walk over the guard rail on a cliff edge. I was still having epileptic seizures in those days, so I didn’t climb ladders, let alone unguarded cliffs. I didn’t do ...
2024-02-19 06:35:17 +0000 UTC View PostMasochist’s Pride.
My pain threshold was low that day, and I felt I owed you more.
I didn’t want the scene to end.
I didn’t want to disappoint you.
My words...
2024-02-17 08:26:36 +0000 UTC View PostMonday:
Checks email. Finds no messages. Eats a block of chocolate and watches Terminator 2 in slow motion for the seventh time this month.
Tuesday:
P...
2024-02-17 08:20:38 +0000 UTC View PostWhen you’re depressed, they’ll tell you that the sun will come out tomorrow, as though your life is an Annie film and your disorder comes from some mystical place outside of you. And they will ...
2024-02-16 05:00:17 +0000 UTC View PostFirst, understand me. Understand my body. Understand how it connects with my mind. I’m not a servant of my own anatomy, so no amount of technical skill will ever be enough. I don’t care if Mrs ...
2024-02-14 10:44:18 +0000 UTC View PostJay is like every other person at this play party: Trussed up in gorgeous kink gear with an entire suitcase full of toys. It’s your first play party, and everyone’s been here longer than you ha...
2024-02-13 10:04:45 +0000 UTC View PostHaving a sense of entitlement is a lot like living with an alien growing out of your forehead. We can all see it, even if you can’t. You should probably consider looking in a mirror, but you neve...
2024-02-12 04:44:12 +0000 UTC View PostWhen I confront men about their lazy Fetlife messages, they always tell me they can’t use better pick up strategies. They have too many internet strangers to get through. They’ll only put in th...
2024-02-10 04:46:08 +0000 UTC View PostBefore 2016 dawned in all its glittery splendour, I used to write posts about why I wasn’t into rope. I was interested in the psychological elements of BDSM, you see. If a man needed to ...
2024-02-10 04:41:14 +0000 UTC View PostEvery time I speak out against… well… literally anything, someone tells me there’s no point in bothering. Things never change, you see, so we should all just join hands and sing “kumbaya”...
2024-02-07 11:23:22 +0000 UTC View PostI once loved a man who got his kink inspiration from his Fetlife inbox. BDSM was Christmas morning, and you could find a thousand play ideas under the tree. If you wanted kink, all you had to do wa...
2024-02-05 03:24:58 +0000 UTC View Post
