Genevieve King

Small steps, Big changes, Part 4: Location and Collaboration

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Coming up next in this mini series on taking small steps toward big changes, let's talk about the Where and Who of it all.

Do we know who all might be impacted by ...

Small steps, Big changes, Part 3: Timeline and Pacing

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Today, I'm continuing my series on taking small steps toward big changes. This week, I explore the logistical but also sometimes emotional When of it all. What is the tim...

Small steps, Big changes, Part 2: Why do we want this?

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Today, I'm continuing my series on taking small steps toward big changes. This week, I offer some prompts and considerations for the Why of it all. What are our motives? ...

Small steps, Big changes, Part 1: What is the goal?

Hello and happy Sunday, I hope you're having a lovely day. ☀️

I'm starting a series on taking small steps toward big changes. It's an often requested topic that always felt daunting to tr...

After a breakup, what about our mutual friends...?

Good morning and happy Sunday, I hope you're having a beautiful day and a beautiful weekend.

Today, by request, let’s explore potential ripple effects of breakups. Since we usually have mut...

LIVE CHAT: On Boundaries vs Demands, One Penis Policy, and Proving Fears Wrong

Here's the video and transcript from yesterday's Live Chat! The next one will be some time mid/late autumn, I hope to see you there again.

Chapters:

• 00.00 Intro /...
  2023-07-17 13:32:03 +0000 UTC View Post

On Coming Out, Friendships in Adulthood, and how Hyper-Individualism hits our Fears of Abandonment...

I hope you're having a nice weekend (and if not, I do hope you have a person or people around to lean on).

Recently, a penpal suggested he could interview me from a patron's point of view, so...

Is anything causing Compassion Fatigue?

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I hope you're having a beautiful day and a lovely weekend. This past week, I made a ~60 second public video on compassion fatigue, and a lot of people said they relate. So, I ma...

Bonus Resource: Poly Pages podcast

Hi! I hope you're having a lovely Sunday and a great weekend. 

A lot of people ask for more podcast recommendations, but the space is surprisingly limited when it comes to non-monogamy. ...

What if partners communicate really differently?

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Today's video is patron-requested, which always makes me happy. I want to create resources that apply to your current situations, to the best of my ability.

Let's dig in a...

10 Signs it's Probably Going Well

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I hope that your weekend is going great. And if it’s not, I hope you’re still able to find a few bright spots of relaxation wherever you can.

Let’s talk about green ...

Are you putting yourself second?

Hello and happy Sunday, I hope you're having a beautiful day and a beautiful weekend. ☀️

Some weeks back, after the case study I posted on learning to say no, there were a few requests th...

"I hate this... when does it get easier?"

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I hope you're having a lovely weekend. Today, I'm answering a question that I get kind of a lot: “when does it get easier? I'm having a hard time, when do I stop struggling so...

LIVE CHAT: On Coping with "Firsts", Comparisons, and Wanting More Time Together

Here's the video and transcript from yesterday's Live Chat! The next one will be some time mid/late summer, I hope to see you there again.

Chapters:

00.00 Intro
00.5...

Polyam-Friendly Kids' Book: "A Color Named Love" (Ellery & Reschke)

Hi and happy international Mother's Day (if that's a thing you celebrate, or are)!

Being child-free myself, most of the polyam parenting resources I share will come from other people...

5 Questions about Sex I Wish I Asked Sooner

Good morning, and I hope you're having a lovely weekend!

So, lots of people ask me to make sex education videos but I'm unfortunately not a sex educator. However, I can definitely speak to th...

Case Study: Learning to Say "No"...

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Lots of folks have asked me to share more about detachment, codependency, and finding solid boundaries with people you love. And absolutely, I've got you.

Today, I'll shar...

15 Questions for Long Distance Relationships

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I hope you’re having a lovely weekend. Today’s resource will be a questionnaire, which I hope may be of service.

I’m often asked how to set boundaries in long distan...

"There's just not enough to go around" - Part Two

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Today, we'll continue exploring scarcity, specifically with renewable resources like energy or sexual desire. What is and isn't within our control? What plays into our fears, an...

"There's just not enough to go around" - Part One

Good morning and happy Easter, if you celebrate!

Today's chat will be about scarcity, specifically with finite resources like time or money. What do we do when there's not enough to go around...

Bonus Resource: From Armor to Ease podcast

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If you'll be attending my workshop later today with @polyphiliablog, I look forward to seeing you there! And if you can't make it but are still interested, the ...

LIVE CHAT: On Broken Expectations, Ambiamory, and the Myth of a Romantic / Platonic Binary

Here's the video and transcript from yesterday's Live Chat! The next one will be some time in May, I hope to see you there again.

Chapters:

• 00.00 What if your par...
  2023-03-27 16:15:19 +0000 UTC View Post

Time to Move on? 40 Questions to Ask

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I hope you’re having a lovely weekend. Today’s resource is text only, as I think it’s a better format for this kind of exercise.

A common question I get is, ...