Hi cutie!
@midavihayden is a beautiful trans artist in the American South, who is both polyamorous and asexual. Their tools on negotiating different sexual appetites (or lack thereof) can ben...
2021-01-31 18:55:24 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning cutie,
Today, I've developed an audio resource to help you navigate the role of supporting your partner as they go through a breakup.
Of course, this assumes they are...
2021-01-17 11:00:03 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning cutie,
I hope you're experiencing a sense of calm and closeness with the people in your life, especially my American community. It's been a very long first week of 2021, so let's...
2021-01-10 11:00:02 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie and happy new year!
A warm welcome to all the new community members who joined in the last 2 weeks. I’m so grateful for your support, and so happy to serve you.
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Happy Sunday, cutie!
A warm welcome to new community members Michelle, Liz, Laura, Ash, Autumn, Erika, Ren, Makensie, Shelby, Cherish, Aquila, Felicia, Rebekah and Giana. I'm so gratefu...
2020-12-27 12:45:05 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie!
A warm welcome to all the new community members! A lot of Patrons had to scale back or leave this platform in 2020, but because of you, Patreon continues to pay my bills, and I'm so...
2020-12-13 12:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie and happy Sunday!
I found myself referring penpals to The ...
2020-12-06 12:00:02 +0000 UTC View PostToday, by request, I'm offering an audio guide to meeting new metamours for the first time. What should you consider? How should you plan it? What if it doesn't go well?
I hope this serves. 2020-11-22 11:38:30 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie and happy Sunday!
By request, let's chat about Sneakiarchy today. It's a term coined by Amy Gahran (Aggie Sez), and it's basically when a self-proclaimed non-hierarchy engages in und...
2020-11-15 11:16:54 +0000 UTC View PostSome good news and bad news. The original files of my interview with Ben were damaged, unfortunately. But, we've still got backup audio that will do the job! So I cleaned them up a...
2020-11-01 10:32:54 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie!
A lot of people are reaching out to me, feeling frustrated about sex right now. Specifically, feeling a low libido, or just being "off" sexually with one or more of their partners.<...
2020-10-25 11:00:00 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie,
Yesterday, I asked everyone on IG what you're still struggling with in relationships. The number 1 answer was conflict resolution.
So let's talk about the most i...
2020-10-18 10:04:19 +0000 UTC View PostHi cuties and happy Sunday!
First a quick update on my availability! For all Penpal tiers, to meet the growing demand, I will reply within 7 days but still do my best to send...
2020-10-04 09:54:52 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie!
Question for the polyam folks: Are you, or is someone you love, interested in a monogamous person?
Or maybe you're monogamous (in which case ...
2020-09-27 07:19:37 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie, and a warm welcome to new community members Ania, Kari, CK, Laura, Jessamyn, B, Ruchita and Amy!
Today, as promised, I'm unpacking my recent breakup for you. I filmed this spontaneo...
2020-09-20 14:48:31 +0000 UTC View PostHi there,
I'm preparing a video soon about the breakup I had this past week, including the role that body dissociation played in my suppression of anger, and staying in an under-performing dy...
2020-09-13 09:23:25 +0000 UTC View Post
Happy Sunday, cutie!
On today's Part II of long distance love, my nesting partner and I discuss digital sex, uncertain travel plans, and navigating texting / communication boundaries on digit...
2020-09-06 16:09:15 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie!
As you may know, my nesting partner was finallyyy able to join me in Berlin after almost 6 months separated, due to COVID-19. So we took questions on Instagram about maintaining lon...
2020-08-30 16:53:55 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie!
I'm getting a lot of questions about queer femme sex, which is still a relatively young topic for me, as well. So I want to recommend Sam 2020-08-23 09:26:45 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie,
I'm considering developing a detailed Relationship Inventory workbook. So in preparation for that, let's give my first idea a whirl! (And my standard disclaimer around these kin...
2020-08-09 18:00:03 +0000 UTC View PostHi cutie!
Question: Does your relationship look like it's changing?
Maybe there's escalation into living together, meeting their family, or even planning a weddin...
2020-08-09 11:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie,
Today, I'm offering you a look behind the curtain. Here is a sequence of texts between me and a new partner (view in browser or on Patreon app to see images). It's a case s...
2020-07-19 10:59:57 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie and happy Sunday!
In searching for relatable podcasts that discuss solo polyamory, I found these awesome folx speaking freely about a lot of taboo topics. This episode is spe...
2020-07-12 12:00:04 +0000 UTC View Post
Happy Sunday and a warm welcome to new community members Jasmine, Vieve and Stephanie!
Question: do you ever feel like your body knows something is wrong before your brain is quite sure why? ...
2020-07-05 14:00:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie,
As promised, today I'm offering a framework for how we may be able to come back from cheating (if everyone involved wants to, of course). It's tricky to discuss these things in gene...
2020-06-21 13:04:42 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie,
This week Kevin Patterson of @polyrolemodels, author of required reading 2020-06-07 15:25:55 +0000 UTC View Post
Ever agreed to something with a partner, but they got upset about how you did it? This could be an issue with Continued Consent in the dynamic. Today I've compiled a few things that help me prevent...
2020-05-24 12:59:10 +0000 UTC View Post
Happy Sunday! And a warm welcome to our new community members Vanessa, Michelle, Jacob, Amelia and Opri!
So we've discussed the Fight / Flight reaction a fair amount, and how...
2020-05-17 08:39:21 +0000 UTC View Post
Happy Sunday, cuties! And a warm welcome to new community members Erin, Natalie, Nelly, Cydney, Lou, Jenny, Emilie, Caileigh, JJ, Julz, Kirstin and Kaylah!
Several folks requested...
2020-05-10 10:05:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Today, I chat with sensuality coach Bree @baebaeleche (polyamorous for 10 years) on ...
2020-05-03 10:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post