Good morning cutie,
Let's talk about compersion today, and how it's not always accessible.
If it's a new term to you, compersion is when you feel happiness for a partner about the...
2021-11-07 11:00:03 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie,
Lots of you are planning the holidays right now, so let's talk about it. As we all know, it can be tricky to plan big events when multiple people hold a special place in your life.<...
2021-10-31 11:00:00 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie,
It's review time again! Today we'll be looking at the real-life throuple behind the creation of Wonder Woman, as portrayed in Professor Marston and the Wonder Women.
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2021-10-24 10:26:31 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie,
A number of patrons have requested some resources on parenting. Being a non-parent myself, I need to outsource the wisdom. :)
If you're also a non-parent, these can still abso...
2021-10-17 15:13:24 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning cutie,
As most of you know, I'm not a fan of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policies because of their low sustainability long-term. In my experience, fears and insecurities aren't sooth...
2021-10-10 11:38:13 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie and happy Sunday!
So a few months back, I shared some pitfalls that can happen in Parallel Polyamory, a...
2021-10-03 11:42:49 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie,
I've chatted with a few folks this month about relationship restructuring, and figured it might be worthwhile to make a larger post about it.
One of my favorite parts of polya...
2021-09-26 12:59:27 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie,
I hope you are resting and loving on yourself this weekend!
Today, by request, I'm exploring a bit more on the topic of fear responses. I've designed this quick check in as a ...
2021-09-19 09:18:31 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie,
I hope your weekend is calm and that you're able to rest and restore. :)
Not sure how I'm *just* hearing about this podcast, 2021-09-12 11:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning cutie,
Storytime again. Let's discuss very elevated trauma responses, and mindful ways to seek support, deescalate, and repair. I'll use an example of something that happened las...
2021-09-05 12:07:55 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie,
Many patrons asked for more case studies from my own personal life. I agree that examples can be helpful when translating theory into practice, so I'm happy to share them whenever I...
2021-08-29 09:08:29 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie!
This weekend you get 2 back-to-back resources, since there were some technical difficulties last week.
Today’s exercise is about strengthening our sexual commu...
2021-08-22 09:01:23 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning cutie, I hope you're having a lovely weekend!
I just stumbled upon this podcast, Amory, which has a de...
2021-08-08 13:00:00 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning cutie, and happy Sunday!
Today, I'd like to share a personal story about territorialism. Despite practicing polyamory for nearly 10 years, I still experience these impulses, espe...
2021-08-01 11:00:04 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning, cutie!
Today, I want to share an audio resource that dives into some long term effects of being cheating on, and how we can continue to unpack it and restore trust with our part...
2021-07-18 12:31:10 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie!
A lot of folks are asking me for some new TikTok resources, as they’re using that app as much as Instagram these days. I’m also getting requests for trustworthy cis male polyamo...
2021-07-04 08:38:05 +0000 UTC View PostIf you've not seen Special on Netflix, check it out. It's a young adulthood story from a disabled point of view, with our protagonist Ryan, who has cerebral palsy. He explores the complexi...
2021-06-27 11:00:05 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning cutie,
With today being Father's Day, I want to validate those among us who have a fractured relationship with their parent(s). Even if you have a moderate-to-fine relationship w...
2021-06-20 09:02:42 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning, cutie ☀️
Today, I’m reviewing some conflict resolution skills that can be easy to forget in the heat of the moment, or when overwhelmed by intense emotions.
While th...
2021-06-13 12:47:34 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie and happy Sunday!
I've gotten requests for more podcast recommendations, and this one actually comes from a fellow patron. On 2021-06-06 10:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
Let's travel back in time today, and look at the representation of swinging culture in 1997’s hit film Austin Powers: International Man of Mystery.
I'll caution my trans cuties and...
2021-05-16 10:00:05 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie and happy Sunday!
So I posted a reel on Instagram recently about parallel polyamory, and was asked...
2021-05-09 10:00:02 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie and happy Sunday!
Today, I've been asked to talk about implied or covert vetoes that can exist even within "non veto power" dynamics. This is an aspect of 2021-04-25 11:59:22 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie!
With April being Autism Awareness Month, I want to spotlight Poly Philia, operated by an autistic relationship anarchist. They speak candidly about being on the spectrum, and outlin...
2021-04-18 10:00:02 +0000 UTC View PostSeveral patrons have reached out to me about decoupling in a way that still keeps you in each others' lives. So, let's talk about it!
Restructuring your romantic dynamic into something aroman...
2021-04-11 11:00:00 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning cutie,
Today, I'm drafting some questions to consider when vetting new couples or triads. This may be for just swinging or play, or if you're looking to build a relationship that...
2021-04-04 10:00:00 +0000 UTC View PostToday, by request, I’ve drafted up some questions we can consider when getting to know new (individual) polyam partners. There are slightly different considerations when getting to know an existi...
2021-03-21 11:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning cutie,
If you’re anything like me, it can be really hard to find mental health professionals who seem down-to-earth and collaborative. Or maybe you find someone you like but th...
2021-03-07 11:40:35 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie,
Today I'm offering another look behind the curtain. Here is a text exchange I had with a new person I'm dating (view in browser or on Patreon app if unable to see images). ...
2021-02-21 11:53:11 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning and Happy Valentine's Day!
So you may have seen my IG threads this week on toxic monogamy, and all the ways that mono scripts can make us feel insecure, regardless of relationshi...
2021-02-14 11:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post