Conflict prevention is an evergreen topic in polyamory (or dating of any kind), especially when navigating more complex relationship dynamics. What is our business? What is important to omit or dis...
2023-01-22 13:05:54 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi! Hope your new year is off to a lovely start.
Today, I'll dive into an aspect of restructuring relationships that often gets requested: how to cope with rejection. Sometimes, the feelings ...
2023-01-08 14:54:25 +0000 UTC View PostHappy new year!
As we enter 2023, I’d like to offer some relationship check in questions that may be of service to you. I designed this with solo reflection in mind, but of course you can a...
2023-01-01 11:59:01 +0000 UTC View PostMerry Christmas if you celebrate! 🎄
We're starting YEAR FIVE of this Patreon, I absolutely can't believe it. So, I want to hear from you! What kind of resource topics will benefit ...
2022-12-25 10:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning cutie,
If you're not yet familiar with Laura Boyle @readyforpolyamory, she often shares thoug...
2022-12-18 11:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi!
Thanks for your patience on my upload of the final video, as one person requested I remove their question from it first.
Here is an abridged version of yesterday's live chat, in cas...
2022-12-12 15:17:54 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie!
Quick note that my next Patron Live Chat will be Sunday, December 11 at 11AM PDT / 2PM EST / 8PM Berlin. If you can't come, please DM me your quest...
2022-12-04 13:23:51 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning cutie,
I’m continuing the series on digital boundaries today. If you missed Part 1, you can see it he...
2022-11-27 17:56:28 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning cutie,
Today, let's talk about starting hard conversations with people we care about. I'm splitting this into two parts, the next of which will come on December 4th.
As alw...
2022-11-20 11:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning cutie,
I hope your week is going great. In this bonus video, I cover some ways that we can step back mindfully from a relationship without totally breaking up.
I imagine th...
2022-11-13 11:00:00 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning cutie,
Something I always want more discussion on is the topic of digital boundaries. Then I realized – I haven’t really discussed it yet, either. So, let’s get into it. 2022-11-06 15:15:59 +0000 UTC View Post
Great news that the 2nd workshop with @polyphiliablog is happening next Sunday, November 6 at 10AM PDT / 1PM EST / 6PM London.
If you missed the previous workshop on ...
2022-10-30 11:00:06 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie,
So I've been following @consent.wizardry the past few months, a project by non binary Intimacy Co...
2022-10-23 11:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie,
Here is an abridged version of today's live chat, in case you missed it! During these chats every 4-6 weeks, I welcome people to submit questions and we'll talk about anything you w...
2022-10-16 21:54:39 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning!
A few questions came in this week about how to describe our expectations of polyamory on a dating profile, and find matches who take that seriously. There are so many variables ...
2022-10-09 11:00:05 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning!
This week I got a request to explore couples' privilege, so let's talk about it. There are layers to it, and it can vary dramatically across social and institutional spaces. Oft...
2022-10-02 10:00:05 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning,
Let's talk about feeling abandoned. I just had a really interesting connection with a crush last week, which set off a small abandonment wound cycle. But, I found self soothing ...
2022-09-25 10:59:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning,
It's been a minute since I sourced a podcast for you, so here is one that I've spent some hours listening to this week. "Dear Poly" pod focuses on sexual exploration within poly...
2022-09-18 11:00:04 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning,
This week I'm expanding on a part of last week's video: the impulse to cut things off and run away immediately. When do we act on that reactivity, and when would be a good time ...
2022-09-11 12:00:07 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie,
Over the last week or so, I've ended 2 significant relationships in my life. One is short term, the other long term. One is romantic, the other non-romantic. I'll offer my experienc...
2022-09-04 09:23:04 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning,
I've made another long-form video for you today about supporting a partner who's in an emotionally abusive dynamic with his brother.
Chapters:
00:00 Content Warning<...
2022-08-28 15:05:58 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie!
Today's video is about the best "worst one night stand" I've had recently, and how I advocated for myself before, during and afterward. I hope it may be of service to you!
Cha...
2022-08-21 16:10:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie,
Here is today's live chat, in case you missed it!
Chapters:
00:00 Managing NRE as a third in triads
04:04 Advice for introverts
08:35 How...
2022-08-14 10:00:04 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning cutie,
Today, let’s explore the difference between transparency and “too much information”. We want to avoid keeping secrets, but also want to avoid tactle...
2022-07-31 13:37:05 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning cutie,
I hope your weekend is restful and peaceful. Today, I want to spotlight fellow polyam creators over at 2022-07-24 12:20:50 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning cutie,
Let’s talk about creating sustainable boundaries. What are some things we can ask ourselves to see if these agreements would feel good long-term?
2022-07-17 14:41:13 +0000 UTC
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Hi cutie,
Today, let's talk about moments that we aren't so proud of. We're human, we have baggage, so conflicts can get messy. How do we repair things after we mess up?
I'll s...
2022-07-10 13:59:37 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning cutie,
This week, by request, let’s talk about setting boundaries with friends who are in high risk romantic or sexual relationships. What do we do when they want to confide in...
2022-07-03 13:52:22 +0000 UTC View Post
Good morning cutie,
Today I want to share a thoughtful self-paced course about dismantling the norms of relationship escalation. Sex educator 2022-06-26 09:53:36 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie,
Let’s talk today about respecting the privacy of metamours. Specifically, when a partner has a story involving a metamour, how much of that is “our business” to know?
To...
2022-06-19 12:52:22 +0000 UTC View Post