If you grow up in a dysfunctional family, you will learn silence. Anything less exposes you to attack. Vulnerability is not a path towards intimacy, but an opportunity for abuse. And so you will sp...
2023-12-15 06:27:05 +0000 UTC View Post
This is my beach. This is the place I love.
2023-12-15 06:07:57 +0000 UTC
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I recently watched a two-year friendship melt into a toxic cesspool of gaslighting and mean-spiritedness. I cut contact based on two meagre conversations — Something my pre-kink self would never ...
2023-12-14 11:52:45 +0000 UTC View PostMe: He was literally running the country, but he never stood me up. Not once. He drove almost two hours to see me all through the week.
Jo: That’s lovely. So why did you break up?
Me: He wa...
Some sadists do this thing we do because they love BDSM.
Some sadists do it because they hate women.
Some dominants are in it for the power exchange, and some are in it because they nee...
2023-12-12 13:43:11 +0000 UTC View PostSome sadists do this thing we do because they love BDSM.
Some sadists do it because they hate women.
Some dominants are in it for the power exchange, and some are in it because they nee...
2023-12-12 05:46:33 +0000 UTC View PostI wigured I thould thell you awout my new wuzzy toy. The pwoblem ith I can’th thawk anywore affer my wight with my toy because my teef fell ouw. Oh wight. I’m noth thawking. I’m thyping. Lemm...
2023-12-10 05:41:25 +0000 UTC View PostI’m not a sub because I’m a submissive person. I’m a sub because I’m looking for that one rare human who makes me melt into a puddle of, “I’ll do anything you want me to.”
The m...
2023-12-10 05:27:14 +0000 UTC View PostYesterday I asked people to share questions they'd always been too scared to ask. One of them was, "Why did you love alcohol more than me?" I've tried, with permission, to answer that ques... 2023-12-09 03:47:34 +0000 UTC View Post
I don’t warn people that I delete personal insults from my threads because that ethic has existed since the age of enlightenment. When you came to my page, you had decades of life behi...
2023-12-08 06:04:22 +0000 UTC View PostI rarely trust my perceptions of people. My instincts with assholes have usually been en pointe, so if I’d spent my life trusting myself, my history would be steeped in rainbows and Chanel Number...
2023-12-08 05:54:17 +0000 UTC View PostWhen you first develop an interest in BDSM, kink is like Schrödinger’s cat. Maybe when you open the box, you’ll learn that kink isn’t as appealing as you thought it would be. Maybe you’ll ...
2023-12-08 05:42:30 +0000 UTC View PostBobby Dog always used to get underfoot, so I developed a habit of taking off my shoes when he was nearby. Before I learned my lesson, I was subject to a whole manner of dramatic yelps. It was frigh...
2023-12-07 12:20:01 +0000 UTC View Post
We did so many things and visited so many places. Fet friendships aren't always bunk.
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Ty was very good at The Sex™. You could tell by the two little lines that appeared between his eyes when he went down on you. He had a purpose. That purpose was to expose you to his Super Secret ...
2023-12-05 07:46:24 +0000 UTC View PostYou can get away with a thousand kinds of shitty behaviour if you’re dating in vanilla terrain. That world has biomes the size of China, so lies are easy to maintain.
This is not Vanilla La...
2023-12-05 07:44:40 +0000 UTC View PostYesterday I wrote a post called, “What Cis Men Should Know About Clits.” In the post, I said that mastering Sarah’s clit doesn’t master Jackie’s. You have to start afresh with every new p...
2023-12-04 06:00:24 +0000 UTC View PostA warm bath will improve your dopamine levels.
Music speaks to the soul, so make a playlist that suits your mood. Everybody Hurts, say. Or Back to Black. Or I Wanna Rip Out Your Eyes With My ...
2023-12-03 03:56:14 +0000 UTC View PostFet is a sex site. If you don't want to see dick, go to Facebook.
The fact that we’re on a kink site is not a reason to heed boundaries less. It’s a reason to be even mo...
2023-12-01 05:33:29 +0000 UTC View PostWhen I found out about Submit in February this year, one of the first questions people asked its founder was, “How can we be sure you aren't just another Elon Musk?” The answer? There would be ...
2023-12-01 05:19:17 +0000 UTC View PostHave you racked up a minimum of three days of solitude in a row?
Have you made a comprehensive list of pros and cons for attending the event?
Have you counted your spoons?
Will th...
2023-12-01 05:18:27 +0000 UTC View PostIf you ever become the target of online abuse, people will tell you it’s just the internet. This is a war against pixels, so you can just log off and get back to your white picket fence and daisi...
2023-11-29 05:07:03 +0000 UTC View PostWhen I learned of Submit in February this year, its founder told me he’d build his leadership structure in such a way as to encourage accountability. If the leader (himself) had to kowtow to the ...
2023-11-29 05:06:07 +0000 UTC View Post
This is Central Park from a horse carriage. MaggieLaFae planned an awesome day fo...
2023-11-27 06:59:18 +0000 UTC View Post
Somehow, everyone ended up getting me tours for my birthday this year, so I got to be a tourist in my c...
2023-11-27 06:46:44 +0000 UTC View PostWhen I was 13, I used to dream about confetti and white tulle. Prince Charming would throw away my glass slipper, sweep me up into his arms, and carry me to Marital Bliss Island where all the worth...
2023-11-27 06:36:56 +0000 UTC View PostSexuality is born in the least evolved part of our brains, so it isn’t the most rational kid at the party. Consensual nonconsent is an inherent part of my sexual darkness. If I hadn’t read abou...
2023-11-27 06:36:24 +0000 UTC View Post